she still needs to be on birth control. abortions aren't exactly good for the body and it's much simpler to get a shot once every 3 or 4 months rather than destroying new life. i am pro life so hate me if you'd like, but abortion shouldn't be used as birth control because someone is too lazy to take 1 pill per day or keep 1 appointment every 3-4 months. ↑
OK well using protection should have been the first thing you and your boyfriend thought about, espeically if having another child was not on your to do list....Oh and don't give me that bull about "sex not feeling the same with a condom" because that's crap. You are both adults over 21 years of age and should know better!!!!
Well because neither you used any command sense, now your pregnant. I say keep it, not only because it's 21 WEEKS OLD!!! Almost five months, but because from your words. I can feel that you want to keep this baby. As my mother alway said "where one child eats so can two." So keep your baby.
Your selfish boyfriend had his say with the ...how many abortion was that?...(god what some women in this world would give for just one baby and how many have you both gotten rid off?) If you want this baby keep this it, because with so many abortion your body may not be able to carry anymore babies. When you want a baby is when your body won't give them to you.
I believe in a women's right to choose, but use some sense, you are wasting, no killing life which was giving to you, not because of something horroible that happen to you, but because you're both to lazy to pop into a drug store and buy condom. Be thankful for the gift giving to you and keep your baby.
Continue your schooling because it's important, education means a better life for you and your kids...in case your selfish boyfriends decides he doesn't want to stick around.
There are place that help single mothers just research it. It's not going to be easy, life never is. If your babies are not worth that struggle then who is??? ↑
please dont take this the wrong way but maybe you should have thought of this before you had sex. you are half way through your pregnancy and that baby is fully formed and you are thinking about killing it? although i consider myself pro-life and my faith is important i am not a holy roller and preach about god but you play and you pay. if you both are in college you should be more intelligent. go on birth control of some sort,dont use abortion as birth control. its amazing that people need a license for so many things but anyone can have sex and bring a child into the world. ↑
you are tooo far to have an abortion and to have it now would cost extra money and will have a longer recouperation period... i dont think you should.. if yall are getting married then why have another abortion... io dont mean to get too personal but you having these abortions has to do something to you mentally... what if you would have aborted the child you already have??? and as for him having another baby on you i dont think he is worth it but the decision is ultimatly yours... i wish you the best of luck ...xoxoxoxoxox savina ↑
this guy sounds like nothing but a bully and it seems he is the one in control of you. it should not be that way. he talks about his own flesh and blood growing inside you as an 'inconvenience' almost like he doesn't have a care in the world for his own creation! stick to your guns and don't kill your baby because you will regret it and in years to come you will realise how much of a bully he was and that will make your regret even worse. i do think that maybe you two should talk about birth control as 4 pregnancies seems a lot, whatever you were on wasnt working. thats if you want to stay with the rat though, which hopefully you won't. ↑
