Hello everyone!
I no i posted a lot of different comments here but i just trying to get as much answers as i can..and some of you seen cinfused about wat i wrote in my comments. so i am here now to set ya all straight..i am 16 i live in ireland i found out i was pregnant on the 1st of april. i told my boyfriend age 19.. he is happy about it...but he does not talk about it much. but he always cheaking if im ok..we both did not tell our parents but we will soon.. our baby will have a good life.. so people stop hateing !!! bye bye Bambi (SABRINA) ↓
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Name: lunamoo | Date: Apr 23rd, 2008 11:22 AM
OKAY ALREADY GEEEZE!!!! Great, your baby will have a great life and so will the puppy my 3 year old dd will be sole custody of! People were giving you advice not "hating" (correct spelling by the way) you. You want answers. GO TELL YOUR PARENTS AND ASK THEM, you won't be doing much without a lot of support and help (financial and emotional) from them. Good luck ↑
Name: amanda17 | Date: Apr 23rd, 2008 3:02 PM
I think you should make it very clear to everyone... Where you trying to conceive or not? ↑
So, unplanned in your situation equals totally unprepared. TELL YOUR PARENTS NOW! What are you waiting for!!?!?! ↑
Name: amanda17 | Date: Apr 24th, 2008 9:49 AM
It's really hard to tell your parents and I understand why you're waiting. I didn't start telling people I was pregnant until I was almost out of the second trimester and starting to show. It's a really scary thing to do, but it's best to get it over with. ↑
Bambi as you know your parents wont be happy. Try not to share your joy with them until they are beginning to come around. They are going to probably be angry. They will also be very confused when they find out and for while(the same as you were). Like many people know I was a teen mom and I am now an adult so I really know. But the sooner you tell them the more time they have to adjust and accept your pregnancy. Most likely they won't except it until the 3rd trimester or possably until the baby is born. You may not understand why they aren't happy and may want them to be dont push them eventually they will find joy in their grandchild. We all want the best for our children and we as parents try to plan the most productive happy life for them and I truely believe that for parents finding out that their teen is pregnant is extremely hard to know that their child is going to endure extreme heart ache and stress way before they have to. Don't get mad at their reaction they just didn't plan this for your life, but stay in school and be as responsible as possible and began by getting prenatal care. I wish the best of luck for you and your family. I hope that your baby is healthy. Just bite the bullet and tell them. It will seem more grown up of you to tell them rather than hearing it from another source. ↑
Name: Zabbee12 | Date: Apr 28th, 2008 12:42 PM
hi this is my first time on this site and so far i'm enjoying reading the views and opinions of everyone so far.... my answer to you Bambi123 is to tell your parents as soon as possible. i have friends who got preggo at the age you are now and yes their parents basically went psycho but what do you expect,..... to them you are still their baby girl and they will feel terrible at first... so i really agree with mama4andmore on telling them. you also need to look at the health of you and your baby because the longer you take to tell them the more you are putting the both of you in prenatal danger risks honey you need to tell them. and one thing you dont need right now is to stress out yourself even more than you probaly already are, that is bad for you both... but i would like to tell you that after this baby is born you should protect yyourself from then on because its hard already to have a baby so young and it would be even tougher to find out you are having another one right after. TELL YOUR PARENTS NOW AND TAKE CARE OF YOU AND YOUR BABY OK PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑
Name: Bambi123 | Date: Apr 29th, 2008 1:08 PM
Hello (mama4andmore)
i love my parents and my parents love my boyfriend
but im so scared to tel them :( they dont even know that i had sex now im pregnant they will kil me.. i no its a big thing but i want them 2 be happy.. i will take care of my self and my baby. when he/she is born.. thank you so much 4 ur comment u are really nice xxxx :) ↑
Name: mama4andmore | Date: Apr 29th, 2008 6:50 PM
Bambi don't expect them to be happy right away especially when you tell them. But look to the future and they will find happiness and joy in their grandchild. I was 14 when i got pregnant with my 1st. My parents knew I wasn't a virgin, but they didn't know I still had sex either. You are probably scared of disappointing them, but we ALL make mistakes. Remember GOD has bigger plans for our lives than our parents and even our selfs.Take care and be sure to get some prenatal vitamins. ↑
Name: Bambi123 | Date: Apr 30th, 2008 12:40 PM
Hello :D Zabbee12
Thank you very much for you coment
:):) ↑
Name: Bambi123 | Date: Apr 30th, 2008 12:49 PM
hello mama4andmore
im going to the doctors tomorrow for the firsh time xxxxx ↑
Name: mama4andmore | Date: May 2nd, 2008 11:26 AM
That is great that you are able to get to a doctors. I hope things are going ok. I was just thinking about you and wondering if you have told your parents yet or if you have came up with any plan. ↑
Name: angelhdfd | Date: May 3rd, 2008 9:43 AM
stop picking on the girl i'm 16 and pregnat and i see abosoulutly nothing wrong with it. ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: May 3rd, 2008 10:15 AM
whos picking on her!! idont see know one picking on her! ↑
It is called "Age of Consensual Sex," and in most states that is 18...there is a reason for this law... ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: May 3rd, 2008 4:47 PM
in irland where she lives the consent age of sex is 16 not 18. ↑
Name: grow_up | Date: May 3rd, 2008 4:58 PM
Actually the legal age of consent in most states is NOT 18. I would say the average is 16, in a few states it's as young as 14, in some there are different ages for boys and girls, and for pretty much all for statutory rape to apply the offender must be a certain number of years older than the minor. ↑
in the uk the consent age is 16 and the satuary rape thing only acounts if the man has sex with someone under the age of 16 i dont think it matters how many years older the guy is here. hmm strange how the laws are all different in other countrys tho ↑
Name: AddysMummy | Date: May 3rd, 2008 11:01 PM
BUT also here if you are under 18 even if the age of consent is 16 if you're with someone 3 years or more older than you, he can be charged with statutory rape. >_>; ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: May 4th, 2008 9:32 AM
wow thats so different here! so me andmy boyfriend first had sex together when i was 16 and he is 5years older than me so if i was in your country could he of got done with statuary rape or would i have to be under the age of 16? ↑
Name: amanda17 | Date: May 4th, 2008 12:22 PM
In California it's 18 with the three years apart rule. Whew, my fiance is turning 19 tomorrow :P My dad tried to get him arrested for statutory rape but after I told them we were only a year and a half a part they were like "Sorry to bother you! Your dad is a jerk!" Haha. ↑
Name: PreciousBaby19 | Date: May 4th, 2008 1:33 PM
im sorry...but where are you in ireland...because i just dont think your from the u.k.....i could be wrong but earlier on i could have sworn that you said you were from america.... ↑
