my DD will be 2 in april! we want to have another child. my hubby and i both work f/t and put DD in daycare. we are very confused if we should have another one in the next 1 year or just wait until my DD is like 5 yr old... should i just get it over with????? ↓
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Name: evae777 | Date: Mar 7th, 2008 1:14 PM
I would sure do it especially if you are ready! i am afraid to have more children later on because our bodies are not as resilient the older we get along with me not wanting to be in my 50's or 60's and taking care of a teenager. but thats just me. how exciting you guys are thinking about it! ↑
Name: alirenee86 | Date: Mar 12th, 2008 10:25 AM
I'm totally with evae777...I got pregnant right away...I have a 4 month old and am due is September so they will be 10 months apart!! I will tell you I'm a very in shape, energetic 31 year old and say all the time how I can't imagine being much older of a mother because it is a lot!! And I have a very easy baby. I'm glad we wound up getting pregnant so quickly for that reason...if you just put it off and wait, you're only getting older. PLUS, they'll be further apart in age which isn't so cool when they get older. Get pregnant now!! :):) ↑
Name: Amy_mommy | Date: Mar 12th, 2008 10:27 AM
I'm still on birth control and i'm going to stop in June. and probably start trying in December or something..... ↑
Name: bubbasmom | Date: Mar 16th, 2008 8:56 PM
Hi Amy. I currently has a son who just turned 2 and I am 22 weeks pregnant. My original plan was to have a second when he was over 3 so that he would understand what was happening and be semi-self sufficient. I am very glad that they will only be 2.5 years apart. I don't think I could go back to diapers, car seats, strollers, and all the fussiness if my son had been older. Just my personal opinion. ↑
Name: cors1wfe | Date: Mar 17th, 2008 6:21 PM
I say do it right away - mine are all about 4-5 years apart and I wish I had done it closer - good luck ↑
