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12 days late, negative pregnancy tests.. what's goin on?!
Name: BiGBOOTYjR | Date: Sep 22nd, 2008 1:35 AM
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I'm now 12 days late, I've taken 4 pregnancy tests.. all negative! My last period was on August 10th, and I did have unprotected sex on the 23rd-26th. On Sept. 10th the day I was SUPPOSE to start my period [which I thought I did] I spotted for two days, really light red/pink blood, and the 2nd day was brown almost like discharge. Now the only symptoms I'm experiencing is: EATING ALOT.. lol SHARPrandom pains in my lower tummy. Waking up with to my abs hurting. and.. I guess it'd be quivering.. in my tummy too, like pulsing or something of that sort. Alot of discharge, white to light brown. And the fact that I'm 12 days late.. I just dont understand why all the HPT's are negative.. I have one more I'm going to try on the 24th. Does anyone have any similar symptoms?? Or could something else be seriously wrong.. THANKS FOR ALL YOUR HELP <3

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Name: ^lucy^ | Date: Sep 22nd, 2008 5:12 AM
hi,, some ladies dont get a BFP on a HPT until they're much more into their pregnancies i dont know why but it happens.. i think best would be have a blood test or an ultrasound if that doesnt show positive also.. GL! :) 

Name: whitnay01 | Date: Sep 23rd, 2008 9:50 PM
same exact thing with me except...i have NO appetite at all...and im gaining weight....without eating? weird? haha

and i was supposed to start sept 11..thought i started the 12th but it was just like yours...i got a negative blood test monday...but still have all the sympyoms..every single one except tender breasts...

but my friend didnt get her first positive until she was about 11 weeks...right now we would probably be around 6 weeks..so hang in there

good luck =) 

Name: summerlove | Date: Sep 24th, 2008 7:11 PM
Take another test with FMU. If it's still negative, call your doctor and have them send you for a blood test. GL! 

Name: jennlynn | Date: Sep 28th, 2008 6:53 PM
wow...another BFN for me too...i never got my period, although i did spot for like 5 days...bright and dark red blood but not enough for a pad or anything....

i'm so dizzy and having hot flashes out of nowhere...seasick in the car, peeing nonstop..all the classic signs, but no positive test....very frustrating....my stomach feels like its being pulled down...so much tugging....i feel horrible. and now, i dont even have a reason for all the madness.... :( so disappointed. i'm over a week late... 

Name: allpraise2him | Date: Sep 28th, 2008 7:05 PM
Jenn...I just posted under the october group. I've got VERY similar symptoms. I'm estimating that af was due on 9/27, on 9/26 I started seeing brown pieces only on the tissue, but no red or pink. When did you stop spotting. I read on another thread that hcg levels don't start rising until implantation stops. I'm thinking I may not get a BFP until a week after I stopped spotting. I've gotten 2 BFN's but I think I'm still going to test tomorrow with FMU 

Name: jennlynn | Date: Sep 28th, 2008 7:11 PM
i stopped spotting on wed...so i figured (hoped) that today was good enough....i'm waking up drenched in sweat at night, migranes, every hormonal prob i never have....so now wtf. i used the walgreens brand tonight. shouldnt it show by now??? why am i so sick then??? this is awful.... 

Name: allpraise2him | Date: Sep 28th, 2008 7:18 PM
I stopped on wed. as well. I'm wondering the same thing. I heard that it depends on the sensitivity of the test and the the best time to test is with FMU (first morning urine). I'm trying again tomorrow, but if I am pregnant, I'm doubting that my hcg would be high enough. Seriously, I've read on here that some women never get a BFP from an hpt and have to get a blood test to be sure. Good luck! 

Name: jennlynn | Date: Sep 28th, 2008 9:10 PM
idk..i just saw that negative sign tonight and think i may be crazy. but i know the dizziness and other things i'm feeling isnt going away...and my stomach is already bloated in the bottom....if i'm not preg, then i dont know what to say. still having white d/c...are you? and shooting pains in my chest/arm/back....and my leg keeps falling asleep...just not my usual. i really feel preg. but i never spotted with my other pregnancies...so maybe it was my AF, it just never fully came on....not even for a day. getting bummed out... blah! GL to you and let me know how your test goes.... 

Name: allpraise2him | Date: Sep 29th, 2008 8:52 PM
well, it was a BFN. I'm just as confused as you. Yeah, I've got the cm. I keep going to the bathroom to check, b/c I think I've started. Strange today I didn't have any cramping where as yesterday it was on & off all day. Didn't get a headache until I got home. I'd say it was all in my head, but there's no way the spotting was. And mine didn't have any pink or red, so that couldn't have been a period. What the heck is wrong with me if I'm not pregnant?! I'm really down today. 

Name: tsigwing | Date: Sep 30th, 2008 5:39 AM
Don't feel bad at all. I'm 10 days late and I Tested and got a negative, I have been having cramps on and off thinking that I was going to start my period and never did. i have been using the bathroom alot more and had sore breasts but my soreness went away which I thought was weird. I was suppose to start my Period on or around the 18th of September. 

Name: jennlynn | Date: Sep 30th, 2008 3:14 PM
well i definately dont expect any bleeding for another couple weeks...that wasnt my period. but it wasnt a one day thing either. idk. i'm so f*d up these days. i could cry if you looked at me wrong. overexaggerating EVERYTHING. maybe i'm stressed. my body looks normal today..except for a lot of white cm and holy green boobs. lol. i thought maybe i'm just dehydrated from being up with my son all night (asthma attack) but i've been up before and never had green veins sticking out on my boobs before....i'm going to test again later. the more bfn i get tho, the more crazy i feel.
when are you girls due again for AF this month? mine should be 27th approx...thats 4 weeks from the last one....
 

Name: BiGBOOTYjR | Date: Sep 30th, 2008 5:00 PM
WELL LADIES. it's been 20 days now and noooo period what-so-ever, so.. I'm gonna test on the 5th of Oct. and HOPE FOR A BFP!! I been having slight morning sickness **AT NIGHT** and my breasts are startin to have a dull ache now.. so lets hope :] i'll post my results on the 5th <3 good luck girlies. 

Name: allpraise2him | Date: Sep 30th, 2008 8:41 PM
BIG...good luck on the 5th! Doesn't that seem so far away? I HATE WAITING!
tsigwing...when do you think you'll test again?
jennlynn...LMAO! green bbs!? On a serious note, sorry about your son's asthma. How old is he?

After my BFN on Monday I'm really discouraged and don't think that I'm pregnant; however, I just don't understand how the "old blood", no cramps, and lack of sore bbs (which I'm always sore at least a week b/4) was somehow a period. But if it was, I should be due for AF somewhere around 10/19-21. I've got 1 test left and I can't decide whether or not I want to use it tomorrow or wait and use it Saturday when I'll be 2 weeks late. Have ya'll thought about having a blood test done?  

Name: jennlynn | Date: Sep 30th, 2008 9:39 PM
thanks...he's 4....going on 20. lol he's my big d (dylan)

so....normally, i would say, i like my boobs. but today, i think they belong on an alien. not only are there green veins all of a sudden, but on my areolar too....ew! and popping up....wtf. i could do a blood draw off them, seriously. i never had this before...isnt that one of the classic signs i'm reading from other girls? i've read they get "greener circulation" but i never saw it before...well, now i know. green.BUT neg tests. again tonight. bfn. and i gotta say, in just today only, my areolar have darkened a lot....
all the other symptoms- i expected a bfp-but they came, went...whatever. but now, outta nowhere??!! my boobs have to join the madness....i'm not pms'ing.. 3 weeks away if it is coming...i'm not making it up mentally-i've checked randomly today and yep, there they still are....this is insane. lol

 

Name: jennlynn | Date: Oct 1st, 2008 12:04 AM
oh....before i forget...the dizziness has become stupidness...i am so confused about the dumbest things all of a sudden...i dont remember being so absent minded except when i had my boy..and the migraines every other day...they gotta stop soon..please.

but even better, is the...oh i forgot...see...? this is what i'm talking about. madness. oh yea...waking up at 3 and 4 am....wtf is that about? i am so tired allllllllll freaking day...and now, i gotta be up at night? to do what? mop the floors? make lunch for the boys who think i'm going crazy?

its so frustrating girls...PLEASE tell me i'm not alone. any still...a bfn. sorry for the vent...thank you for tolerating my hormonal ass..... lol :)
 

Name: tsigwing | Date: Oct 1st, 2008 4:25 AM
I'm thinking about testing again next week since it will be 2 weeks. My nipple soreness went away and i still get cramps now and than like its my period but nothing and now i get these headaches that just won't go away. I think that it is all in my head since I have not yet experienced all the symptoms like the vomiting and stuff but I have to use the bathroom alot.

 

Name: jakesmommy1 | Date: Oct 1st, 2008 7:03 AM
I am in your situation. I had my last period august 10th. And nothing for the month of september. Im gonna test tommorow morning. I feel like im gonna start. But then again i could be pregnant. I have some cramping and OMG my boobs hurt so bad. I was pregnant last year and remeber my BB's hurting then it went away after i MC. I have been irregular since last november but not miss a whole month. Wierd.  

Name: jennlynn | Date: Oct 1st, 2008 5:55 PM
well..what do you think of this:

everytime i test, on the $tree tests, it turns white right away with the control strip pink. thats it. no faint lines, no nada. BUT today, the bottom of the test turned, and has stayed, pink. its not a line, in fact, its not much of anything but am curious about the pinkish area....anyone had this happen before? of course, my brain automatically was thinking it may be just not strong enough to turn the line yet but maybe detected some hormones a little after all. then i thought that sounded stupid, so i figured i would see what you thought....

thanks :) 

Name: HLT1986 | Date: Oct 1st, 2008 6:26 PM
Jennlynn, I was reading over your posts on here..Have you been to the dr for a blood test?? You said you had shooting pain in your back, and shoulder and arm...did ectopic pregnancy ever cross your mind i have heard that you may not get a bfp with that as early on and if it is the case you need to see a Dr. immediately bc it can be detrimental to your health. GOOD LUCK!! 

Name: BiGBOOTYjR | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 2:32 AM
I tested today :/ so disappointed.. it was a BFN.. but good thing is i finally got medical, so i can go in and see what's really going on. i might wait, idk.. i'm kinda bummed. i'll retest on the 5th but i dont think that'll make a difference.......... 

Name: tsigwing | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 3:15 AM
I got what seems to be my aunt flo and but i just dont understand why i missed the month of septemeber i know that i have irregular periods but i always get a period every month so maybe this could be implantation bleeding. it seems to be pretty light and some what brown color. I dont know what to think!! Help 

Name: allpraise2him | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 10:19 PM
jennlynn...anything new? I'm wondering if HLT1986 might be right? do hcg levels not rise with ectopic pregnancies?

tsigwig...are you taking prenatal vitamins? I didn't start taking them until after my brown spotting stopped. After that I experienced severe headaches, pms type cramping, intestinal cramping, gas, bloating, nausea, hot flashes, feeling flushed, constipation. I looked up the side effects on prenatal vitamins and basically all those symptoms can be side effects from the different ingredients in the vitamins. The only thing it doesn't explain for me is why I only had brown discharge this month instead of a period.  

Name: allpraise2him | Date: Oct 2nd, 2008 10:21 PM
BIG...sorry about your BFN. I'm trying to decide when I should make an appointment too!
 

Name: tsigwing | Date: Oct 3rd, 2008 8:53 AM
I t seems to just be my normal period unless i could be pregnant and have real heavy period at the same time. or if implantation can be heavy bleeding and bleed for more than 2 days than i don't know whats up!! 

Name: sweetbanesc | Date: Oct 3rd, 2008 5:30 PM
Hello ladies I will try to be as thorough as possible. I'm 21, the mister is 26. My last period was August 20th, starting on day 36. The month before that I started on day 33. Both are pretty normal for me, I'm kind of irregular from 28-38 or so. So now I'm on day 45. I started a new job in August as an RN, so it was a complete career change. I graduated in may and passed liscensure boards in july. Lots of stress, but stress has never made me late before. The mister and I use condoms sporadically, he has pretty good pull-out control. Birth control pills make me develop fibroadenomas in my boobs...exdpensive to remove. We aren't actively trying but then not 100% trying not to. I've taken 3 hpt so far, all negative. Two weeks ago I was sick, nauseated, dizzy, no temp, no vomiting, x2 episodes of diarrhea. Figured I ate something bad. Belly cramps only occassionally. No other symptoms. We both got colds last week, just sinus pressure and a lot of snot, touch of a sore throat. Could I be pregnant or might i have some underlying problem? I really want to have children, preferably someday and not right this minute, so i want to be aware of any take care of any problems that may effect my fertility. I don't qualify for health insurance until I'm off of probation at work, in december. Any thoughts or like experiences? Thanks very much! &#8595;  

Name: allpraise2him | Date: Oct 3rd, 2008 9:48 PM
sweetbanesc...congratulations on passing your boards and becoming an RN! My guess would probably be that all you've had going on has just thrown your cycle off, but you never know. Have you been tested for hypothyroidism? If not, that could be part of it. I read in a book this week (Taking charge of your fertility) that if you have irregular periods, you should take the longest cycle you've had in the last 6 months and add a week and that's when you'll have the most accurate test result. Sounds like the method in the book requires some discipline but it's good for birth control as well as ttc. You might check it out. Someone recommended it to me and I'll be getting it if my hpt comes out negative tomorrow -- no need spend $25 if I'm already pregnant! : ) Good luck! 

Name: jennlynn | Date: Oct 4th, 2008 10:13 PM
Hey you guys..

Yea, I thought of an ectopic right away, especially with the wierd bleeding and ovary pain. but they both subsided. these days, i am just exhausted. and my stomach looked like i was about to pop out a watermelon all week...up and down...all swollen just on the bottom however...today i have crazy white, thick, clumpy cm. i didnt notice it until i went to pee. its everywhere on my panties, and a mess. wtf is that about. sorry to be tmi, but just wondering if that was the norm if i was bfp. not testing again til this week. i still get occas sharp needle-like pains in my chest/boobs and my feet fall asleep so easy these days. green veins still sticking up on the twins...and i cant stand any bras these days cuz i'm just falling all out of them anyhow...lol....definately have become way too small overnight....my dh isnt complaining about that part....

thanks for the concerns girls...you rock! i figured if the cramping and bleeding comes back, i'll get checked out..otherwise, i'm hoping for a bfp this week and making that ob appt. :)

whats up with everyone else???any news i missed this week??? GL! 

Name: jennlynn | Date: Oct 4th, 2008 11:16 PM
oh...and another thing...besides still fighting with my sweetie over everything ridiculous...my 24/7 sex drive went from 100 to -32109789 suddenly. no interest. dont care. whoa! whatcha doing with that thing...?! lol seriously, i dont know where it went, but i would like to have it back....is that normal if preg? and this early??? wow, if this is the case, its gonna be a long 9 months...anyone else get this way? curious.... 

Name: BiGBOOTYjR | Date: Oct 5th, 2008 1:05 AM
well, i havent tested yet.. lol im too scared of a BFN. i have really bad heartburn even if i dont eat anything spicy, and i've been super tired.. boobs arent TOO sensitive, but a little bit. my stomach stil feels bloated.. AND IM SO B*TCHY. snappy lol AF is due on the 10th, but i'm probably going to go to the hospital tomorrow and demand an ultrasound. **i dont want to get anymore excited, because i'll be dissapointed if i'm not.** everyone says that iam, but i want to be 100% FOR SURE. hope you ladies get results soon <3 

Name: jennlynn | Date: Oct 6th, 2008 1:09 PM
well...thats it i guess. i must be insane. because my normally flat stomach looks like i'm about to deliver, my period went MIA -going on 3 weeks late...and every other sx of bfp, but nope....another BFN.

i cant do anymore tests, if i see another neg i'm going to cry.

i am always so regular, 28 days. no breakthrough bleeding, no pms sx, just usual boring cycles. this cycle, i had 3 days of bleeding/spotting a week after my period ended, then 2 days before i was due, i started spotting but only when i wiped/peed...never picked up...lasted 5 days, then gone. i've been dragging myself out of bed, waking up sweating to death at random hours in the night, my stomach is crazy looking....and my boobs are green. why. why. why. GL to you other girls, obviously, i'm not preggo or itd show by now i guess...i should be 4 weeks gestation. blah. maybe next time...THANKS for all the support though! you all rock.