I just stopped taking the pill two months ago and still haven't gotten my period. I have taken four preg. tests and they are all neg. I now have some cramping or discomfort in my lower abd. along with some bloating. Anybody experience this or maybe no anything??? ↑
My period is 2-3 weeks late. I have taken a home pregnancy test and it came back negative. I also went to the ER this past weekend for breathing complications and they took my blood and urine and found out I am not preganant. I have been having period cramps and very sore nipples for about 3-4 days now. I have also been very tired through out this past week. I was wondering what could possibly be wrong. Everyday I feel like I am going to start but it just doesnt happen. I also havent been on any type of birth control for 4 years so it wouldn't be from starting birth control or stopping birth control. Someone please help!! ↑
Qleo I too am in a smilar situation.I stopped using birth control after 6 years of using in December when I got married. I had been using it back to back to prevent periods. I got my period in Dec, Jan, and Feb every 28 days. In March I didnt get it, and Now it is May 3rd and I am almost 70 days late. I have taken numerous preg tests and even gotten a blood test which came up neg. I have been experiencing regular cramping as if I am about to start my cycle almost every day. I have slight naseau here and there but no preg test. I am going to doc this week. Am nervous I may have a infection or something :O( ↑
I read this web-page several times! I was having mild cramping and expected my period "any day". I did a HPT two weeks ago- both said negative. Still nothing, but still mild cramping, and my boobs have been ultra sensitive! Anyway- I did another HPT- I am pregnant! My husband and I really only tried ONE time! Shocking!!! I was stunned, but the two pregnancy tests have been confirmed by my doctor, and I am 5 weeks! Hoping for everything to continue healthy! Good luck all, and thanks for the tips! I really did not think I could possibly be pregnant- at 33, nobody seems to have it happen like that! It's amazing! ↑
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM!!! IWANT A BABY, IM JUST CONFUSED CAUSE I HAVE NO PERIOD, BUT ALL THE SYPMTOMS LIKE IM ABOUT TO START, AND THE TEST WAS NEGATIVE! PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT HAPPENS! ↑
It feels so good to read this from other women, thanks so much for everyones post. My husband and I have been trying since July, since I have been off the Nuva Ring I have been regular, 31-32 cycles. This last month I threw my hands up on ttc (getting tired of negatives)I should have started Jan 30th, I am now 12 days late. I have taken many tests (all urine) and all negative. I have never missed a period before. I have been feeling okay for the most part, I have had some really light cramps at the beginning and then yesterday I got some really bad ones on my left side, so bad I had to sit down at the store. But now I am feeling better. I have been really almost dizzy, it a haze would be more like it. It makes me kinda sick to my stomach and I can't think worth anything. I'm going back into the docs next week to take another test, if it is negative I'm going to insist on a blood test. Think I might still have a chance of being pregnant? Oh, and last week I spotted VERY little, I was thinking implantaion? But Still all NEGATIVE tests. help... any advice? ↑
hi i"m 29 and have a daughter now 8.siince then i was on the pill and stopped last november using it.this month i am 4 days late and negative test.i have cramps and sore breasts.i want to get preg too.i want to know if somebody had negative test and was pregnant!! ↑
hi again... Just a quick update.. I ended up being 29 Days late, thats right 29 days and the tests all negative, even worse news I am for sure not pregnant. I eventually started. It was a hard realization considering no doctor could give me a straight answer to why I was so late. They mostly said stress would cause a late ovulation and make you skip your cylce all together. Even though I wasn't stressed at all that I can think of. My husband is now deployed until july and so it will be a while before we get to try again. I'm thinking about getting started on Clomid... any one ever try that before? i am pretty young so my doctors have not even bother testing me for anything yet, but we have been trying for over 10 months now. Hope I can throw a big enough fit to get the ball rolling. One of my doctors refused to discuss ttc because she thought I was to young. By the way I am 20, and married to my junior high sweetheart. i am pretty young but that doesn't give her the right. Sorry had to complain.... baby dust to you all ↑
Hi Jamibrook, I just wanted to reassure you that last month I appeared tp skip ovulation altogether. Like you I was hopeful I was pregnant. I was still using cheapOPK's every day and 6 weeks after my LMP got a pos so bd'd like mad that weekend. I got my BFP just nine days later. I had been on the BCP for 7/8 years until Aug 2007. Hope this helps. Baby dust ↑
Hi ladies.. I'm not sure I have the same symptoms as all of you but I thought I'd try and get some help anyway. I'm not coming off of birth control, I've not taken birth control since 2005 I believe. I usually have regular periods, my periods always only last 3-5 days. I was having extreme cramps a couple months ago, but no period, it happened for months in a row yet all the prego tests said negative. I went to my PCM and she said she wanted to get me on a form of birth control to get my hormones in a pattern. I really didn't want to, my husband and I want to try for a baby around September of this year so I don't want to get on anything that will jeopordize that. So I never started. Well I was supposed to start my period around the 1st of April.. but instead around the end of March I started getting horrible reacurring pelvic pains. It felt like my normal cramping but without the period. The pains are only increasing. It's April 8th and I am still having these cramps with no period. The pain is almost on a schedule it's almost like every single 15-20 minutes the pain accures for a whole pulsing minute, it's so painful I have to stop whatever I'm doing and just squeeze and wait until it's over with. Then it goes away and then comes back again every 15-20 minutes. I haven't taken a prego test but I feel like it's to early, I don't think I'm pregnant. My boobs are sore, neither are my nipples. I don't feel bloated at all..I keep praying to just start my period so the pain will go away, but nothing. Does anyone have any ideas on what's going on? I haven't gone back to my PCM yet because I'm not sure of what she can really do, or if she'll just tell me to go on the birth control again. ↑
I just posted a blog up above ladies... take a look.. update lol 10 min later after reading your alls posts, I took a pregnancy test.. all 3 came up posotive!!!! Number 1- YAY number 2- Should I be scared of these pains I'm having?? Please help? ↑
I was shocked to read how many women this happens to. I dont want a baby, I have a 13 year old son, but ever now and then when i think I may be pregnant I find myself hoping Iam. Now I have been cramping for about two weeks but nothing and now Iam about a little over a week late which never happens. I didn't want a baby but again I find myself liking the idea of being. I havent taken a PT yet, I guess I dont want to confirm one way or the other just yet. I will keep you ladies posted with the outcome. ↑
well its me again wasn't expecting to find out so soon but after reading all of the responses i decided to take a HPT and the result was positive, Now iam scared but I wanted to put that information on here so it could help answer someone elses question. ↑
hey girls... It has been a while since I have posted, got pretty busy with life. I still have not had a BFP, but just last week my husband and I went to see a fertility specialist. Come to find out I did not ovulate for two months! I knew I was not prego, guess I just was stressed. But any way, while there he told us I was just about to ovulate. So I started taking ovulation tests and had some light lines on the test for 4 days or so last week. Needless to say we stayed busy, tried to keep it missionary, even sat with my hips up after we were all done for 15 minutes. For the last two days I have been cramping and then today I had a little bit of blood that didnt last at all. not enough to use any protection. So, we immidiatly think it is implatation bleeding. Has any one ever felt like this before? is it too soon to get implantation bleeding? I really hope we got it this time, some of the tests that I need to take at the infertility clinic didnt sound to pleasant. Oh, how long should I wait until I take a prego test? I am ready to take one now... lol. Thanks for reading, baby dust to all!!!! ↑
Can anyone help me?? I am 2.5 weeks late, and i have taken 3 pregnancy tests and they are all clearly negative. I used First response. I spaced the tests out by a few days. I used morning urine as well. I am not having pregnancy symptoms either. I am having slight cramping but nothing else. I am on meds for chronic headaches so i am thinking that could interfere with my period. I have never been this late before. I am 16 so i am not able to tell my mom. I am so worried that i could be pregnant. I don't believe in abortion so that isnt an option if i am pregnant. I just need to know what i can do to find out if i AM in fact pregnant. ↑
Hi, im 26, have been married for 3 years and my husband and I are TTC. I was on the pill for almost 10 years and stopped taking it in February 2008. My last proper period was on 9th May for 4 days which is my usual during a 28 day cycle. My last period was on 7th June but only lasted for 1 day. I visited the doctor on 17th June and he tested my blood count, thyroid and hormone count. They all came back clear. We tried again during my ovaulation period in June (after visiting the doctor) and my period was due on 5th July. I am now 5 days late and I have been having preg symptoms such as, missed period, naseau mid morning, swollen breasts, slight cramping/movement in lower abdomen, general feeling of something different, headaches, tiredness/exhaustion. I have taken 2 pregnancy tests (both different brands) a few days apart and both were negative. I am just wondering if there could be another reason to negative tests or if anyone else has been the same. I am due to visit the doctor on Thursday this week just to check and I have also ordered highly sensitive pregnancy tests from the internet so will try them as well. Heres hoping I am! ↑
I am currently having the same symptoms lower pelvic cramping sore sensitive nipples and no AF, I also have PCOS so when I dont see AF im not surprised but this time it feels very different, but im just to afraid to take the HPT, I want a baby really bad so Im afraid it will be negative... ↑
I have a weird situation and I would appreciate any advice. My husband and I have been married for three years we have been ttc since May. In may I went to the doctor and told her we wanted to TTC but I was concerned about my very irregular periods. I have been irregular since the stress of evacuating for Hurricane Katrina threw my cycle off. The doctor forced a period with progesterone and did a full blood panel. My cholesterol was high but all my hormones were normal. Since then I have been eating right and exercising and have lost weight. I also got a second opinion from my OBGYN at my yearly exam. He agreed that my hormones were good and decided stress cause the irregular periods. He also found precancerous cells on my cervix and froze them off in June. Once I got the all clear from that my husband and I began TTC. I have not had a period since May 21, 2008. This is unusual even for me. I have had cramping, shooting pains and dull aches in the breast, on and off nausea and leg craps. I also go in and out of feeling like I can smell a lot more than normal. I have taken a pregnancy test every few days and they are all negative but then two had faint positives. The doctors keep telling me to relax but I am very afraid that something is wrong. These doctors make me feel crazy. I saw these messages and I realized I am not totally alone. Does alone have any advice, could I be pregnant, should I talk to another doctor about my period issues, or should I just relax? ↑
I've been reading this post because I have the symptoms similar to yours. I already have 2 kids and am not ready for a third one just yet.
Anyway, I just wanted to share my experience with some of you from my 2 previous pregnancy.
I took us 5 months for my first kids and 8 months for the second.
I was having trouble trying to get pregnant the second time. After missing period for a week, I took a pregnancy test and it was positive. My husband and I were excited! But a week later, my started breeding. It was Saturday and the urgent care doctor will not see me because I told them I maybe having a miscarriage. Luckilyu by chance, after hundreds of calling around, I finally found a OB that will see me. She said I have chemical pregnancy. Whatever it is. She later put me on Clomid. That didn't help. After a few months, we tried faterity specialist.
She diagnosed me with mild PCOS and was caused by unstable blood sugar level. This comes as no surprise as I always skipped lunch because I was too busy at work. In addition, I have family history of diabetes. As the result, she put me on Avandia (diabetes med) to help control my blood sugar eventhough I am not diabetic. Guess what after a couple month, boomed! I was pregnanted with and second child and a beautiful & healthy baby girl was born 9 months later.
Long story short, I would suggest those you who have/had bad diet habit and a family history of diabetes should at least have your doctor check your blood sugar level.
hi. I read a lot of your posts and I can relate to most of you. I am 22 and I it had been a like a year since I had sex. I had sex with a friend of mine ONCE back in Aug. It was only one time and we used protection, but it was dark , no light when he put it on and I dont even know if he put it on right or if it broke, it is a possibility, the condom did not have spermicide on it. And I am on NO birthcontrol. anyway Well I did have a regular cycle it seemed, In Sept. I dont remember cause I hear a lot of woman having like bleeding for a few days then are still pregnant , I heard of many , but anyway. So..this month has been hell for me, for the past 2 weeks I have been having having cramps like crazy. On and off, I been really tired and having to go to the bathroom often. gaining a little bit of weight and also bloated and my breast are swollen and I just feel aweful right now. And this is not like me having all this crap. It sucks and I hate doctors but my chances of being pregnant are probably 50/50 cause I did use a condom and I did have bleeding in Sept. I just find it very weird that I would have these cramps and no period and it started so soon too. I will wait it out and see what happens. I just find it hard to believe i could get pregnant onetime. I am not trying to get pregnant nor do I want to be. But I dont know why i feel like this and i just want answers. I will keep you updated. ↑
Oh and i forgot to mention I did have a bit of spotting today. but no period for this month! And I am not even suppose to have a period till like Oct. 10-11th. It is very weird. I been having these cramps since the last 2 weeks of Sept. up till now. on and off. Please let me know what you think this is! ↑
