I am a woman that has had 2 children within the last 3 years and with BOTH of them I didn't get a positive until I missed 4 ( yes count them 4 periods).Which means I was way more than 30 or 40 Days late with both of my kids. My mom didn't get a positive with me until she was 13 weeks. Every woman's body is different ladies. ↑
I have not missed a period, although they have been very light, I have done numerous HPT that have been negative, so i presumed that It was impossible that i was pregnant. So i had a great B/day, Christmas and New year parting and drinking(I have 2 other kids and did not and would not intentially drink whist pregnant). Now i am sure i must be preganant, perhaps 6-7mnths. HPT still negative, family thinks i am mad, but i now know that i am. People may wonder how you could get to 7mnths and not realise, well i did realise, but my body didnt in the usual ways. My period never stopped, and i was getting neg tests, docters and health pros make you think it is impossible under those conditions to still be pregnant. So i thought i was going a little batty when all of my instincts told me i was pregnant, but i went about my life as usual, thinking perhaps it was in my head. I am also very tall and with my other two pregnancies you couldnt really tell untill i was about 6-7mnths(no stretch marks, very wide across hips, plenty of hiding space). Now the last week i am feeling baby kick, and my stomach is undeniably pregnant, starting well up above the naval. I should have listened to my instincts and demanded an ultrasound, now my baby could pay. I have been drinking and took a strong course of antibiotics, in the last several months. WOMEN IF YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE PREGNANT DEMAND ULTRASOUND TRUST YOUR BODY. I am going to the doctors this week, i will get back to you regarding how far along i am! ↑
how much do you weigh? I know a woman who claims not to know she was pregnant until six months along. I saw her yesterday and she was huge and looked very pregnant. she is still less than 7 months. I just do not see how you can have a 6-7 month pregnant belly and just think you've gained a few pounds. i think that is stupitidy. AND for the record...if you're trying to conceive...you shouldn't be drinking anyway! ↑
sorry i dont reallt have a answer but i have a question for those who answered what did the doctor say? did the doctors say this was normal to bleed during pregnancy and have negative pee results? ↑
I had a normal period in August 2004 and around that time was the last that I was sexual active. I got sick with diarhea in September, and i don't know whether it is a symptom of pregnancy or not, but I thought I might be pregnant so I tested twice (a week apart) and got negative results for both. when i was sick i lost 15-20 lbs. but felt like my stomach was getting bigger. I got a light period in september and I thought it could have been due to the weight loss. in november i had another light period, i decided to keep myself from worrying i should go in and get tested, i went to planned pregnancy and they were almost closed so they sent me home. i got another pregnancy test and that turned up negative as well. in december i got a light period and in the beginning of january i bought two more hpt's and tested a week apart, both results were negative again. i went to planned pregnancy again in january because i was still a little worried, i felt as though my stomach was gettinig bigger, it looked bigger in the mirror. the odd thing is that pants that were too tight in september were fitting in january. anyway, i went to planned parenthood and did a pee test, it was negative, so i went home and didn't worry anymore because i trusted that they would be right. now it is february and i am worried again because my stomach has definitely grown!! i am expecting my period to come some time this week. i am tired of worrying, i will go to planned parenthood tomorrow for another test. do they offer blood tests there? ↑
I suppose I am 5 months in. I had all the symptoms of pregnancy. I had 5 nega urine test and a ultrasound. I heard that not all ultrasound cannot detect the baby if it's too far in. (says a doctor). I can feel a slight kick. I had brown/pink blood the first four months (heavy at times but some days too many days some days 3 days). I am breathless, my stomach is getting bigger and I'm not gaining wt. I feel kicking sometimes. I couldn't suck in my stomach the first couple of month cause I felt full. I find it hard to study and retain information. This month I am late. I had tender breast the first month and fourth month. I get tired easily esp sleepy. My breasts have enlarged. I am very gassy. I had very wild vivid dreams. According to the doctor it's most likely a girl. I'll have to wait and see. I read most babies are on the right lower side. where a different doctor for some reason did not move the ultrasound detector to. ↑
Not everyones body is the same. I rather not be pregnant but there's a lot of weird things happening to my body that are unusual. It's better to play it on the safe side and take precautions. People do have wild dreams during pregnancy due to hormone changes. Anyone who has a baby book could read about that. Trust your own bodies. ↑
I have a fibriod in my lower left pelvic area...I have always had my periods every 21- 28 days never later... I am now a week late had about 3 hpt's all neg getting blood results back today. I do Have some symptoms but I don't feel sick at all just a lil more tired at night after work. If the blood work is neg my DR is sending me for an ultra sound and a pelvic exam... It is standard for a Dr to send you for an ultrasound if you have a missed period and no pregnancy detected. well in Canada it is. ↑
I'm also lost.. I had my period Feb 11-15. My period usually last longer than that, but what really freaked me out was the spotting (nothing like I've been through before) and not the really heavy long period I'm ustoo having. On the 18th I went to the Doc. for my yearly pap and I explained to her what was going on, so she checked my cervix (wich was really sensitive and hurt) so she ordered a blood test. I was somewhat surprised because i told her about the spotting part and did think this was something to have a blood test done. Well the test came back negative, but I still have some cramping going on. A week after the negative test (26th) I had some really light spotting going w/ cramping and honestly I really don't know what to think. The doc said that she would call me if there was anything abnormal with my pap and she has not done so yet. When I was pregnant with my 16 month old I had a pap done and it came back abnormal not even a week passed and the doc. called me right away to let me know what was going on (which after more test everything was normal, and doc. said it was due to pregnancy) and now she has not even called. I want to know if anyone else has gone through the same thing with spotting after having a spotting period. ↑
Hi girls, well im in the same boat as you gals are Im 20 years old I have never been pregnant and am about 16 days late for my periods.. I took 3 urine test and 1 blood test all came out negative... But I have all the symptoms of being tired, sore breast, bloated and many more.. The doctors have almost told me in other words that im crazy!! im still waiting to see if I am or not please somebody let me know this is normal!! I am going crazy!! I need to know. ↑
After reading these posts, I don't feel so alone about my situation. Dec. 17th, I was ovulating, we done a our thing and I felt it in my heart that that was it. Blood test on Jan 4th came back neg and urine test a couple of weeks later was neg. All this time my breasts have been itching like crazy and in the last month, my stomach has as well. I have been so moody and emotional and just don't feel like myself. This would be my first preg. but I just can't help but feel in my heart that I am. I have those noticable blue veins on my breasts as well and they're bigger too. My nipples get hard for no reason. Normally, I don't eat so much cheese, but the last 3 weeks I have been wanting to eat alot of cheese. I've been having my period each month during all this, but hasn't been that heavy. I've been aggravating myself over it. Does anyone have a word for me??!! ↑
You ladies are giving me hope. I have had all the symptoms for about a month now. At 3 weeks (a little early, I know), I had a blood test. The Dr. said that it tested down to 3. Said it should have showed up. It came up negative. But the symptoms are still here. My last period was wierd. Very light, short and very bright red, in contrast to the dark, heavy clotted bleeding I usually get. I have heard stories of women who were 3, 4 and 5 months along before the pregnancy was confirmed. I am crossing my fingers I am going to be one of them. Baby dust to all! ***** ↑
WOW... intuition is something amazing isnt it?? the second day after i got pregnant I KNEW... i remember waking up that morning, knowing... something came up in a convo with my sister and i stated something to hint around that i thought i might be pregnant..... 3 weeks passed and took 3 HPTests and all negative. started bleeding on the 4th week.. Still had the "vibes" and now showing symptoms of being pregnant.. went to the doctor early in the morning took a pregnancy test with my first morning pee i had been holding in and sure enough i was pregnant, and this was while i was bleeding.... now a month later i was bleeding again went to the ER took a blood test and said it was negative... its weird tho beacause, i knew i was gonna find this site.... i know im still pregnant... seriously ladies instinct is the key on really knowing if your pregnant are not. im good with instict on an over all level but the motherly vibes are much stronger and havent went away yet... now my mom on the other hand says its harmones, but you cannot confuse the too. atleast i cant i know when im being harmonal and i know what my gut is telling me. so we bet if i am pregnant she has to get me the whole nursery and diapers for a year. good luck to all you moms and future moms. have fun and just listen to your gut.... but dont let your mind play tricks on you, sometimes it is difficult to tell the difference in what your heart, mind or gut is saying and they all might be saying different things and probably are. listen to your gut, it will lead you in the right direction... pray to GOD to give you strength and instinct and he will. thats the only way to open your self to gain instinct, realy on GOD to give it to you and he will. but you do have to ask for it..... ↑
Lots of us in the same boat. I'm 33 and a little concerned about pregnancy as the baby wouldn't be planned, but sure would be loved. I've got a 4yo dd and 2 yo dd. I had my last period Nov. 7. I've missed a few off and on in my life, but never gone more than 2. Now, it is March 1 and still, no period. I have taken multiple HPT's to no avail. All negative. At times, I feel pregnant also. I'm wondering if I should go to the doctor or just wait for my yearly in June. ↑
i posted a while back.. thought i would update for those still in this situation.. i went and got a blood test (the ones that messure hcg levels) and it came back negative.. my doc said my uterus felt normal size and all that, so he thinks my cycle is just changing and maybe my hormones are out of wack because of that, causing wierd mood swings and cravings and things (im 21 btw)... so im supposed to start bc in march to see if that helps... so im just taking it that im not pg afterall. Good luck everyone!! :) ↑
Haley, thanks for the encouragement.I have already been doing as you said to rely on God. This morning I was praying again about it and He did speak to me to believe in what I feel and to stand my ground. I know the symptoms that I've been having may sound like hormones going crazy, but I also know I've never had symptoms like itchy breasts, stomach & palms of hands, bloating and gassy, there's others too. I'll keep you up to date about myself. Thanks!!! ↑
Hi everyone! Im 19 years old I have gone in for a blood test it came up no but something in my hearts keeps telling me Iam so I have done 2 pregnancy tests and they both came up no but it is not enough for me I swear I think Iam. I always have pain in my lower right stomach my eating habbits are very odd I pee a lot and im cranky ass heck also my back hurts all the time n my stomach has got pretty hard. can someone please help me out I dont know how to tell if iam and iam scared i do like to party like any normal teenager but i need to know if iam so i can stop but i dont know how to tell ↑
Stephanie~ The safest way to go is to go see a doctor. They can tell you better. If you really feel pregnant, make an appointment. Good luck to you however you want it to come out. ↑
i am a week late and i have taken several hpt's and all came back neg. i go mon for a blood test. i have two children so i know the symptoms all too well. dull ache in the abdomen awelling in the ankles tiredness mood swings hip pains sore breasts and etc ↑
after reading all these responses i don't know what to think. i came off of BC in oct. after being on them for years and had a normal AF in oct. and nov.(28cd) but in dec. it was 3 days late and did'nt stay on very long so i thought i was pg. i took 4 test in dec. and they were all BFN. in jan. i wasn't feelin all that well and AF was 3 days late again but i got another BFN. in feb. the same thing happened but this time AF was light-medium flow the first day and like 3 days of brown spotting after but i refused to take another pg test b/c i refused to get my hopes up again only to have them dashed to pieces. for the past 2 weeks i have not been able to ignore how i've been feeling.i have all the signs of pg except breast tenderness and also my lower abdominal is very tender, have been having pains/cramps there, and feel extremely bloated like i'm about to pop. a couple of days ago i took another pg test and it was a BFN. am i just associating everything that i've been feeling w/ pg b/c i know all of the symptoms or what? i'm scared b/c if i am pg i would be 15 weeks and something would definitly be wrong. also i want to add that i was on the pill to decrease the pains of ovarian cyst but they weren't working well. sorry so long but thank u for any comments or advice u can give.. ↑
I'm begining to think that if you think that you are pregnant your body goes into this mode. I mean you start having preg symtoms but you're not really. I don't know. I've been trying to have a baby for 9 months now, I was only on the pill for 3 years. I've had a few months where I was sure I was prego. Nausea, tired, hungry alot. But I wasn't, now I start to think I'm nuts and I want this so bad that I make myself feel this way. When I get my period which is pretty reg now I cry because i feel i will never have a baby. My husband tell's me everything will be okay but I don't know. When I went back to the doctors because he wanted to check my cysts again he did a pit gland, thyroid (blood)and urine tests but they all came back neg for problems (or preg ),cept I have a bladder infect, any way I also had an ulterasound, all this 4 days after I ovulated. but now I feel weird again. But this time my breasts feel funny, I have a diff pain more into the center of my lower ab, and i had a little blood during sex, which is weird cause i'm not due for my P for another week. Does any one ever get like this? Do you think you can make yourself think your prego? Or am I just losing it. I hope this all makes sense. ↑
Sara, no you're not going crazy. You are right, in my opinion. You can make yourself think "I'm pregnant" only in your mind because I have done exactly that same thing. We have been trying to get prego for a long time. There has been times that I would have symptoms and think oh, this is it and it wouldn't be. But I have never felt it like I do this time. You have believe in what you truly feel. Don't look for other people that have been prego to say this is how you should feel if you're pregnant. Everyone is different and we can't say well, she had the same symptoms as me I must be pregnant. I've did that and build my hopes up for nothing.This time I feel it in my heart more strongly. Please do not put pressure on yourself, only makes things worse. God has been my comfort and He blessed with an understanding husband. Best of wishes to you. ↑
Sara, no you're not crazy. It easy to trick your mind to believe you're pregnant and start having symptoms because you want it so bad. I have done that more than once. More pressure you put on yourself and thinking this is going to be time I will get pregnant, it's really a hurt to you. Lean on your husband, it's so good to have someone that understands. My husband has been very encouraging, most importantly God has been my comfort. It is really painful to go through a time of wanting a baby with all your heart and you can't have one. The best thing you can do is to not pressure yourself and find a hobby or something. God bless you and give you strength!! ↑
Sorry, it must look crazy that I put two different posts on. I didn't know the first one went through cause I wanted to correct something on it so I done it again. Oh, well hope I didn't bore you too much!! ↑
hey all! going to the docs to try and get my results back for my blood test failing that i'm gonna try first response hpt. i gotta cramp and do get wierd irreg periods but i'm convinced i'm preg!! am i crazy? i have all the symptoms and my mum bled when she was preg both times. As women don't we always trust our istincts? i just feel pregnantand i'm scared to trust my intuition in case i'm wrong how stupid would i feel? worrying everyone as well as myself! well i'll be sure to let you all know. maybe we can trust ourselves more than the medical pros!! xx ↑
Hi All!! New here! I am a mother of 3 and I am sure of the Prego feelings I have ALWAYS known when I was PG. I am still breastfeeding my 23 month old daughter and I just got my AF back on Dec. 17 and I didn't get Jan until the 23rd. So if I ovulated it was on the 15 and my fetile days were the 12 thru 16. I have not gotten a period back. I have taken 4 HPT and one blood test all NEG. But I feel PG. I am having to go to the bathroom more often, I have cramping like I am going to get AF but nothing. I also am have heartburn like crazy!! And I am having some problems with certain foods. I really feel PG but I don't understand all the NEG tests. I trust my instincts but I can ignore the tests right? I am going to the Dr. today hopefully I will find something out. ↑
HI everyone. i was just wondering if You MOMS out there could answer something for me. I am 7 days late, not normal at all, some prego symptoms, but the strangest to me is the delay of my period and what seems to be Implantaion cramps. Two days after I was suposed to start AF, I started getting mild cramps which got a little worse for four days, all along no period, even though I kept feeling as though it was coming *(physically felt like it). The cramps have now subsided at 7 days. If I was not pregnant and my period was just thrown off because of stress or medicine like people are saying, would I have gone through all my period symptoms for the week I am suposed to have it but no bleeding. I would think if it was delayed, it would be just that, not a period without bleeding. Oh and I have Swelling breast, tiredness, and urinating alot, took a PG test on the 5th day late, and Negative. I would appreciate any help if this would have happened because of the stress delay reason. ↑
well, got my results back for blood tests and internals. They found nothing. I took the first response hpt on fri afternoon and it came back negative. I cried all afternoon and all through saturday. still feel pregnant but feel like i'm going crazy. i had a m/c in nov and they think that the placenta or something hasn't gone properly tso my body is treatin it like a baby. How could this be when i felt movement in my stomach? i haven't missed any periods but they are coming so irreg that i think i may be like my mother and bleeding through pregnancy. It started reallt light and pink then went brown, then i started passsing fresh blood which docs say is ok (they don't believe i'm preg) and now i'm prac finished bleeding. This is not normal by any stretch for me. my boobs are huge!! from a c to a dd in months!!it's breaking my heart not knowing because i feel so pregnant. Haven't stopped crying today, i feel so disappointed. I went to the docs again this morning and he's referred me to a gynaecologist so maybe i'll get the scan i need. i think ha thinks i've got cysts. i've stopped talking to my friends and family about this now cause i'm sure they think i'm mad. i want so bad to hear that little heartbeat in my ultasound. if this has happened to anyone else please mail me hoppetybunny@aol.com. x ↑
