I guess I just need to vent and I have no one to really talk to. My husband is acting like such a grumpy old man/baby lately!!!! We are due in Jan with our second and he has just been so insensitive, and selfish!!! He make it sound like it's all me cause I'M HORMONAL! I'm so sick of hearing about my hormones. Is anyone else going through this? He is young, 26 and i'm 27. Is it his age? He is mad at me cause I suggested we invite his parents and 2 sisters (all who live across the country) to our first ultrasound because they will just happen to be here on a visit anyway. He says he "won't come to the circus!" He snapped on me tonite because my DD just want me to hug her a bit before bed, (he puts her to bed every nite) SHe is 15 months. He stormed out of the room slammed the door and said "you put her to bed!!" HELP ↓
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Name: mjvdec01 | Date: Jun 25th, 2008 10:07 PM
Obviously something is bothering him. It sounds like he would prefer it to be just the two of you in the room for the ultrasound. To me, it is kindof an intimate moment that may be better shared with just your hubby. Maybe he thought you were thinking the same thing and when you suggested inviting his family he freaked. Maybe the family would be better suited to spend some alone time with your daughter while you and your hubby are at your appointment? Men don't always deal with things in the best way. I would talk to him and see what he wants. Ofcourse there is always the chance that he is pouting about something else entirely. Is he excited to be having another baby? Was this pregnancy planned, or was it unexpected? He couldn't possibly be that upset about you hugging your little girl before bed. ↑
Name: mary b | Date: Jun 26th, 2008 9:21 PM
We did talk and he said that i'm not aloud to take her from him ever again???? I couldn't believe he said that!!! I didn't take her, she wanted me and was crying for me and then I took her. The pregnancy was not planned, our first was not either. I told him sorry about the ultrasound thing, but I just thought they would like to see it....with our first he was not at first ultrasound and i brought a friend. (Work issues). I didn't think he cared about anyone coming in. He didn't care then. Thank you for talking to me... ↑
Name: mcbee | Date: Jun 26th, 2008 10:17 PM
Men can be totally dumb sometimes. I'm sorry he's being such a pooper. ↑
Name: tarap | Date: Jun 27th, 2008 7:21 AM
mine is too.. we been fighting alot because i been working from 9am to 7pm and im pregnant and sick.. and he works from 8-4pm.. it pisses me off that he doesnt get off his ass and get a second job or atleast do soemthing..i noticed i been complaining more about things and its been making me and my fiance fight alot... i been picking at everything he does...i cry easier and im very emotional.. men just dont understand.. they dont get it.. and they tend to make the situation worse ↑
Name: mayalene | Date: Jun 27th, 2008 11:47 AM
there seems to be a communication break down somewhere. He seems to expect you to know what he's thinking. I suspect that reaction with your DD is due to some ill feelings or resentment he'd beeen harbouring from earlier on, maybe not the actual situation itself. Does he think you're taking control of his responsibility or life without letting him have a say? ↑
Name: mary b | Date: Jun 27th, 2008 8:51 PM
I wish I knew...last nite we went to go see our counselor but she canceled.. but we ended up talking a lot while waiting for her...then we got ice cream, DD was at a friends house...it was kinda nice. Then we went to bed last nite not happy with each other, saying "what are we going to do" etc. Didn't talk all day while he was at work, and then he came home with beautiful flowers....so far so good, we tend to fight the most on the weekends...i pray this weekend is good. ↑
Name: mcbee | Date: Jun 27th, 2008 10:48 PM
Well, at least you guys are trying. It sounds like he's making an effort. I hope everything works out this weekend. Let us know. ↑
