hi all this is my eith attempt with a fertility clinic and we r so happy finally pregnant
however just got the news that i have 3 inside me
feeling very confused
should we keep all 3 or have a baby reduction
if anyone can help or share some advise would be great ↓
hey noona congratulaions, that is great news hope every thing turns out great and for the best, personally if i was in your position i would definately and with out a doubt keep all three thisis a blessing and God sent gift if i was you i would do every thing possiable to keep all. Good luck. ↑
Congrats!! I also agree with decbaby, this is a blessing from God. I'd keep all three. You knew doing fertility treatments, it could result in multiples. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy. ↑
I also agree with the other posters. I would keep all, how would you choose? Wouldn't you wonder about the babies you did not keep? Congrats and good luck. ↑
Name: CourtneyHope | Date: Aug 27th, 2008 12:34 PM
I also agree with the other posters, they are all gifts! They all have a bond too, even this early I'm sure. Good luck and Congrats! ↑
Is it really worth the risk to the other baby/s, to try & terminate 1of them? & ask yourself, if you did try to terminate 1 & something went wrong & you lost all 3, would you be able to forgive yourself? I agree you should keep all 3, especially as you have tried soooo hard to get pregnant, it really is a blessing, & now you will have three beautiful babies instead of just one. ↑
Congrats!! Definitely keep all three!!! You are being blessed with three beautiful new lives!! I'm sure it will be difficult, but so worth it. Besides, how would you explain to the 2 you kept what happened to the third? Sorry, I just feel strongly about abortion. :) Let us know what you decide! ↑
Noona, have you been told there is a risk to keeping all three? meaning - risks to the mother and baby (babies), are higher with multiple pregnancies as compared to singletons?
Hopefully you can get some responses from people who have had similar experience. I hope this works out for you after so many attempts. I also read on the first tri board about losing your daughter to Cancer. I am so sorry to hear that.
Aww-hun...I know you are feeling scared and anxious and unsure, but my friend had triplets and it was fine. The risks are slightly higher, but not insurmountable. My frined went to 35 weeks and had the babies via c-section. They were strong and healthy. They were absolutely perfect. They went home with her. She did great...she is skinny as every. Triplets are not nearl as big an issue as higher orders. Imagine how blessed you will feel when you are looking and holding your three new babies-it will all be worth it! I rpomise! ↑
