My last period started on March 30th. Me and my 'boyfriend' have had sex 2-4 times a week since, usually with a condom but always started without one and we used pull out method at least 3 times during the month, he's also been stressed out because his father just passed away saturday night so maybe i'm just stressing from that but my period is NEVER late...not this late in over 2 years at least. I took a test last thu. [may 8th] which was negative. still no period, i don't have any symptoms really i mean my mom didnt know she was pregnant with me until she was almost 4 months along. i did have the flu last week but the bug is going around, and now i just feel queezy at times but the bug may still be around, my boobs ache from time to time but i feel like its like my period trying to come, ive got a few cramps over the last 2 weeks but nothing that last very long [more than a couple minutes max]. I dunno what to think..? the last time we had unprotected sex was last friday [may 9th]. anyone have anything to say about my situation? any help is greatly appreciated. my boyfriend seems to think sex pushes your period back...oh i dunno. thanks everyone -Lacey ↓
no sex doesn't push your period back or i would never have a period. LOL...hehehe....i dunno your symptoms could be the bug that you sayd s going around....if you too a test and it came up negative..then your mothers background i can see would give you some doubts about it.....and if you have douibts then your still concentrated on it...on your mind....which could be causing or tricking the symptoms into your head. So how long is your period normally? and when should you have expected your period? It seems there are tons signs and LOTS of chances that you cold have gotten pregnant...all the data suggests pregnancy unless your stressing out so much that its the cause of all this. I would not suggest you using the puill out method if ou dont want to be pregnant...no offense to you hunny but you can get pregant from the precum..and as well as starting off without using acondom...I really suggest you get on some birth control or use te condom from the momment he puts his ''thing'' in ya. =P not trying to be mean..just giving you some highly recommended advice.So if you would like me to help you. plese answer some of the questions and we can talk more about it. ↑
Try another test. If its still negative, I'd suggest making an appointment with a doctor to get a blood test. If that comes back negative, your doctor MAY be able to prescribe you medication to start your period again. Otherwise its just a waiting game. Sometimes young women skip periods for no reason, but its better to know for sure than to guess. ↑
take another blood test.................sex can sometimes cause you to miss your period it sounds odd but it happened to me, teh first time i ever had sex i was to weeks late after and had never been late but it could just be because it was my first time..................take another test to be sure...when was your period due? ↑
i have 28 days in between would have been expecting it on april 26th 2008...im 19 been having periods since i was 14 the first year i was irregular but regular since i got on bc then got off of it and just been regular since, havent missed one since 2 years ago, but i don't even remember why i missed that one. yeah so i dunno...like its not like we don't want to get me pregnant but its not like we are trying either its kind of a if-it-happens it happens situation because we've been together for 2 years and its a complicated situation but we know we are going to get married its just complicated. ↑
angel you can't just miss your period from sex...there would have to be another reason. I mean sure you can delay your period the first time you had sex so thats understandable. But you dont just miss it for no reason. Anyway to the OP..your period is 3 weeks and a couple days late....you defiently have somethng going o thats stopping your period. I would suggest getting yourself an appt. ↑
lol i know you dont just miss your period for know reason. i thibk you read my post wrong, you CAN miss your period from sex, i am living proof of that, it happned the first time i had sex and a few after that, well technically i didnt "miss" it as such i was 2 weeks late each time i went to my doctor who told me that because it happened after i ahd sex it was something to do with that and then told me some information about why it happens cant really rember what as it was a few years back now, i think it was something along the lines of hormones or something,so keep in mind it can be from sex, lacester i would go to the doctors and get a blood test ↑
lacesterlovesyou..............how long are you late on your period by? if your period comes a week or so before your next period then it could be sex its strange it happened to me, but if you do miss it completly do a test or test anyway because im not sure how common it is good luck ↑
well the last time it happened to me i was 21days late i may of even missed my period and came on early? who knows but im just letting you know it can be caused from sex, stress, wait loss i dont know why it happens it just does, hormones can be weird like that sometimes, but if your mum didnt find out till later then you really should have blood test ↑
it probably delayed that period...but you can't miss one from sex. Sure there are other reasons you can miss a period completely...but if you came early onto your ''next'' one then it was your other period late.. Other wise i would be missing all of them. it can delay..different than missing. So i'm more certain that you just had a really really late one. thats happened to me where i've had a 52 day cycle....and i didn't miss all the ones in between...i just had a really really long cycle. ↑
i mean if sex can dealy a period because of hormones then who says those hormones cant make you "miss"a period? i mean you dont know because "everybodys" bodys are different, i,ve experianced lots of things that have caused missed, delayed periods ect................and when i was 3 weeks late i think it may well of been a missed period as my periods sometimes were only 2weeks-3weeks apart ect you just dont know because everybody is different ↑
my boyfriend said hes just going to act like i missed the past one completely unless i miss the second one which i would have been scheduled to start that one on May 24th [a week from saturday]...can you miss two periods? even because of 'stress' i really don't think ive been stressing but i don't know. ↑
i,ve missed 1 period due to stress and missed 7months worth of periods due to not eating properly, but i would say take a blood test just to be on the safe side, i mean if it happened to your mum it could happen to you i would of thought, better safe than sorry ↑
there has to be a hell of a lot of stress in order to miss a period...it can really really delay a serious period...but sex can't make you miss a period. Sorry but it can't. In the end...the only way to surely kow you've missed a period..is to have a doctor check your cycle and track you. IF you ovulate AGAIN then yes you've missed the other one for some very odd reason..which they will most likly find out...however if you dont ovulate after when your period is suppossed to be due..then in fact you haven' tmissed a period.you just have a really long cycle....or a very delayed period. ad yes angel not eating properly is a reason why you could have missed those 7 months....however those are extreme situations and ot common. and to the OP i would not suggest you writing this off as a missed period.....sue young women can miss a period....sometimes for no reason..but other times they can be pregnant but their hcg in some women just doesn't show up for a long time in the blood. I would suggest getting yourself to a doctor. ↑
i would say if you have gone past the day you were due on and then if you still havnt come on the next time you are due on that IS a missed period my opinion is that you CAN miss a period from sex we just have diferent views pb so dont cause a fight and get in to it, i would just take a blood test if you have missed or are late on your period and then if your not pregnant then worry why you have missed a period afterwards, also pb it does not have to be a heck of a lot of stress lol, im speaking from personal experiance here it realy doesnt take alot of stress just any stress can do lol! ↑
lacester- is this the first time you've had sex? like never before if so that could be the cause of a later period. otherwise sex is not the reason your period is late. there are many other reasons your period may be late. ↑
oh im not sure where you could go i live in the uk and theres no such thing as insurance you just have a doctor lol its all nhs stuff over here, does your boyfriend have money? or would your mum be willing to pay for it? you should take prenatle vitamins if you can just incase you are pregnant, do you have any other symtoms? ↑
no i,ve been late after a period after loosing my virginity and about a year later it happened, like i said hun try find out if your pregnant before worrying why you have missed your period because if you are pregnant stress is not good for the baby.......... ↑
kendra-no not my first time, ive been having sex with him for 2 years. and there was 2 other guys before him [sexually active since 16]
angelmonkey-not really any other symptoms, i feel queezy at times and i used to not eat alot but now my stomach kills me if i dont eat like 3-4 times a day...my boobs ache from time to time but not constantly..i have noticed i'm really tired like all the time but maybe thats just my body. I know me and my boyfriend have both been under some stress with his father just passed away saturday night. but in this time he doesnt eat and yet im eating up a storm its not even about emotions because im really sad its just my stomach hurts and gets reallly queezy really easy lately. never been this way. do you have to 'feel' pregnant to be pregnant? because i have so many mixed emotions going on right now i don't 'feel' pregnant. ohh i don't know. ive been pee'ing alot too, other than that nothing to the extremes but if my mom didnt know she was prego until 4 months i mean she obvisly didnt have very many signs either but EVERyone is different i know. so i don't know.
also i cannot tell my mom. my family is VERY VERY VERY strict Catholic family. like my dad will be supportive but if he has to give me any money it has to go through my mom and she will disown me and kick me out [seriously] so i have to know FOR SURE if i am before any word gets out about it being a possiblity or needing money from my dad. [if i am..more than likely my parents will divorce because my dad will support me and my mom will want nothing to ever do with me if that makes any sense to you, i know its complicated] ↑
ok it sounds like you could be pregnant, most of thoso symtoms sre pregnancy related i would really try to find out for sure could you maybetell your dad what you suspect an dask him not to tell your mum untill you know for sure? im not realy sure about the blood test thing i think they can count lowre counts of hcg in your body than pee tests do.i think. ↑
angel again i'm not causing a fight so stop assuming that..I'm not saying she didnt' miss her period. I'm sayign there is a difference between missing (as in missing completely) and a delayed or late period. god...the words mean two different things..thatswhat i'm saying. I'm not saying your wrong. I'm saying youhave your words mixed up and i'm pointing that out. as for the op you can look up a planned parenthood in your area and they will help you. they are free ..a free clinic. oh and angel the only way to clearly MISS a period is to ovulate again without any blood whats so ever...however she can get her period DELAYED OR LATE...from sex for the first time or stress...and it does take a hell of a lot of strss to miss a period completely......but not a lot to cause a period to be extremely late.....I'm not saying your wrong..but the way you've worded it is... ↑
and to the op...i'm sorry but you have a very strong pregnnacy sign. and i would think that you should get this looked into clearly and not to just write it off. ↑
