if the last day of my menstrual persiod was the 31st and i had sex with guy#1 on the first of the month and it was only that 1 time then had sex with my boyfriend(guy#2) on the 4th and my due date is november 14th what day did i get pregnant and who is the farther ↓
If the first day of your lmp was January 26th, then ovulation on a 28 day cycle would have been Feb 9, and your bf is far more likely to be the father since you had sex with him closer to ovulation. Sperm from guy #1 would not have lasted in you for more than a week. Be at peace. ↑
Your boyfriend is much more likely to be the father. I know this sounds mean but to be honest it serves you right to be stressing about who the father is. If you had a bf what the hell were you doing screwing around with another guy? If you had kept your legs closed & had been faithful, you wouldn't have to worry about this stuff. ↑
she has her answer. and you don't need a calculator to tell you ov date lol. it's almost guaranteed to be her boyfriend's. but i wonder if he knows she's messing around? ↑
Telling her to find an ovulation calculator was easier to type out than telling her how to figure it out based on how many days there are in her cycle. I never said "The only way to find out is..." Just easier on me. My sister ovulates on the 9th day of her cycle...if this was my sisters case than considering her period is 6 days...she'd have started the 25th in order to end the 31st, and ovulated on the 3rd. Which would make guy #1 the most likely guy. Now while she is not my sister....Her ovulation date isn't gaurenteed to be the same as us typical "28 day cycle" women. And would make a huge difference obviously. ANd while I doubt I am right about this...it is possible that "guy 2" became her boyfriend after she had sex with guy 1...and she's saying "boyfriend" because he is now...I assume nothing...but I'm as close to assuming as I can get that's probably not the case. lol. But how are we to know. ↑
It's probably her bf's, but in my opinion, she shouldn't be having sex with another guy when she has a bf. That's crazy. It's hard to tell who the FATHER is, but it's on her.. She's the one who messed around with another guy. That's why some girls don't know who their baby's daddy is. ↑
Name: sunshine7610 | Date: Jul 22nd, 2008 12:49 AM
damn cate. crawl out her butt for now. i'm sure it's a mistake, but it wasn't like the guy fell in there or something. it takes two and she didn't say she was raped so it's her own fault and before she gets to call it a mistake, she'll have to own up to her own stupidity for messing around. ↑
How good does it feel to be so cruel? I mean, those of you who are must be getting something out of it. As for myself...I came here to help others out with pregnancy who might not be as educated about it...since I am on my 3rd. I mean that IS what this is all for. It doesn't say, "register here to be a complete butt to someone who needs help maybe more than they ever have." You can add all of the words you want to it. Berating someone for something that already happened is not the way to educate people, and prevent things from happeneing...but regardless of any of this..."mistake" is indeed a word that one can use to describe something like this. At least those of us without Borderline Personality Disorder who doesn't need to ruin another's day....especially that of a pregnant female. Please tell me at least that you are under 18 so I can understand why you're acting not so grown up. ↑
I don't understand how choosing to do something and having a negtive outcome to it is not a mistake? Are we all human here? Do people, especially young people, make mistakes? Can't she make something positve out of this mistake by taking care of her baby? ↑
Bryanna, if you ovulate normally 14 days before you start your cycle, like MOST women then as everyone said it's more likely to be your boyfriend but not ever woman ovulates normally, some women even have periods without ovulating at all. ↑
There is no way of knowing for sure until the baby is born, and you can have a DNA test done, but it sounds to me like your boyfriend is more likely to be the father. ↑
