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| Answer: I'm at work today so nothing real exciting to report. My u/s is at 9 in the morning so I'm a bit anxious about that. Regan, I would LOVE to have laser surgery on my eyes. I've been in glasses since the 3rd grade. I can't imagine not having glasses or contacts. Anyway, I must study. I have sooooooo much to study in such a small amount of time! I'll check in later! = |
| Answer: yay new thread!!! hi ann, i'll be thinking of you tomorrow morning and i'm sure everything will be great. i guess everyone is pretty busy. not much new here, my back is about to give up so its time to call it a day. gonna hop in the shower & do some housework. talk to you guys later! XO = |
| Answer: WOW! It is really quiet here tonight! I guess starting a new thread jinxed us! I just got home from work. A thunderstorm just went through with some hail. Luckily they weren't very big so I don't think there's any damage. I opened a bottle of champagne and am getting in the bathtub. I have to shave these forests on my legs before my u/s tomorrow! Regan, did you get all your planting and housework done? You said you had fun last night so I'm assuming it well with Garrett again. Where's everyone else? Ok, I'll be back after my bath! = |
| Answer: Hi Ann! Yes it sure is quiet here for sure! I ended up getting most of my planting done. I am having some issues figuring out what I should do so I called a landscape design company because I really need a plan & some help choosing things etc...I need a professional opinion big time. They are sending someone out on Thursday. Got my housework done & I'm just watching American Idol with a cup of tea. Going to take a bath after this and just chill out for the rest of the evening. Tomorrow I have to pick up the chairs & cushions, then in the afternoon the mulch/soil & pea gravel are being delivered. So I'll come back later as well, if we miss each other good luck tomorrow morning!!! XOXO Regan = |
| Answer: Evening my girls. I just got home from work. We had a recognition program for all the graduating nurses. I am exhausted, but had to stop in and say hello. Ann and Regan, sounds like you two are working way too hard. I planted some flowers, but that is it. Work is KILLING ME! Amy, yes, NP's here in Kentucky do have DEA numbers. They can prescribe anything but schedule one's. I have to practice for one year before applying for one. Well ladies, looks like I for sure ovulated. My temp is still up, and I am on 9 dpo (I think). Someone at dh's work gave him one of those really expensive fertility monitors for me to use when it comes time...I AM READY. Well, Ann, I hope the u/s goes well. Let us know as soon as you get home. Regan, I hope your love affair is going well (met the family huh?...;) Danielle and Amy, have a good night, and I'll talk to you all tomorrow. Missy, where are youuuuuu? Love ya girls, Brandy. = |
| Answer: Good evening girls...I am probably going to bed early tonight cuz i am so tired! I think i could sleep for years lol. I think I am 9dpo with Brandy; i haven't had any signs of implantation, tho, so I dont know what to think. I mean, I have been praying about it and I know that if you don't believe what you pray then it's pointless, but I can't help but tell myself not to get excited yet, either. I just want this roller coaster to be over already lol. I will probably lose it if the 3 cycles of clomid go by without any bfp's. Ok i'm done being depressing lol. Ann, i'll be thinking of you in the morning! Goodnight everyone! = |
| Answer: hey brandy and amy! okay so ann don't stress too much about tomorrow, it will all be fine! i am heading to bed as well, all these days of fresh air have knocked me out and i can barely keep my eyes open..lol. so good night to everyone....XO Regan = |
| Answer: My goodness! Sounds like everyone is just plain exhausted! I am a bit nervous about tomorrow but I'm just trying to think positive. Brandy, sounds like you're not going to make it till fall before ttc!!!!! Follow your heart and if you truly feel ready, go with it. Don't fight it! Amy, absolutely DO NOT get discouraged if you don't have signs of implantation! Most people don't have implantation signs. Most the charts I've seen that look like implantation (temp drop, spotting, etc) ended up not being preggo. So don't get down yet! It's way too early for that. Missy, Danielle, where you girls at? If you're like everyone else I'm sure you're in bed or hanging out on the couch! I'm headed to bed shortly too. Good night girls and I'll definitely post u/s results as soon as I get home. I do have to do a little shopping before I come home though. Well, nighty night! Love to you all! Ann = |
| Answer: OK BLONDE ALERT BLONDE ALERT! I have been checking the old thread waiting for someone to be around (i make shortcuts to the threads so i dont dig thru all the other threads on SOP) and since no one was posting I just thought it was a quiet day - lowe and behold, you all took off on me HAHAHHAHA. Can you guys let me know when u start a new thread LOL - Blonde over here **blush**. Anyhow, just chillin, wondering why I Thats FIVE cookies today - not good! Ann, sending good vibes for your US. Brandy, hope you get some much deserved rest! Regan, hope you get some good input, my hubby is King of HGTV and swears he's got his interior design/landscape design degree from that (just like I have my google MD HAHAHAHHAHA). Amy, don't worry about implant signs - 9 times outta 10 when you "have" the signs, AF shows, and when you swear you are out is when you get your BFP LOL. OK, I think I've gotten caught up - talk to everyone tomorrow! Lotsa love! = |
| Answer: OK just realized part of my post must have gotten erased - I talk in the middle about the fact that I made snickerdoodles tonight, ate 3 of them, and ate 2 oreos earlier in the day so I'm a piggy that's eaten 5 cookies today LOL = |
| Answer: omg missy i'm not even preggers & i've eaten 5 cookies in a day! LOL. tell your hubby to get up here & landscape my property. :) i love HGTV as well. haha. so ann I'm sending you all kinds of positive energy this morning girl! brandy you sound crazy busy, you're gonna need a vacay before you start ttc again! seems everyone was tired yesterday on this thread! lol. well i'm going to go for a run with the dogs, it supposed to be really rainy/stormy here this afternoon. heading out to run all my errands & go sign some stuff at the lawyers. so i'll check in later & see if there is any news from anyone!!! XOXO = |
| Answer: hi ladies! Ann good luck today!!! amy def. don't give up hope! regan you are a busy busy woman! lol. brandy, i wish i was a nurse already, i won't even get into the associates program til freaking spring! i would have this fall butttt, little chloe here is SUPPOSED to arrive aug. 1 and school starts the 14 or 15 i think, so i am not leaving my 2 wk old with a babysitter 5 days a week. so i decided to hold off til spring :( dang it. lol. i am so ready for actual nursing classes! i want to be a labor and delivery nurse! i can't wait, i should be studying for my anatomy finals, buttt, as you see im not! lol hope everyones day goes well! = |
| Answer: girls! just checking in & bumping us up. the chairs turned out well so happy i didn't attempt that myself! lol. so i'm just grabbing some lunch & relaxing for a bit before my big landscaping delivery arrives at 2pm. ann i'm anxiously waiting to hear from you!!! :) hi danielle good to hear from you! okay i'll check back in after i deal with all this stuff & see what's up! XO = |
| Answer: hey no chatty chatty!!! lol. okay i got everything into the barn just in time, it is pouring rain here!!! the dogs are locked in the sunroom as they collectively decided to roll in a mud puddle and my back hurts too much to bath them right now! :) so how is everyone doing? any news? ann i hope everything went great today at your u/s. well i've delayed the inevitable long enough time to clean off the furballs...RAMBO is currently swinging off of the string that lowers the blinds...LOL! back later & i want some chatter people!!! XOXO Regan = |
| Answer: Ok, I'm here! You all know how easy it is to get busy with a million things! I had to repaint all the doors I just did the other day cause I ended up hating the color! So now they look like I wanted them to. The u/s went well, Thank God! 2 small cysts but that's ok. I'll start the Clomid again tomorrow and the trigger shot has been ordered. I saw the nurse practitioner today and we talked about IUI. She's going to talk to my doctor about it tomorrow but I told her I didn't want to do that if we didn't have to. If the doc thinks we can do it on our own, I'd much rather that be the case. So we're starting at square one again. I'm ready though. Regan, you have been staying busy enough for all of us!! Take a break girl! I can picture RAMBO hanging from the blinds!! That's so freakin cute!! Missy, glad you found us! I can't wait till I can blame eating 5 cookies on pregnancy! Brandy, have you and DH talked any more about when you're going to start ttc again? Danielle, I totally understand waiting on school. I know you want badly to get it done but it will happen in good time. I'll graduate next May with my BSN and if I get preggo this cycle I'll be due in February! Yikes! Luckily, my classes are online and I have things set up so I'll only have to take 1 class that semester. But I'm starting the Master's program in the fall of 09 so that could get a little tricky. I guess I'll be in Brandy's boat then! Amy, how are you feeling today? I was feeling a bit frustrated about the 3 Clomid cycles too. Since last cycle didn't work I only have 2 more left before I have to start paying big bucks and getting into crazy stuff. However, after my appt today I feel a lot better. The NP told me if I'm not preggo after the 3 Clomid cycles and the fact that my body really has responded well and the S/A was good, the RE would have me do IUI. She felt very confident that I would get preggo that way if these next 2 cycles don't work. So don't give up hope. I know that's easier said than done but we're in this together! I just have to remind myself that Missy didn't preggo till her 3rd round of Clomid so I can't give up! Well, I'm going to do some little stuff around the house. I'll check in later! = |
| Answer: hi ann! happy to hear everything went well and you're raring & ready to go...lol! not much new here just making grilled cheese sandwich & tomato soup for dinner..haha. very gourmet, but i had a craving for it. the rain has died down for the most part but it is very windy & still thundering. the perfect night for comfort food & america's next top model..lol! love to everyone, back later1 XO = |
| Answer: Regan, you crack me up! You and your tv shows! I just put a casserole in the oven and I'm settling on the couch for the evening. DH has a firemen meeting tonight then he has to work so he'll be gone early. I'll check in later to hopefully read some good chatter! = |
| Answer: Hi girls, how's everything tonight. I just got settled down a little for the evening. Danielle, I completely understand not starting school with a new baby coming. I was finishing up my MSN when I had Koby. It was crazy. However, having a 2-year old and going to school is crazy too. Ann, Tony and I have talked about when to start ttc again. I thought we were both on board with waiting till the fall, but when we were talking about it the other night, Tony said that unless the NP tells us that we should wait, we will probably go on. I can't imagine that if we get the ok we will be able to not try. It is taking alot to behave right now ;) I have to say I saw something that made me want to puke today. I saw a woman who was VERY pregnant getting in a car with her two other very young children with two other adults. All three adults (including her) were smoking in the car with the windows rolled up....I WANTED TO SCREAM "WHY". That is not fair. Well, very sad but what can you do? Well, I am heading to bed here in a bit. I am so tired this week. I started having AF cramps today, so I am sure she is on her way, but of course I am expecting her since we haven't been trying. Night girls. = |
| Answer: Ok, I think I just saw something even worse on the TV...a woman making her toddler smoke pot. They just told the story and showed the video of it on Inside Edition. Again, I ask why. = |
| Answer: Ann, being a bit too curious probably, but did they happen to discuss what the IUI would cost? I know your insurance doesn't pay for fertility treatments. Neither does ours. Just tell me if I am asking too much. = |
| Answer: evening gals! brandy some parents should have their tubes tied & children given to loving families..i swear it makes me insane when i hear things like that! i am just schlumping on the sofa with some tea and cookies watching a.n.t.m. garrett called and asked me to a movie friday night...hee hee! :) so we are going into town to have dinner & see 'Ironman'...I let him choose because my taste in movies might scare him away (subtitles, foreign films & indie only!) LOL. I feel like its our first real "date" because of the divorce papers so I'm really looking forward to it!!! okay i'll check back in before bed...XOXO = |
| Answer: Good evening girls! I just got home and finished up some dinner...boy this long week at work just kills me lol I can't wait till my partner comes back :) Regan-if you just give me one ounce of your energy, I will be greatful!! what kind of dogs do you have? we have 2 black labs that are under 2 years old, but they're precious. Brandy- sounds like you will be ttc sooner rather than later :) hopefully koby will have a little brother or sister to play with heehee. Missy--if you ever need to feel better about being blonde, let me share some of my blonde moments with you lol...i really don't know how i made it this far :P Danielle- have you made up with the hubby yet? He better have apologized for being so insensitive! Especially with you working so hard! Ann- i'm so glad your appt went well!! Maybe this time will be the last time you have to think about it....that would be so great! And it's good that they gave you the options after the 3 rounds and that they sound so promising. At least there's more than this if it doesn't work. And I want to thank all of you for encouraging me on my low day :) It made a world of difference and I truly appreciate it!!! Ok i'll check back in later...much love and prayers! = |
| Answer: Brandy, don't ever worry about asking too much. We are here to share everything! Fortunately, my OB doc is able to do IUI at their clinic so I wouldn't need to go to an RE for it. I was very happy about that. The NP mentioned $500 and I was shocked with that little amount. I was expecting much more. I don't know if that covers the whole procedure or what. I didn't really ask much but when I said I didn't want to do that unless we had to she said "yeah, that would just be an extra $500". I'll let you know if I find out more. I saw the same thing today too!! I woman who is very pregnant with her 2nd child was driving and smoking. It made me very angry too. It's just so unfair I can't even begin to comprehend it all. I just cannot understand how this world works. Regan, I've said it before and I'll say it again, I'm so excited for you! Yeah for a "first date"! So I assume all the divorce papers are signed and things are moving forward. Now it's just a waiting game for things to finalize. Yipee!!! Well, I'll check in later too. = |
| Answer: Amy, we must have been typing at the same time! Have you talked to your doc about what the next step is if the Clomid doesn't work? Of course we are still thinking positive that it is going to work, but do you have a plan B? Oh Brandy, the reason I'm so happy about my OB being able to do IUI is because I would have to drive 4 hours to get to the closest RE! I think it's also more expensive with a RE. = |
| Answer: Ann- the only think that he mentioned to me was doing some of the testing that you guys have already had done, like the hsg and dh's analysis. It's almost like this is going backwards, because almost everyone on clomid that i've talked to has already had those tests to rule out everything else. I guess he's pretty confident that this will work or he would have worked me up a little differently? Today is 10 dpo according to ff, when do you think i should test? = |
| Answer: I hate to give advice on when to test. After my last cycle it's too hard for me to know when to test. My chart looked beautiful for a long time and my LP was 4 days longer than normal. I'd wait until atleast the day AF is due for you. I know that's easier said than done but try your best. I just don't want you to get your heart broken. = |
| Answer: Oh yeah Amy, I know some doctor's do things differently. Mine believes that the S/A should be done first because it's the cheapest and least invasive. Then they do the HSG before starting Clomid because he says it doesn't do any good to give Clomid if the tubes are blocked and nothing can get through anyway. So that's how we got to this point. It's really a matter of how comfortable you are and how much you trust your doctor. I trust mine completely and love him!!! Well girls, I'm going to do a little studying then head to bed. I have to be up at 5:30 for work again. All my love, Ann XOXO = |
| Answer: hiya girls! i am comfy in my pj's in the sunroom listening to the rain. amy - i have a 5 year old irish setter (molly) & a 2 year old chocolate lab (murphy), also recently added is a 4 month old male silver tabby/siamese cross named Rambo (after these lovely girls on this thread!)...quite the mini-zoo. also my energy level is the way it is because I don't work, believe me I didn't get the half of the stuff done I do now when I was full time at a design firm!!! lol. testing is something that i am the queen of putting off! :) i wait as long as i can but everyone has their own way of doing things. ann i just read you repainted the doors - that is SO something i would do!!! well that's about it for me, i'm going to put away the computer, take my magazines and head to bed...talk to all in the morning! love regan XO = |
| Answer: Ok, thanks for all your input gals! i don't have any hpt's in the house right now, so i won't be tempted till i go to walmart lol. Irish setters are so beautiful! and of course i'm partial to the lab :) I love kitties, too, but dan (my dh) is allergic, so no cats allowed for now. We just ended up giving our dogs a bath because they were digging in the backyard...so now the back yard is a wreck and so is my bathroom from the baths. oh well, our houses can't be spotless and perfect all the time i suppose. well girls have a great night and a wonderful day tomorrow...sweet dreams! = |
| Answer: Morning!!! What is everyone up to today? I am just having a cup of coffee while I wait for my landscaper to arrive and give me some guidance on designing these gardens of mine. Otherwise not much going on here. Just dropping in to say hello & bump us up. I am going to book my Vancouver trip today for early June, I have to go start to organize putting the condo on the market. I'm considering using the funds to purchase a small condo in Toronto so when I go back to working I have a place in the city (its a 40 minute drive when traffic is good). Anyway I'll check in later! XOXO Regan = |
| Answer: hi ladies, glad everything went well Ann! oh and i forgot to answer some questions, my niece should be coming home this weekend, so she is doing better, and amy, my hubby apologized to me! so we're fine now! man, i am trying to potty train my little girl, and its not fun! lol = |
| Answer: Good morning all! Regan- good luck with all your planning! How is the housing market up there? It is absolutely horrible here...I hope you don't have any trouble selling your condo in Vancouver. It will be exciting to buy a new one, though :) Danielle- I'm glad that your hubby apologized! Now he just needs to get over his phobia and make u "happy" heehee! Ann, Missy, and Brandy- I hope you guys are having a good day! I have to be at work at 2:30, it's about 10 right now, and i have so much house cleaning to do. The baths I gave the dogs last night totally clogged the bathtub. now there is standing water...sigh. I just cleaned and now i have to do it all over again! I need a vacation!! = |
| Answer: So the landscaping team is now taking pics & measuring everything. They are going to draw up 2 different design scenarios for me based on all these things that of course I didn't consider like soil type, sun, shade, direction facing, wind etc..LOL. yeah I'm just like oh this plant looks cute here! :) haha. my homework is to go through the catalogues & magazines they left me and mark all the pages of the styles, plants & colour schemes that I like the most...yay! I LOVE doing this kind of stuff. Okay going to put on a pot of tea and get started! Love Regan XO = |
| Answer: sorry amy i didn't answer you - the vancouver real estate market is insane, you can't get close to the downtown core under half a million!!! so with our unit being a 3 bedroom on the water our agent said there will be a line up before it even gets listed. as for Toronto, its pretty expensive for homes but there are enough new condo developments that you can still find something reasonably priced if you look in midtown rather than right downtown. i have heard on the news about the crashing real estate markets in some states, that's really scary. how is it where you live? = |
| Answer: Good morning my girls! I was feeling terrible this morning so I didn't post earlier. I was so dizzy I couldn't see straight. I'm much better now though. Nothing else new on my end. I'm at work which of course I'd rather not be! I have tomorrow off though. Regan, I love doing that kind of stuff too. Sounds like a wonderful day to me. Drinking tea looking at plants and flowers! Well, I'm pretty boring today so I'll go for now! TTYL = |
| Answer: Yay Regan I'm glad that you will not have trouble selling your home! I live in WV, which is undoubtedly one of the poorest states in the country, so the market is terrible! When we sold our home in Morgantown (where West Virginia University is located) it only took us 3 months, but the house was less than a year old in a new development, and we ended up having to pay 5 grand because the selling price didn't cover all the costs!! We just bought another house about 2 hours away from there, in my hometown that borders Ohio, and there were sooo many foreclosures and unsold houses it was ridiculous. Now that the interest rates have dropped, there is a little more activity. I loved going to openhouses, though, I wish I could go with you! Ann--why were you dizzy this morning? Is that common for you with af? Do you have anything to check your blood sugar? Let me know how you're doing!!! = |
| Answer: Amy, I've battled dizziness since I was in the 4th grade!! I don't know what brings it on. I think it's an inner ear thing. I've checked my blood sugar at different times when I felt like that and it was fine. As a kid I had an EEG done to watch the brain activity but it was fine. The doc put me on an antibiotic at that time which helped. Now I just deal with it. One of my co-workers has the same problem and she saw an ENT doc who said it's Calcium crystals that get stuck in the ear inner ear. When it happens, it only lasts for a day at the most. I'm feeling much better now. Still just a tad light headed but that's it. I've tried taking Meclizine for it in the past but that didn't help. I also tried a Scopalamine patch once but that only made my vision worse. So I just deal with it and accept it as an inner ear issue!! Thanks for being concerned though!! = |
| Answer: hello there..ann glad to hear you're feeling better. what are you going to do with your day off tomorrow? i have gone through everything and noticed that i am drawn to shades of purple, lavender, white & lime greens. so i don't know what that means..lol..but that's what i'm going with. i really really want a butterfly garden though so out front in my sunny area i'm going to do one. not much else new here, i finally got around to calling the marina to get my boats in the water. very happy they can do it on friday because i was getting tiring of having to kayak around..lol! that's that. heading into town for some necessities i.e. wine & snack foods..haha...XOXO = |
| Answer: Well Regan, I won't be doing anything fun tomorrow that's for sure! I have to do some house cleaning and laundry then I need to study. I don't think it's going to be real nice tomorrow anyway so it will be a good day to just stay in. I do have to go to a co-worker's house tomorrow night. Her oldest son graduates this weekend so they're having his reception early. I love those same colors. I wanted a Butterfly garden really bad too but it hasn't happened yet. I could easily put one around my pond. Maybe I'll get that done this summer. We'll see. That's about it for now. I'll be back later. = |
| Answer: phew! i'm finally done for the day & having a glass of wine on the deck...aaah. got everything i needed, booked a flight to vancouver june 2 returning the 4th and I finally bought a new dishwasher!!! when i tore out the old kitchen & put it a new one with dh 2 years ago we left a spot open for one but i was still using my grandmothers freestanding one on wheels that you have to attach to the sink!!! LOL. so its being delivered & hooked up saturday morning..yay! trying to figure out what to eat for dinner...something easy & probably bbq'd. so what's everyone up to? love regan = |
| Answer: Well, I'm just getting ready to head home from work. I'm trying to figure out what to have for supper too. I hate trying to think of something every day!! DH is absolutely no help in that department, either. Regan, yeah for the new dishwasher! I can't imagine not having one anymore. They spoil us I think! That's about it for me. I'll be back later after supper and DH heads off to work! XOXO Ann = |
| Answer: Good evening gals! Ann I'm glad you're feeling better, that sucks that you have to deal with it all the time, though! Regan I absolutely love hearing about your days...it's like I live vicariously through you heheheh. Ok so now something new on FF lol. I put in my temp for today and it said it found a possible triphasic pattern, which I know you can have with or without pregnancy. But today I had cramps and once when I went to the bathroom I had the faint brown-tinted blood a little, the kind that usually preceeds my period. This just all seems so fast to me, though, ovulating on cd 13 and then possibly starting in the next day or two when it's only 11 dpo and cd 24. Maybe that's normal for me and I never knew it! Oh well, I guess I'll find out soon enough, huh. So because of the abundance of longer hair on one of my dogs, the bathtub was completely clogged...I had to take q-tips and dig down into the drain and get it out!!! I have to figure out some way to catch the hair before it goes down the drain next time hahaha. Ok, well I think I've rambled on enough lol sorry if i didn't make any sense!!! = |
| Answer: Amy, I see why it said a possible triphasic pattern. Just try your hardest to be strong and not test yet! Your temps in the next day or two should tell which direction this cycle is going to go. I sure hope it's a BFP though!!! I started my Clomid again today so let the games begin! My HCG shot is also on order and should be here on Monday. Well, I'm off to bed. I feel just exhausted! Good night my girls! Loves, Ann = |
| Answer: Thanks Ann! I can't wait to see what my temp is in the morning. Hopefully I can be strong lol. I'm terrible at waiting. I could probably put stock in a hpt company and make myself rich haha. Are you taking anything else with it, like guaifenisin to help think cervical mucus? I thought about it, but I can't find any studies that positively say it makes a difference. Anyway, thanks again and have a good night!! = |
| Answer: oops! hahaha i mean "help thin cervical mucous" instead of think lol. i'm ready for bed, too!! = |
| Answer: Remember when I said i was horrible at waiting? lol. Well I proved it this morning, and I took a test haha. I'm glad I did though, because it was a bfp :) = |
| Answer: congratulations! happy and healthy 9 months to you!!! how is everyone else this morning? i am depressed as depressed can be over money, i got my husbands check yesterday and we are now 300 overdrawn! ugh = |
| Answer: omg amy congrats!!!! i was just checking in to see what's the news and that for sure is news! :) i'll be gone most of the day heading out with the landscape architect to some nurseries, stone yards & garden centres to pick everything out...back later to meet with the dockmen for my boat launch!!! love to you all....XOXO Regan = |
| Answer: Daneille- it really stinks when you think the money's there and it's not. We have definitely been there, and not too long ago, actually. We were very fortunate a couple months ago that Dan got a better paying job, so that lets me not work so much, but I will never be able to just be a stay-at-home mom :( Regan- I hope the weather is nice there for boating, it is still rainy and yucky here today. And thanks for the good wishes girls! I am going to retest and make sure it wasn't a fluke thing...but I used a clear blue easy digital test to make sure I didn't confuse myself with faint lines lol. I just sat there in disbelief...I really thought it was going to be negative. Then I crawled into bed with Dan and told him he was going to be a daddy, then i bawled like a baby lol. but of course, he brought me back to reality by telling me not to get overexcited...it could be ectopic, i could miscarry, anything could happen. So my first appt is Monday morning, then I'm going to Columbus, OH to see my sister...now I get to tell her in person :) Ok i'm done rambling for now lol. Hope everyone has a great day! = |
| Answer: OMG Amy! Congrats! I was shocked when I looked at your chart! I'm glad you didn't listen to me! haha Of course any of those bad things could happen but don't think about that. Just be happy and live in this wonderful moment! Good luck! = |
| Answer: Thanks Ann :) I am trying to do just that! I took another test to prove to myself that it was real, and the dumb thing came back a "not pregnant"... isn't that silly of me? I guess i only had enough hcg built up for my morning pee, and it is still really early to have enough hormone to even test positive at all lol. I just think I'll believe it more if I have another hpt that comes back +!! How are you coming along with the clomid this time? I was super moody with it...I would fight with Dan and then cry and then joke all in the same hour!! = |
| Answer: where is everyone today? I have a FANTASTIC time picking out things for the garden! who knew it could be so fun choosing boulders, shrubs, planters & hanging baskets? LOL!!! anyway it was overwhelming but Wayne (landscape guy) was very patient & helpful. so the one boat is in the water...the one i hate, the little tin fishing boat with the outboard and my lovely cruiser is in the boat hospital. :( but that's okay as long as I can have her back. so how is everyone doing today? what is everyone doing for the weekend? amy don't worry about the 2nd test, i would just re-test in the morning again! :) okay the dogs are staring at me from the front door and so i guess i should take a hint...haha! XOXO = |
| Answer: omg i forgot to tell you my date got postponed! :( that's okay garrett got really behind and his client needs his order for tomorrow morning. so we are going to go tomorrow evening instead! that's okay as long as we are going, so my sister and an old friend are popping by tonight for a drink instead! :) XO = |
| Answer: ahhh regan, i wish i could go out and drink! lol, i wish i could just go out! but we're soooooooooooooo broke, and i am exhausted. and we just can't :( oh well, amy how many dpo are you? i got my first positive 10 dpo and it was really really faint, it took a few days for it to really start getting darker. = |
| Answer: Amy, I'd definitely just retest in the am. I'm only on the 2nd day of Clomid so no side effects. I didn't have any last month either so I don't expect to have any this time. It makes my temp crazy but I can deal with that. It already went up higher this morning. I try keeping my emotions in check because DH is already not a huge fan of medical help for ttc. He's one of those that always says "What about the old fashioned way?" I'm always telling him that obviously doesn't work for us! Regan, your day sounds so fun! That's too bad your date got postponed but you'll have fun anyway. Now you have something to look forward to for tomorrow! Danielle, I totally know the stress about money. When you're in school it's so much worse. It will get better, I promise. I just had to pay $800 for a new windshield and to get a dent removed from my car. DH paid almost $700 to fix his pick up this month too. Plus all the expenses of ttc, it gets a little stressful sometimes. I just trust that it will all be ok. God will provide what we need in order to make things happen. Brandy, where you at today? Well, I'll get back to my tasks. Have a good day! = |
| Answer: Regan--I'm glad you had fun today! The things your putting in your garden sound beautiful...I need to have more of a green thumb. Maybe I can plant some stuff this fall. Where are you going on your date tomorrow? Are you just having a quiet evening in? Danielle-- I am 12 dpo right now. Did you have any implantation bleeding? I am bleeding a littler more today; it was bright red and then it changed to brownish color, enough for a panty liner, and there was some brown stringy stuff, too...I'm hoping that wasn't my fertilized egg and tissue coming out instead of implanting or something!!! I mean, that's just crazy, right? Ann--my dh was also not too keen on my using drugs, and he also used the words "the old fashioned way"...he didn't even like it when I used opk's. I think he's more excited than he's letting on, because he's already told his partner from work and he told someone he ran into in a store that he hadn't seen for ages lol, and we don't even know if this is gonna stick! He's goofy. = |
| Answer: yay chatter!!! :) i'm all ready for the girls...chicken & shrimp kebabs for the bbq and lemon meringue pie...and of course beer & wine..LOL! it is absolutely beautiful here, lots of sun but the evenings are still cool so i got an extra propane tank for the patio heater. garrett left me some daisies & note today saying he was looking forward to our date tomorrow!!! hee..hee...and again i'm walking around with a stupid grin on my face...LOL. so i made reservations at kaji sushi and then the late show of Ironman. what should I wear??? aaaah..i haven't been on a date in a very long time girls!!! :) so that's that just chillin' on the deck awaiting my guests with a glass of white...i cannot complain, life is good! so i may or may not be back so if not have a great evening and i'll check in tomorrow morning!!! love ya, regan XO = |
| Answer: Evening girls! I finally made it on here. Our internet has been down for a while. AMY, SO MANY CONGRATS TO YOU. Do not get too upset about the 2nd test. I had a faint line at 14dpo. It takes a while for that hcg to build up. I would wait till at least tomorrow morning to retest (maybe even a day or two). Give it time...its early. The bleeding is definitely IB. I had enough with Koby to wear a tampon (thought it was AF). IB normally comes when you would otherwise expect AF. Let me say this from experience, yes, bad things can happen. That is the risk of anything in life, isn't it? However, the risk of it happening would never outway what I have with my precious little man. Life is always worth the risk, and the payoff is huge (esp. motherhood). I go into ttc with the thoughts of "what if" (esp. since I know what the "what ifs" are like), but that is just something that is between me and God. Have faith and try to relax and enjoy all these moments; they are precious and the gifts of life. Rest, eat well, and let everyone else do the stressing. YOU'RE PREGNANT! Regan, I am dying for your date day to come. I am so excited for you. He sounds like a great guy, and you deserve it. Have fun tonight with the girls. Ann, I really hope this is a good month on Clomid for you. I think it will be. How's school? Is it over? Danielle, I too know the bad $ months. It will be nice to start working as a NP on my practice days for extra money. Things can definitely get tight. Well, gonna go feed little guy and check on dinner. I made stuffed green peppers tonight. I am still so tired. I think AF is well on her way. I feel crampy and tired. Temp went down yesterday and back up this morning, so we'll see what tomorrow brings. = |
| Answer: Brandy, you don't know how badly I hope this is the month. I don't know how much more I can take. That aweful feeling of seeing pregnant women all around you. It's almost too much sometimes. Well, I'm off to a graduation party and to have a few drinks. I quit smoking 3 weeks ago which is really hard when I drink. It wasn't hard when I thought I could be pregnant but knowing that there's no way I could be preggo right now makes it hard not to have a cigarette with my beer. Ok, I'm going now. Have a good night ladies! = |
| Answer: Good evening ladies! Brandy, thank you all for the couragement and advice...I've just wanted this so much that now I'm scared something might take it away. I'll let you know how it goes :) What have you been doing lately? What cycle day are you on? Regan--I just want you to go ahead and make that hallmark movie so i can watch it instead of reading the book lol!! Well, I dunno, people always say the book is better hahahaha.
Ann--I know what you mean about everywhere you go there are pregnant women...I went to a basket bingo a couple months ago and where did we sit? Right next to a table with 3 pregnant women...and every show I watch either involves pregnant women or there are commercials for pregnancy stuff...I was getting so upset. And I almost didn't want to post on here that I got a bfp because I don't want to be a part of what makes you feel worse...but just remember that we are all here because we needed support, and that is what you will always get. And the time is coming...if not with the clomid then with the IUI, but it WILL happen. Have fun going out tonight! = |
| Answer: Oh Ann, I know how badly it hurts you. I can't help that everytime I see a pregnant woman, I think of the women on here (esp. the stupid one smoking the other day pregnant). Go out tonight and release some stress; have fun (even if it involves one cigarette). Amy, I hope that I can be a good support system for you. Sure I worry everyday, and I wonder just how ready I will be when the time comes to try again. I cannot live through another m/c, but I just have to keep hope. You really need not to focus on the negatives. You know the possibilities are out there; you need not to be reminded of them. What will be, will be. I asked everyday how I could lose something I loved so much and worked so hard to bring into my life. I don't know that answer now and may never, but that is just something I have to live with. I have to tell you all that for someone who was only with me for a such a brief time, my baby made such an impact on who I am as a person and a mother. So Amy, just love every moment with your new growing baby bean. = |
| Answer: Well girls, I'm already home! I had a couple drinks and visited with some people and do feel much better. A little refreshed I guess. Amy, please don't ever be afraid to talk about your pregnancy or anything going on with you. You know that initial emotional outburst when you first learn someone else is pregnant. I feel it frequently but that doesn't make me any less happy for that person. You deserve this just as much as anyone else! I know my time will come. It's just hard trying to understand why God is making me wait so long and go through so much. But please believe that I really am happy for you. Regan, I hope you're having fun tonight. Brandy, you amaze me. You're always so strong and encouraging to everyone else! Well, I'm off to bed. I'll be back in the morning! All my love, Ann = |
| Answer: Thanks Ann, but no, I definitely have my difficult moments. I just want so badly for you to have what I have with my little man. I feel it is my job as your friend to keep your hopes up and faith intact until that time comes (and it will). Sleep tight and don't let the bed bugs bite. Love ya girls! = |
| Answer: Ann--you're so right, I do know that feeling, and it is a killer. And, speaking only for myself of course, I found out this morning that when it does finally happen, it just feels like time stands still for that one moment when you finally read a positive test...it is something i will never forget, because in that one instant I saw so much more than just a positive pregnancy test--i saw my future. i'm probably not making much sense because it's after midnight lol. anyway, i admire you, and all of these women, for being strong and going forward...that's why i wanted to join your group, and i'm so glad you let me :) Brandy--thanks for sharing and for the advice, I am definitely going to take it! And the silly girl that I am, when my church's ladies' group was giving out prizes for the mother's day dinner tonight, they were going to give me the youngest mother prize. I said no, i'm not a mother yet, but they wouldn't hear of it (they knew i was trying) and they said since i was "expecting to expect" they wanted me to have it, lol, so right then and there i had to blurt out that i thought i was already expecting and the rest is history lol. So I made sure they knew that it was way early on and anything could happen, and just asked them to pray for me :) i think it worked out well, now I won't feel like I mislead them if something does happen. Ok girls, well I'm exhausted, and I have to work 12 hours tomorrow, so i'm headed to bed. Nighty night! = |
| Answer: ok girls, i retested this morning, and it was negative...what's going on? I did drink a lot of water yesterday, so maybe my urin was diluted more than yesterday morning? My temp is still up, tho, so I have no idea what's going on :( = |
| Answer: Amy, I still think it is really early. Your temp looks great. You are only 13dpo. I would wait till Monday or Tuesday morning to retest. You will drive yourself crazy and spend a forture in hpt. Let those hormone levels go up. Mine even with this last pregnancy took like to 20dpo to get really dark (even with Koby which obviously was a viable pregnancy). Everybody is different. Congrats on the big mommy's day tomorrow. This is your first. = |
| Answer: Well ladies, I can't help but feel a little sad about tomorrow. It is really bittersweet. I was so excited about this year with the new baby. I should have found out this week what we were having too. I guess I am just a little down, but I shouldn't be should I? I need to take my own advice. Have hope and faith. = |
| Answer: morning girls....moving a little slowly today..lol. had a nice evening, boy did we ever laugh a lot, i needed that! :) amy its really early i agree with brandy to wait it out & try to relax..easier said than done i know! brandy you have every right to be sad, you can't have hope and faith unless to go through times of sadness and come out the other side....big hugs to you!!! ann glad to here you had a good evening as well. what's everyone up to this weekend? it is supposed to be a beautiful sunny weekend here both days around 70 degrees. so today i'm going to putter around until its time to get ready for my date! :) and tomorrow i'm going to my mom's in the afternoon for a mother's day luncheon. i decided to send my soon to be ex mother in law a little something since she was always so nice to me. well that's about it from camp regan, i'll check back later on. XOXO = |
| Answer: Brandy--thanks for the advice...again lol! I know that you are right, and I make a vow right now that I'm not going to talk about one more time until Monday! You are such a strong woman...it must be so hard to think about your loss and try to console others at the same time...but Regan is right, to truly enjoy being on the mountaintop you must first experience being in the valley. Remember God is with you and loves you always and would not let you go through something that you could not handle without Him!! It only makes us stronger!! Regan--it would be easier to relax if I were up there with you ;p Pass some sunshine my way!! = |
| Answer: Good morning girls! Well, I'm definitely on to the crazy Clomid temps! My temp plummeted this am and I can expect to see it jump back up tomorrow. It's amazing what one little pill can do! Other than that, nothing much going on. I'm at work today. It's cold and rainy here, just like yesterday. Tomorrow's supposed to be sunny and 70 though. Amy, definitely wait and retest on Monday. I agree with the other girls about it being early. Regan, I'm so excited for your date tonight. I can't wait to hear all about it! I think that's so nice that you sent something to your ex-MIL. Brandy, you are so allowed to be sad. We're all here to pout together as well as laugh together. Well, I'll get back to work but I'll check in later! Lots of love, Ann = |
| Answer: good morning ladies! well i got the best mothers day present from my lil man yesterday! it made me cry! it was his first year in school, he's 3, and he made me a flower and a card, and they helped him write his name, so sweet! it made my day better. amy, it took almost a week after my period was due for my line to get dark, but once it did, it was DARK, but it took a while. and the first one i took i almost thought was negative, cuz it took sooooo long for the line to show up. Brandy, you are def allowed to be sad! i am still sad and its been almost a year! i cried on and off the whole time, and the bad thing was i had a friend who was due the 5 days before me, and when she found out she was having a girl, i cried, cuz i knew i was supposed to find out, and i bawled on the due date, which was this past january, and still sometimes i tear up thinking about it. its def. ok to cry! let it out! if you've been on my myspace, i put up a poem for my lost baby, its really sweet and is absolutely perfect for a loss like ours. you should read it. myspace. com/ daniellenflowers take out the spaces and add w's. but it is always ok to cry, that was YOUR baby. Ann, have faith that this is your month! I believe you will def be prego before the summer is even getting started! Regan, you are so sweet, i think i would have a hard time sending something to an ex's mother. i'd think too much about him. You are an awesome and upbeat person, and i hope you have an awesome date tonite!!! = |
| Answer: hi everyone...what a lovely bit of saturday chatter ladies! LOL. So I have been a busy bee today and I planted my window boxes on the barn, urn by the front door and the 2 urns on the deck. I must say they do look really pretty. its amazing how something so simple can instantly change the look of something so plain! so i'm just having some lunch after which I'm going to prime the dresser from a guest room and i'll choose a paint colour next week. ann you're at work, do you have tomorrow off? hope so since you mentioned it will be sunny. danielle what a sweet gift, thanks for the lovely compliment! :) amy hope you are just relaxing and you too brandy...what is your weather like? hey and missy...where are you girl? check in with us!!! well i'm going to go, i'll pop back in before i leave for my date!!! i have an outfit picked out, i just can't decide what shoes to wear...LOL! XOXO Regan = |
| Answer: Howdy! Regan, I do have to work again tomorrow. We work every 3rd weekend and this weekend is mine. Yipee! I also have to work Monday but I have Tuesday off for my birthday. My HCG injection will be arriving Monday so hopefully it arrives before DH heads to work. I don't know who else could sign for it since I'll be working. I just finished lunch too and am stuffed! We ordered some pasta from Pizza Hut and I just kept eating till I was miserable. We actually have zero patients in the hospital right now so I'm going to get back to studying! = |
| Answer: Boo work! at least you have your birthday off! any big plans? i am just relaxing before garrett gets here at 6pm. he's boating over to me and then i'm driving into the city. yay! anyway i managed to get my hands clean again and paint my finger/toe nails. i miss having my spa lady in the lobby of our building in vancouver to do my nails..LOL! so i'm showered and fresh as a daisy! :) so that's about it, really looking forward to tonight and i'll tell you girls all about it the first chance i get!!! wish me luck, i feel nervous for some reason...haha..XOXO Regan = |
| Answer: Good luck my girl! Just relax and be yourself. You're going to have a blast! By the way, check your email! = |
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