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Answer: oh gosh melissa lets see...well im glad dh and his company are going to stop working until they get paid, this is bullshit. imagine if you had a kid already...what are you supposed to do. as for the landlord, a lot of asskissing is in order...unfortunately. tell him you know how understanding he has been and you appreciate everything he has already done for you both but it is absolutely out of your hands. i would even tell him that dh and the men are considering a 'sick out' if they dont get paid directly and i would tell him that you will try your best to get some kind of written documentation of the issue with the company (if you think he is starting to think you are lying). really i mean you cant get blood from a stone and it takes a long time to evict someone so dont get tooooooo crazy about that part. but LOL at the 'not prepared' for the exam...what did you think he was going to want to do...they always want to get in there n have a looksee lolll. hope what have i missed that youre having a lap. last i read you are doing iui. =
Answer: Thanks for the advice..I really appreciate it!! Thank god my mother in law is helping us. I couldnt stand the thought of talking to my landlord..anyways,,,with that behind me for now....about the dr, visit...lol...I dont know, I had been working all day and had ER funk all over me and I didnt have any time to freshen up and I am one of those people that have to be straight out of the shower and smelling like roses before anyone goes near my shit...LOL. So I definitely had to decline that part. He was such a soft spoken man and kinda handsome and when he asked to examine me I froze and thought "no way..not right now"...haha. He probably will next week when I have my follow up. I will be more fresh and clean and shaven and ready. =). I know...i am a dork...hehe =
Answer: Hiya Girls! Can't believe it's been another week without me catching up, dh needed the mobile i-net, so there was me stuck again. Anyhoo, Melissa, that's so tough. While my dh was in Finland that week, his salary also didn't come through, I think he only got paid the eight or ninth of the next month. And I didn't have a job then. Our saving grace was that my tax money came through about a year after it was due, so that filled up a lot of holes. Before that, our stress levels were skyrocketing. And HOPE, you'll get through the lap fine, it's not that pleasant, but afterwards you'll feel like a new person. Are you in for a laparotomy or a laparoscopy (I'm hoping for the latter!). And now I have 25/26 day periods, like a young girl again, yeeh-hah! Af came last Saturday. So now I just have to skip one more O, and then it's ttc again, can't wait. =
Answer: TMI WARNING! DH and I got into the John Gray Secret to Great Sex thing, and it does make a difference. Because here's me, married 2 and a half years and still not knowing exactly what gets me there. So now I'm finding out how and for some reason I'm in such a good mood the last few days, lol. And Poof, sorry you're still not sure what to do next, follow your gut-feel, normally mine doesn't lie. GL, will pop in soon (I hope!) =
Answer: i will find out monday when in sept it is. i am having too much pain lately an i know i only had 2 failed iui's but i just want them to check things out inside and see wtf is going on. i have to go on bcp for august to help things in the mean time. i got my + opk on thurs(cd 11) ad today is cd13(cd14 since its actually sun) an we bd on cd 10,12 and we will the next few days and see maybe just maybe we will get it before the lap. =
Answer: Hope- I really pray that this time is it for you! You seemed to have bd'd on the right days =). =
Answer: Ok...after missing my period and cramping and having the brown spotting, my cm is back to white. My ovaries are hurting so I might just be getting ready to ovulate. How odd...... =
Answer: Macy-What's the John Gray secrets to great sex?? Is that a book? If it is making you happy then those must be some great secrets...lol. =
Answer: i wouldnt have married my husband if i wasnt sure he could get me there ;) and im only 1/2 kidding! life is too short and batteries are only so satisfying. dont you just love weird "periods" melissa =
Answer: Hi Girls! Poof, I was a virgin when I got married, so I was understandably inexperienced. Melissa, I'm not sure if it's in bookform, I have it on audio. But John Gray is an American, so it it's in bookform, that is where you'll def find it. He also did seminars, I don't know if he's still at it, though. He's the Men are from Mars, women are from Venus-guy. It's not even big things, just doing things a bit differently, and then KABOOM! =
Answer: Ooh, Poof, that sounded snotty, sorry! lol. Just meant to say I was a dufus when it came to sex. =
Answer: aw macy! i was a virgin until i was 20! i guess after that, once i figured out what made me tick i was always sure the guy could do it! LOLL and yessss sometimes it is just the slightest little thing, i even discover new things now! and what works today may not work tomorrow but may work next thursday lol, thats the fun of it right ;) & no you did not sound snotty <3 =
Answer: I guess I must be one of those lucky women...I have never had a problem with "what makes me tick"...lol. I always read about how hard it is for women and I guess I just dont fall into that category =P =
Answer: lol, im pretty easy too but penetration has never worked for me. i always thought something was wrong until i learned that straight penetration doesnt work for most women...except the really lucky ones ;) =
Answer: Hi girls. I'm almost counting the days till we can ttc again, can't wait. Just one teensy bitty month more and it can be all systems go. We've stopped trying in February, so I'm understandably excited. Anyone with faint evap lines etc? See, I'm getting worked up about non-existant pregnancies now! LOL =
Answer: I hope the month goes by fast for you Macy! Time really does fly...ttc will be here soon =). Damn..my feet and legs hurt so much. The shoes I wear are junk and dont support my feet so I feel like an achey old woman..lol. I HATE shoe shopping though....If I could pay someone to go try on and buy cute shoes for me..I would. Good news girls...the husband might be home next week..yay for me! I miss him terribly. And I can finally stop eating sh*t because then I will actually have someone to cook with and for. I swear..I have been living off of taco bell this past month and a half...I am seriously taco bell-ed out! Hope you all are having a good evening. =
Answer: And how many times does this Gottschalks/Clinique commerical have to air already??...I have seen it like 6 flippin times in a 30 minute period!..lol =
Answer: So I went to the doc's again today to follow up with my lab results and he said that I have PCOS!! He told me my lh levels were high...so...shit. This sucks. Now I have to get on birth control for 2-3 months to help regulate things. I am glad I actually have a doctor now that listens though. He actually told me that if I have any questions or need to see him I can just drop in..and I dont even need to make an appointment! Come to find out, he is renting a house from my sister..small freakin world. But hey, that can be a plus on my side!...lol. But really, he is very nice and thorough and I am glad I found him. He will definitely be taking care of me when im pregnant for sure!! =
Answer: Where is everyone at today? I am trying to keep myself entertained between patients! I need someone to chit chat with. I am really tired today...I had to stay up late to finish some homework. I have been doing poorly in my business class because of all the stress I have been going through the last few weeks. I added up all my points and I can only pull out with a D. But I dont give a rip..I just dont want to fail the damn thing!! There goes my gpa...it was really good...then somehow made its way down to a 3.0. have like 5 classes left so if I get A's and B's I cant still graduate with a decent gpa =) =
Answer: so I called my car company to set up payment arrangements to catch everything up and my account manager was such a bitch. She demanded I pay the whole amount in full because "it is company policy" because I am pretty delinquent. I told her that I dont understand the policy, that they would rather have NO money than SOME money??(They wouldnt accept my partial payment) Then she proceeded to tell me that this matter is serious and I am acting like I dont care. Oh lord, thats when I blew up on the bitch. I pretty much told her that she must be very blessed not to have any financial problems and how dare she presume that I dont care!? I told her that I have a lot of financial issues going on and that I have to pick my battles. So anyways..after arguing with her about the stupid ass policy she tells me she wants to connect me to her supervisor. Then the bitch gets back on the phone and says "Well, we can split that into two payments for you.." OH REALLY?? Isn't that what I asked you to begin with you dumb cunt??...lol. So they are a bunch of freakin bullies and liars. I am so glad I didnt back down and I got my way...lol =
Answer: theyre lucky youre nice. i would have just sent the 1/2 payment w/o even calling them lol =
Answer: Sooo, how does everyone like the crazy "baby_patojo" lady? She is definitely something else! Anyway, just wanted to make fun someone really quick, bye girls, lol! =
Answer: wellll since you brought it up...what the FUCK! it must be crazy k...has to be...or that other chick lizie2 who came in here and lied about getting a bfp and then i caught her in another thread asking the same stupid questions she did in here....and then said 'oops i was confused, yes, i am pregnant', no stupid, youre not confused, youre a liar. either way she needs to see a general practitioner. who wants to lay bets she 'miraculously' gets a bfp too??? =
Answer: I will bet!!! Naomi told her what for in one of her many threads that she keeps posting, it was totally awesome, naomi told her that she needs to quit posting so many threads with stupid questions and that she can make up as many symptoms as she wants but it wont make her pregnant! Ha! I was like finally someone told her what she needed to hear! Geez, I mean, I post stuff and what not, but not stupid stuff like " I have a twitch in my stomach, so I think I'm pregnant. Atleast mine are like, " I'm 7 dpo today and having crampy feelings and I'm eating like a cow and sleeping like a sloth!" Now thats some real shit, not some "I cant suck my stomach in, so I must be pregnant, even though I've taken like 50 hpts and they are all negative, but I'm crazy and still think I am pregnant." no no no, you cant suck in your gut cuz of all the hot air that you are full of. Sorry, wow, I am really tearing this girl down, maybe I am pregnant, I am being such a bitch, lol! Ok, so I am gonna stop talking shit now and go to bed, goodnight! =
Answer: Hi Girls! Ooh! Guess what??? So Friday dh and I did the shebangbang, no protection. And I went through the weekend thinking, it was just AFTER O, so, checked my dates and that must have been RIGHT ON O! So now I'm officially back on the sign-checking with you gals. Yay!! So now I can change the colours for my cycle on my charts(I have Pre-op as blue and Normal cycles as pink, and now my new bit - ttc - gets to be green, my fav colour). So even if af comes this month, I'm still one true month closer to getting lo. =
Answer: Melissa, sorry about pcos, that sucks. I'm glad you have a proper doctor, that goes a long way. And the cow on the phone. Just proves that the moment someone quotes company policy, they just don't have a clue what really goes on. Now going to check out the crazy chiccie everyone is typing about..... =
Answer: Ok, fine, they're all nuts. "I had sex with my bf during end of my period, my period stopped. Am I pregnant?" Geez, NO, suffices! And the girl with the flutter in her ovary, didn't have the heart to tell her that's what I felt right before I was diagnosed with endo. Oi! =
Answer: i was really really CRAVING a turkey sandwich this weekend so...umm...i had one...with like, lots of onions and stuff and im gassy but not like, normal gassy, more like, im getting kicking in the fallopian tubes gassy....is that my zygote?? =
Answer: i have to say this...considering the small percentage of women who ACTUALLY experience implantation bleeding and the LARGE percentage of women on this site who seem to experience it...you would think people would be falling all over themselves with BFPs...wouldnt you? just an observation. i have to go, my right baby toe itches and i heard that could be a sign. =
Answer: LMAO...."Kicking in the fallopian tubes"...How is everyone doing today? I was sooo busy yesterday here at work..I didnt even have time to go pee! It was crazy busy...I could have socked people in their face. My friend played a cruel joke on me. I complained the day before to her about phones ringing off the hook with everyone and their mother making appointments. So she calls me yesterday (without me knowing it was her) and said she wanted to schedule FOUR appointments for a particulat test. I was like "You want FOUR ma'am??" She started laughing hysterically(thats when i realized it was her)....she said I had nothing but utter disgust in my voice...lol. Oh well. It was getting to the point that day where I didnt care how I was speaking to people...lol. =
Answer: Nice Mel! Yeah, pretty much all the posts on here are F*ing stupid! These biotches are all crazy.....My boyfriend jacked off and then later he came over to my house and we were fooling around and he was fingering me, can I be pregnant? That is pretty much what I am reading about all these girls, well I cant say ALL, there are some genuine threads on here, and the gals that are posting about bfp's, which is awesome, cant wait to get mine, but, isnt there a way we can kick all the stupid people out? Lol........wish we could! So, how is everyone coming along this week? Hope ya'll are good! =
Answer: ummm that girl with the flutter in her ovary.....that would be me!!! macy, i was diagnosed with slight endo around 4 years ago, thats why my gyne made me go on bcp, the last i went to check she told me i was doing just fine. so i am hoping and praying that you are wrong in this :-) still hoping for a bfp though think thst af is on her way. sighhh i really really hope and pray that the faintest of faintest lines i saw on my hpt was really there and not just wishful thinking. good luck to y'all =
Answer: oh god im getting a summer cold...i hate summer colds...they linger and linger...ill probably stil have it in september lol as for ovaries and fluttering..well...i hope for your sake that it actually does mean what you want it to. =
Answer: Hey Poof, Macy...and Momtoaa. How are you girls this evening? I am here at work...got stuck on the evening shift. thats alright though. I dont mind a change of pace. Mixes things up a little. So the husband should be back early next week. I am excited. We want to get away so bad...to the coast, just somewhere for relaxation! And I can finally take the provera to make me start, then take the clomid =). So yay for that. I have to admit..I have been feeling blah lately with having no period for two months. I feel icky and out of wack =
Answer: Poof- I have been having some allergies lately. I had a major headache the other day from my sinuses. I fel like my head was floating..it was the wierdest detached feeling.. And that was before took any meds...lol. =
Answer: wow melissa that contract seemed to go by so fast...of course, it wasnt my husband that was gone lol im starting to think maybe it is allergies bc im not really feeling sick, just headache, sore throat, swollen adenoids and runny, sneezy nose. i would have figured if it were a cold i would be really feeling it now. as for af...i have to say, i was just talking to my gf telling her im so envious of these girls who have pcos lol, im sure i wouldnt be if af wasnt so bad...its only cd21 and ALREADY i feel like af is arriving today. im trying to ignore it. im trying some jedi mind trickery on my body...lets see how well this works. i remember the one time i skipped a period (when i tried to be a vegetarian) and i felt gross...all out of sorts. =
Answer: Hi Girls. This was such a long week, overtime with no pay just sucks, and it sucks more that it just seems that it is expected with no thanks. But I'm still on the usual first three months probation, so I have another month to go before my position is permanent. And dh is on business trip 'till Sunday so we're missing our weekend together-time. MELISSA, I don't know how you do it, because just having him gone for a few days drives me crazy. At least I'm not alone at home, his younger brother is living here for the week. He has cystic fibroses and got a serious lung infection last week, was in hospital for three days and still on drip with antibiotics three times a day, so now he's living with us until the doctor decides otherwise. At least this way he can still attend university. =
Answer: And I'm trying my best not to imagine ANY "symptoms", pms or otherwise, but I must say, my bbs are killing me, but af is due to start somewhere between next Wednesday and Saturday, so pms will explain that. And I'm dog-tired, but a week of overtime easily explains that. And I'm super-narky and irritated, but again, a week of overtime would do that to a girl (and last week's trips to the hospital three nights in a row). So, indeed, nothing to report. =
Answer: And a weekend with little rest with dh's family staying here... =
Answer: And Poof, that hardly seems fair, a possible cold together with bad pms and af to look forward to. (Forgot, dh was sick from Saturday, and my dh gets very grumpy when he's sick, not with me, he just goes all quiet and unresponsive, so that's quite draining too, lol). But I love him and he took such good care of me after my op, so he deserves a bit of tlc when he's sick. Hope he doesn't get sicker in all that cold and rain. =
Answer: Poof, I have to admit not having period is pretty cool....and having the luxury to choose when I will have my period is neat too...lol. I am waiting for the husband to get home to take the provera. So It has been well over two months since my last period. But I know I need to start it soon...this cant be good...lol. =
Answer: Macy- Sorry the husband is going to be out of town. Thats a bummer. I dont know how I do it either..the days all just kinda mesh into one after awhile. I try not to pay attention to the dates...lol. I seriously cant believe its August already. Wishing and hoping that the future gets here NOW kinda makes me miss out on whats going on around me...lol. =
Answer: I hope you get to have a relaxing weekend Macy! You sure do deserve it girl =) =
Answer: ok..u guys will never guess what i did..lol. So the husband calls me last night and tells me "I am coming home tomorrow"...so of course I get all excited and get ready for him to come home today. I couldnt get out of work so I even arrranged for his mother to go get him Then today I start counting the hours and everything and think to myself...there is no way hes coming home today. Well, when he called me last night, it was already Friday for him. So he meant he's coming home Saturday and I thought it was today!..lol. So i cleaned my house and shaved my legs and all that good stuff. But he actually flies in tomorrow about 5pm. I got all bummed because I was looking forward to him being here today!...lol =
Answer: MELISSA, that's wonderful news, you must be so excited. I had a quiet evening yesterday. Today I went to grandmother and afterwards for dinner at a friends house with a 8 month old baby. He is soooo cute. But just before dinner I walked BAM right into a sliding door, nose first and it was blood everywhere, horrible. My one (yes, one!) eye started watering from the pain. I'm just afraid that I might wake up with a bulbous blue nose tomorrow, it's swollen a bit already, with a blue spot, so stupid, I still feel a bit dazed still. Dh is coming home tomorrow, very happy. That one guy is such an a-hole, he told dh he will go home when HE decides he can, can you believe it! And the work can be done on a remote station AND dh's company already has another person there on site AND dh has to start full-time on Monday at his company's biggest client. And this guy just decided he wants him there till end next week, after they created their own emergency by not attending to the problem when it arose in the first place. Sounds like pms, doesn't it, I've just been in such a foul mood since yesterday. And after my meeting with the door I'm nauseous, agh! Ow, just rubbed my nose, it feels like its off! LOL, I'm such a drama queen. Congrats to everyone who kept on reading this long rant, love you for that! =
Answer: Aww crap Macy! That must have hurt like hell.....but dont feel bad. I have done that before too....lol. Your poor nose...I hope you iced it or something....im sure you did! =) =
Answer: What the heck girls..our thread was on the 2nd page! How is everyone today? =
Answer: LOLLL poor macy. how are you feeling? hey melissa! hows everything by you? dh home yet? af is here in full force....i was thinking of ttc this month. =
Answer: Hey poof..long time no talk! The husband is home, I picked him up from the airport last Saturday. We've been enjoying our time together. But I have been working all week...I swear this has been the longest week ever! So...we got a full-bred black pug named Marty. He's the freakin cutest thing you have ever seen! Actually he was given to us. I love him already! Oh...and we decided we're going to buy a sectional couch next week....we have it picked out and everything..I cant wait. And we're going to get a new tv because the sound is going out on the one we have. We decided we need a few things for ourselves instead of working our lives away and paying bills bills bills! So thats what has been up with me...oh, and one more thing. Once I start my next block of classes next week, I will have only three classes left for my business degree...yay for me! I am so excited to be accomplishing something in my life.... So poof...hope your feeling ok. I havent even started my provera yet! I need to but its kinda nice not having a period..but i really need to get that on track asap. My husband and I were having dinner last night and he told me we need to have kids soon because he isnt going to go into his retirement years with little kids..uh oh..now I am on a time frame. =
Answer: oh wow no pressure there huh. i can understand though. if i dont get pregnant by 36 (my own personal cut off) then thats it for me...i dont have the wallet or the personal time of madonna, gwen stefani or j-lo, i wont be a 40 year old baby mom...im 50 and my kid is 10?? no thanks. =
Answer: what up bitches!! lol!!!!!! i have been pretty busy getting ready to move the end of august and then my lap on sept 2nd . i miss talking to all of you and i havent forgotten about any of you. i will be in and out for the next several weeks.hope everyone is well. =
Answer: Hi Ladies!! I'm alive, and I haven't forgotten about you all! I stalk you, but I haven't had much interesting to contribute; so..... I've just been stalking. :o) I hope you all are doing well!! I'm fine, baby's fine, 16 wks tomorrow. I was miserable throught the 1st tri, which was why I disappeared; I didn't do much of anything. Feeling better now, hoping to get some things done that I've been neglecting. OK, I can't think of anything else interesting at the moment. Take care, I'll keep stalking you guys, and try to check in more often! I miss chatting w/ you girls!! =
Answer: lmaooo beebee, i stalk myself for the same reason LOLLLLL its like weve lost our mojo :( but these things happen right? so how have you been feeling?? im glad you are better than you were. hope welcome back!! nothing new has been going on....melissa macy and i have been holding down the fort. we need some new crazies to spark things up again! =
Answer: Hey ladies! Well I had the ultrasound today...and I am pleased to announce it's a girl!!! Well, at least it definitely looks that way. The tech said there is no sign of a penis or scrotum, and that he could visibly see the 'three lines sign'. From the research I've done online that should be pretty accurate then, right??? Thanks ladies!!! Hope everyone is doing well!! =
Answer: bb thats WONDERFUL!!!! i'm so happy for you!! send pics!! i want to see!!!! kalokairi at live.com =
Answer: hi poof there is a 13 year old that `is pregnant in the teen hell hole and it just shocks me when i read this stuff. =
Answer: well lets go have a looksee. im sure theyre harrassing the hell out of her too. =
Answer: Afternoon girls! Hope everyone is well. Just wanted to drop in. =) I am sooooo glad it's friday! It has been a very long week. =
Answer: Holy crap, I started my period after 84 days! So yay for me..=). I was just getting ready to start those damn meds too..i held off for awhile because it was kind of nice not to worry about a period...lol. The husband and I went out last night to have a few drinks and we ran into some friends. It was fun..and when we got home we, ahem, had a little fun and I think that jump started it...haha. Oh well. But I feel great. I had no pms or anything..no sore boobs no bloating...nothing. Now I am cramping just a little but its not biggie. So I am going to have the pharmacy refill my clomid on monday and we shall see how things go! How is everyone today?? =
Answer: OMG.....LMAO...I made it sound like we had a flippin orgy!!!...HAHAHA. I meant just ME and the HUSBAND......hahaha. Our friends and I said our goodbyes at the bar...LOL =
Answer: LOLLLL melissa hey whatever floats ur boat right?? LMAOOO im so glad your dh is home. =
Answer: well we are officially in the game this month! we done did it on all the right days so we shall see.... =
Answer: Thats awesome Poof. I really hope things work out for you. I am pissed again..the husband was supposed to be paid on Friday but he has yet to recieve anything AGAIN. He got an email from the supervisor saying that it should be there today but I just checked the bank and theres nothing. How does a multi million dollar company screw up a payday?? They already have our bank information because that is how the money was deposited before-with direct deposit. Uggh... =
Answer: So I started my clomid today...we'll see what happens! I am thinking about going out and buying some opk's since I am not temping this time around. It would be a shame to miss the big day since I am going to all this trouble taking the meds and all... =
