Question: That's about all I can think of to say is wow, I mean honestly is the name of this forum Teen Pregnancy or is it Post Here and get Attacked! ??? Almost every single post I have read here seems to be nonstop attacks on the poster... seems to me some people may have too much time on their hands... just my opinion. I know that some of these posts are fakes that is always going to happen, however has anyone stopped to consider that some of them are real, that these are real girls in a real panic because the life they thought they were leading is turned upside down due to either a possible or already proven pregnancy, and that they have come here looking for help or advice or maybe someone friendly to talk to? I'm not saying everyone has to respond to every post with nice kind words, but honestly the name calling and evil comments are really getting out of hand... it's worse than a highschool here... I have seen highschoolers with more maturity than some of the people on here... and it saddens me. Im not going to call everyone out, but one person in particular AngelMonkey- you were attacked when you first joined, were you not? And it didn't feel good did it? Then why would you turn around and do it to the next girl that posts? I know I have done my share of name calling and such however it is getting old, and honestly it has really become rather pathetic... do unto others... just a thought...and for those of you who are preg or are already mommies...take a moment to think how you would want your child treated if it were them coming here looking for help because they were frightened and scared.... and dont give me that bullshit that they would come to you because you would raise them better, because that is not going to be the case trust me..... this is a place for girls to come to looking for help or someone to talk to, instead of being mean and cruelhearted, why don't we all try to be the adults we are and offer advice and support. If you cant do that then why are you even here, if you want to argue and start fights and see who can be the meanest find another site... pregnancy is hard enough add on to that being a teen still in school and trying to figure things out and having your parents disappointed in you and it becomes damn near impossible... I DID NOT start this thread to start a debate, so please don't assume everyone should jump on here and start a fight, I just am fed up with reading how young girls are getting attacked, its really plain out disappointing... ?
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Answer: Meh, I've been a bitch to summersun yeah, but it's so not possible for her to be even PREGNANT everyone else I've been trying to help ( of course not lluknjess the nutter.. ) Don't know what else to say.. but I've been trying to help the OTHERS. ^^ =
Answer: i suppose i went a little far with summersun (my opinions still stand of llukenjess). i usually try to help where i can and have even tried to ease people's minds when they seem freaked out. true maybe summer is pregnant, but when we explain to her that what she tells us is physically impossible and yet she still lashes back calling names, it's hard to stay nice. i suppose the whole summersun topic is getting old, but as long as lluke drops it, i'm happy to. =
Answer: Yeah she called me a slut lol all because I said it was not possible. >_> =
Answer: i called her a liar and told her friend to teach her how to keep her legs shut. but hey it's true! if she's so terrified of getting pregnant and isn't on the pill...don't have sex! but she's at that age where she knows everything so you can't tell her anything...*sigh* kids =P =
Answer: i stilll help other people..........but if theres a fake or someone who is damn right stupid im going to tell them, i think some of the posts are more about giving them there opinions than attacking them...........yes tish i did get attacked...........by you also..........but then again i wasnt lying im not going to attack someone for know reason but i,l give them my opinion =
Answer: tish ive noticed it on other threads also, it is a shame that it gets like that when you think we are all supposed to be pregnant women! i do think there are far too many teens making things up on this site but i just don't bother replying back to them. i also think some people get way too sensitive when someone is giving their opinion and they don't like it so jump on the attack straight away. there was one girl on this site who used to almost follow round anything i wrote and slag it off just for the sake of an argument and i found that pretty pathetic. i have to say though that i think when things get personal its not a nice site to be on and you tend to see this 'ganging up' from a group of 3/4 girls who will do nothing but fly around nasty insults. on one thread i wrote about how i think when we are pregnant we should embrace it and not worry obsess about how much weight we gain etc etc, you should have seen the 3/4 girls who were so viscious towards my comment, it was almost like i had come on condoning murder! ridiculous! =
Answer: what i find most worrying is that these teens are actually underage and shouldnt be sleeping around. and in almost all cases their boyfriends (or should i say the men that are using them) are all older than them. i don't often see many people pick up on that fact, instead i just see insults being thrown around at the girl. =
Answer: i'm nuts cuz i'm the original one that was trying to help not bash these poor girls and then I WAS ATTACKED yes of course i'm gunna say something back when something stupid us said....tish you are completely right about these people being so rude...all i was tryin to do was stop it and then i get attackedd....LOL and now i'm being blamed but its ok with me....cuz if you havnt noticed i'm not the ONLY person saying you guys were too mean!! LOL and its so funny that the poeple that were being mean are accusing ME LOLOLOLOL my entertainment =
Answer: Cat that is well said both statements...it seems that 3/4 girls are 'attacking" in alot of posts., and it is not fair! I kinda feel bad for summersun! So maybe her dates got messed up and she was talking badly about her mother, but she is a teenager! Leave her be is a 14 yr old "liar" really that important to these people? As far as llukenjess i feel bad for her too. Even though she said some nasty things there is alot that was said to her that didin't need to be said. I also feel bad for the number of other girls that have been ridculed for their lifestyles. Not everyone is perfect, and we don't live in a perfect world. People need to realized that everywhere is different and everyone is different. People's taste and styles of living vary from state to state country to country. Who are we to judge whats right and whats wrong? =
Answer: Seriously ladies is it THAT important to any of you? None of you even know each other. We are oregnant women and we should be sharing with each other and bonding with each other. And if we come across someone we dont like then we dont have to talk to them. Just leave them be ignore them. They cannot fight with themselves! Lets just have a nice time with no anger involved. Everyone must remember someones opinion is their opinion, and you may not agree with it, but you also cannot change it so don't try! It just causes more drama! =
Answer: I am glad to see that so many people have read this, and that a lot of them are in agreement that it is getting old, and well pathetic. Now lets see how long it lasts that everyone stops all the bickering and starts actually offering helpful advice? Yes I agree there are a LOT of fake posts, however the fake posts are from girls dying for attention (good or bad) because they aren't getting the attention they crave in life, when you truly think about it you realize that may be due to bad parenting- which is very sad for these girls.... im not saying "play along" with their crap, just stop and realize for a minute that maybe their home life is not what it should be. On the same thought though, some of these girls really are pregnant, and thats scary enough-then to come looking for help from either pregnant or have been pregnant woman to only be attacked is pretty scary as well when you are a young girl lost as to where to turn. Some of these girls families are very disappointed in them (more so than you think you are with them) so they are looking for some support, and yes pregnancy is exciting, you're bringing another life into the world... so maybe for a second they want someone to share in their excitement as well? Didn't you when you found out you were pregnant? What I am trying to say is think about the whole situation before you type that hateful remark, and consider that these are young girls who are already having to be defensive towards their parents and others around them in real life, may "attack" a sour statement about why they shouldn't have....because it is what they have to do in their every day life...thank you for reading this and being considerate in your responses...and one more thing... ANGELMONKEY i said this wasn't a thread to start fights on and yet the first chance you get you are trying to start one with lluknjess... can you stop for 5 seconds or would you like everyone to come after you again? I can think of a few people who would love to still put you in your place but yet have left you well enough alone because we agreed the fight was over... consider how you felt before you make another mean remark....just offering some helpful advice (the girls here can turn on you in an instant) =
Answer: Very well said!! Please lets stop the fighting! =
Answer: i agree with your comment tish. one of the threads on here about summer is absolutely ridiculous, it goes on forever and all you see from both sides is foul nasty language. im not condeming what some adults have said on there but i saw summer use a few 'choice' words also so i don't think she set a good example or made a good picture o herself. i do think a lot of it is to do with their upbringing as to how and why they get in that situation but i find it hard to think she and other foul mouthed teens are completely innocent when they probably need their mouths washing out just as much as adults who attack back with bad language. i certainly didnt use or even know half of that language at the age of 14 but then everyone is different. in brief i think people stoop far too low when they get really personal and start swearing in their posts, there is just no need for it. =
Answer: ok how have i caused fighting hmm? i asked what llukenjess ment and she called me a moron. i think you should re read! and not jump to conclusions and jump down someones throat! =
Answer: anglemonkey no offense but it seems you need to re read ALOT...you seem to jump down everyone's throat right off the bat.... =
Answer: llukenjess youdont even make sence! just dont talk to me =
Answer: the truth is im not scared i was just saying
i told my mom she was ok with it a little bit
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Answer: well apprently you're the only one that thinks that...if you havnt noticed this thread IS A NO FIGHTING ZONE! so take your drama elsewhere please. =
Answer: yes llukenjess A NOFIGHTING ZONE so quit it! i told you to leave me alone so do it! and then it will be a non fightung zone! =
Answer: this is my point exactly, i make a peaceful thread and it cant even be left without some sort of controversy.... this is why i dont come to the teen threads any more... =
Answer: Just shut your damn pie hole already tish! LOL ;P =
Answer: tish, you should really try and ignore it...i know i fly off the handle sometime becase its annoying and everyone can have a stressful day...but things like this we need to ignore...some people we have to undersatnd just aren't mature yet....but it comes with age. =
Answer: Hey guess what lluknjess you jumped on me cause I said you had problems cause HELLO YOU DO you fuckin' nutters ! =
Answer: you know what's funny about lluke is she's trying to plead her case to tish, but you see, lluke, tish isn't blind like you. she knows that what summer described for us is impossible but she won't go after summer for it like we do. so yeah, you're argument is useless. yeah we were meaner than we should have been, but lluke earned it and summer needs to learn that she can't lie and then make herself believe it. it's not good for her! and if lluke is so concerned with taking care of her on the forums, why not try and help her out in real life?? teach this girl to say no! **angel** i think it's best we just drop it now. there's no getting through to everyone and it's just not worth the stress. lluke will keep telling summer that it's ok to lie and that's fine. it's her medical hell to deal with someday. and lluke will have to learn that lying will just make people ignore everything she says. and if i'm not careful lol people will just think i'm a sailor from all of my "colorful" language. but what i can say for some of us is that we are hormonal especially because it's some of our first kids (no offense to the non preggies!) and i've been miserable lately trying to figure out what gives gas and not so maybe if we just let this whole summersun subject die maybe she'll fess up or leave or just chill with the rest of us. =
Answer: well lukenjess ran away when i proved she was also momtobe924 so i think the fughting isprobally going to stop anyway =
Answer: honestly angel grow the hell up..i dont know what proof you have...but give it a rest..we aren't intereste...so unless you wnt people to start on you again..which i'm tring really hard NOT to do...then stop attacking EVERYONE....fake or not. justl eave umm alone. =
Answer: pb fuck off! i was not attackingiwas telling people that she,s gone so the fighting is going to stop! honestly! look who,s attacking now! and i do have proof which is why llukenjess has dissapreared! why dont you grow up and stop attacking me! =
Answer: Yeah llukenjess is gone, I asked her a question and she accidentally responded with the momtobe screen name. She disappeared after that. It's on summersuns post. =
Answer: sorry angel...but you've been fighting everyone since you've been cleared...everyone....not just mommytobe or whateer her name is..and I'm sorry but i am not attacking you. Just telling you to your face....to knock it off...cause all we've seen out of you is going to everyone's posts and talk about why they are fake...this post is suppossed to be telling people to just leave the fakes alone..cause no one can have a conversation around here....and the snipe comments you keep making are just starting more crap....now be a good girl and stop swearing at people. =
Answer: ok who i was i attacking? i was attacking llukenjess and sumersun (like everyone else) and now there gone so i,d like to know what your on about!! because when you told me to stop attacking i wasnt!! you just have aproblem with me and obviously with the fact that know one is attacking me anymore or something lame like that because you seem pretty lame.....now stop trying to atttack me and move on! =
Answer: I've seen the attacking and whatnot, but I've personally had a good experience on here. It seems like it starts when someone does deserve to be told something they don't want to hear and it just gets a little crazy from there. =
Answer: its starts when someone states there opinion and someone else doesntlike it!! its all about people trying to prove they are right because who wants to be wrong...........i agree that its getting old and stopped attacking i was then letting teddy i think know what happened with llukenjess and pb jumps on me like a spider monkey!!! for know god damn reason so brings something old up!! we do all need to stop attacking but so do you pb and you can you were not attacking but you were why else would you feel the need to bring soemthing up that had finished when alll i was doing was telling teddy why llukenjess was gone! =
Answer: sory but i dont read all the posts..and i know that you hated getting attacked..yet you went on nd still kept attacking summersun, lukjess or whatever her name is and momtobe whatever her name is......why not just call them fake and leave them alone..like i did..I'm not attacking you. I have a problem with you sure...but cant you just drop it..honestly....you just seem to make all these little comments..how about worry about yourself and not all the fakes...why try and sit there and prove them fakes....they dont mean anything to you. anyway i'm not going to let you ruin my night...lol i'm having a nice night ...i got my wedding videos back... =
Answer: angel: when you first came here, you attacked everyone and everything. that's why we attacked you, and the point pb was making was that you hated it when we attacked you so it's almost hypocritical that you went on to attack someone else when you hated it yourself. i think pb just wants you to see that enough is enough. i know you say you found lluke out, but we all saw it at the same time and no one had to explain it. she outed herself to us. and then she left. it's done. and your posts all have !'s and choice words and that's a little more heated that it needs to be. =
Answer: Thank you teddy...I'm glad someone else can see what i'm saying. =
Answer: np pb. so what's been going on with you lately? anything new? you may have posted somewhere, but i swear i forget everything lately lol. =
Answer: llukenjess and sumersunhavnt even been on here for days!! so how am i attacking them! thats thepoint im trying to prove i was attacking them when eveyones else was! (and yes i attacked them so what! just cos i got attacked doesnt mean im not going to do the same to someone who deserves it!) my point is i havent attacked anyone since it all got old! so if you wouldnt mind can you get your facts right before you givr it your best at me! andno teddy i didnt come on here attacking i came on trying to stick up for someone that was getting attacked and thats when everyone started attacking me! now if you want 2 prove your point do it by not even fighting back with me hm!! thank you can do that! =
Answer: hiya teddy, i'm fine....just editing my wedding videos now...finnally....anniversary in about 8 days. i'm doing alright...just been off the computer for a while....oh and angel....grow the helll up...and i'm sorry but no one is attacking you ehre...trying to say give it a fucking rest. No one even likes you..sorry to say...but they tippie toe around you because they are being NICE..however i'm not afraid to tell you how i feel to your face. Stop pretending to be bigand bad....take off your little diapers..and put on some big girl undies....now please....shut up..you little twat. =
Answer: stop fighting pb and attacking its getting old now =p =
Answer: Lol, can't you see the difference between .....telling you something and attacking you. Sorry but i am actually being nice..until youflipped on teddy just because she tried to point out...more clearly what i was saying. Lol....this ..this attacking is getting old thing...is it only fun when your attacking someone? andsorry. But i'm not attacking...just trying to get you. ....to undersatnd...but its so hard...concidering your so thick. =
Answer: ha now your saying i attacked teddy!! you read in to things a bit to much!! i dont lliek you and you dont like you!! so lets just not talk to each other!! you yhink you are grown up enough for that?? probally not but what the heck i tried now if your immature you can comment be back if your mature as you think you then drop it =
Answer: ''' andno teddy i didnt come on here attacking i came on trying to stick up for someone that was getting attacked and thats when everyone started attacking me! now if you want 2 prove your point do it by not even fighting back with me hm!! thank you can do that! =''' <<< sorry but that is you bitching out teddy. LOl...and i'm juust having a conversation...lol =
Answer: see..your not as mature as you think you are! and telling teddy why i got attacked is not attacking her dumb ass!! anyway i think its funny that you think your mature yet when i say if your mature as you think you are then dont comment be back! huh but you did..............well says it all really! =
Answer: oh and all you trying to do is make people attack me again by trying to make it sound like i was attacking teddy!! its boring your realy lame if thats why your doing this but i just have 3words for you pb............GET OVER IT =
Answer: oh i obviously didnt make myself clear on that post i told teddy why i got attacked and the last part about doyou think you can stop fighting now was for you pb so dont try make it look it like i was attacking teddy!! teddy im sorry if also think it looks like im attacking you in that post but im not!! beleive me im done with arguing with pregnant chicks lol =
Answer: hunny, i dont care if you think i'm mature.>Lol i dont even know you. And i've not been going around attacking everyone...even when i know they are fakes..SOrry but tddy and i are simplysaying ...just let it go...and i dont think speaking my mind maes me immature. Lol....sorry but no...its called strong spirited. and i dont care if people atack you again..i could carel ess...lol i have more important things to say..and sure some of your posts may have been a few edays ago..but see i post when i can because i dont have time to be on here all the time like you. =
Answer: i will drop it but how bout you do the same because your making yourself look a bit like a hypocrite as your not dropping it either move on leav eme alone if you dont care =
Answer: only doing it..because my husband wore me out from the fucking that i could care les about you..im in happy mood. lol plus i have to get back to my editing. =
Answer: well you should stop having a go at me because you are mature enough to! but oh well if your guna shut up i dont care the reason why...another thing you said you will stop attacking me so why ae you still comenting me pfft =
Answer: Ummmm...first...I'm allowed to comment..Its called talking....i'm not attacking you...i'm taklng...heh. =
Answer: oh really........thats funny when ever i "talk" i get accused of attacking!! thought you had things to do? meh you just cant help yourself =
Answer: i'm editing my video now....thankx...and sorry but when you keepo acusing me of beinmg immature..i still take that as attacking..and no i dont think every post you say is attacking.....but i'm allowed to talk...not having a go....but i can still talk....Itscalled multi tasking.... =
Answer: Meh.. I don't think PB was "fighting" or "attacking" just stating her opinion but everyone views things differently. =
Answer: And I'm fairly sure Tish made this post not so people could bicker. Just throwing that out there. =
Answer: lol thats what i said..lol and teddy made it more clear thats what i said. Lol maybe i just word things differently LOl where have you been tessssssss..your offline on msn..hehehe....my video is coming along..lol =
Answer: your right everyone has different views pb,s view id that im attacking everyone and mine is that im not meh i dont care i know when im attacking people and when im not........but anyways im over it =
Answer: how is your pregnancy going any way addy? whens your appointment? are you still feeling tired? =
Answer: lol pb: just rub it in why don't you! i can't do anything like that until my doctor pulls me off of pelvic rest lol. **angel** this fight's over. no more. i told you that when you got here you attacked everyone. that stopped and you got caught up in the whole 'summer is lying' deal and it went too far. you hated it when i went after you and i wasn't even being that mean and you completely went after those girls. granted they were liars, your actions were almost hypocritical. now please, that's enough. we know you and pb don't like each other but enough is enough. =
Answer: i know the fighting is over! i think its other people that wont stop! im not fighting so quit saying the fighting is over! I ALL READY KNOW!! im not fighting anyone! =
Answer: oh teddy, you wanna come over and join the fun? LOL =
Answer: pb: hey if it ends the pelvic rest and i can bring my hubby, i don't care where or how lol. 3 months? i mean come on! lol. **angel** stop using the !'s because that indicates you're getting overly excited about what you're saying and "oh really........thats funny when ever i "talk" i get accused of attacking!! thought you had things to do? meh you just cant help yourself " is fighting. done! i don't care for any excuses. we've tried being nice to you, but you're wearing on everyone. =
Answer: whatever im going to state my opinion on wether i was attacking or not you know you all keep telling me the fighting has stopped yet it takes more than one person to fight so............... =
Answer: lol stop trying to have the last word in this whole "fight" matter. i don't really care who started it, i just would like to see it ended because it's old now. have your opinion all you'd like, but you can NOT be upset for someone giving you their opinion aswell if you expect yours to be respected. =
Answer: im not upset that other people show there opinions im upset that everyone is accusing me of still attacking! when all im doing is stating my opinion, im not trying to get the last word im trying to get my point across..........but whatever i really cant be bothered with this crap im sooooo not in the mood =
Answer: i know what you're saying and the best way to prove your point would be to drop the subject altogether. i know what you're saying, but you can't convince everyone. no point in wasting your time trying. you wouldn't even consider what pb said, so why would she return the favor? i even explained it more simply to help. =
Answer: lol teddy. of course your hubby can come. I'll break open the wine. Lol and i would start charging that babe for storaage. =
