hey jenni im 16 also and a mother..it's really not easy...i really regret having unprotected sex but i don't regret having my baby....but just at this age..i was in the same position as you i was having unprotected sex...is ur boyfriend okay with the chance that you're pregnant? does he support you 100% because he helped you with this? go to planned parenthood please...thats where i found out it really does help and its free...plz....GOOD LUCK JENNI!!!! ↑
try going to a clinic, they will test u for free and neways the clinics are more sufficient. then u work from it there. i am 16 and i think i am about 2 to 3 weeks pregnant rght now. its hard in so many ways.. but if u r and u need someone to talk to email me s0oseduktiiv@yahoo.com ↑
Hey girli, so you were having unpotected sex and you got prego. Look I'm 25 years old and I had my first baby at 18, and it was very hard. The best advice is to go get tested, and if you are prego, you can only hope for the best. Make sure you finish school and get a H.S diploma and take it one day at a time. Nothing in life is promised not even tomorrow. Nobody ever said that life was going to easy but it makes it just a little harder when you have a kide. Like I said I had one at the age of 17 turned 18 two months later and I'm 25 now, and I'm proud to say that I have make it just fine in life. Now I have a 7 year old and just found out I was prego too!! Trust it happens to the best of families. Take care and go get tested. ↑
Hey Jenni, I'm 16 too. I am not pregnant, and do not think I am, but have very well been in the situation before, and i'm really proud to see lots of women on here showing respect for Jenni! It doesn't help the situation at all to be immature and put her down about it. Although I don't understand why you were having unprotected sex if you are broke. That was wrong, But it's already done, So there's not much anyone can do about it. Getting a test is definately a good idea so you can know forsure, and move on. One tip of advice though, next time definately use protection so you won't have to go through the stress of wondering if you're pregnant or not! Another idea also for girls who have had sex within 72 hours and the condom broke, or you forgot to take your pill or something, go to planned parenthood or something, the local health nurse, talk to a counsellor, and any of these places can hook you up with the 72 hour pill! ↑
I'm 16 to and going through the same shit just i was having protected sex because i didnt wanna have a baby right now and my boyfreind is 19 and in the marines. Sorry but by saying "not to have unprotected sex" and "your to young" makes kids wanna do it more. My mom preched to me EVERYDAY about not having sex which made me cruious about it and I took sex ed and respect and all those classes the first time I had sex it wasnt an option I was rapped but this time it was an option and it was protected and the condomn broke. I havent had my period in almost a month and the test said im not pregnant I have no freaking clue what to but im going to wait till my scheduled period this month and see what happens. I downloaded an ovulation calender for free online. And i'm using it and it's working for me but to Jennie hunny take a test ask your boyfriend or someone for money I asked my bestfreind because my boyfreind left like 3 or 4 days before my period came and she was fine with it. But you also need to let your boyfriend know you could be so he can be your support till you tell your parents it's going to be hard if you are but i'm sure you'll get through it fine if you need someone to talk to I'm here for you and i'd gladly talk to you. ↑
I got my pregnancy test at the dollar store and it gave me the correct answer. Keep in mind to that stress can delay your period. But I agree with what others have already said, a clinic should help you free of cost and with privacy. Nausea and tiredness were my first symptoms, I did not get tender breasts for weeks. And just an FYI, My mom had me at 16, and though she was scared to talk to her parents and just about everything, it all turned out fine. 31 years later they are still happily married. ↑
Jenni, I really hope you are not pregnant but if you are I hope you have a lot of love and support. I had my first at 24 and it was hard then.. I couldn't imagine having one at 16. Good luck. ↑
I'm sorry I don't mean 2 be judgemental but some of u out there confess of having unprotected sex and say you didn't mean 2 get pregnant... How can this be? It's logical that if you don't use protection you will get prenant for sure!! How can you say u didn't mean it if you know what the concequences are? I was 17 when I started having sex n I always used protection I am now older an married n I have never been pregnant b/c I have always been careful. Girls if u don't have money for condoms u don't have money for a baby. So wait and don't do it cuz that little baby did not asked to be brough into this world to be killed before it was born or to be brought into hardships. I'm sorry but that is the cold hard truth n I had to speak my mind. ↑
hey im 17 and iv just found out im 4months pegnent i didnt have a clue but if u go to ur doctors and tell them how u have been feeling they will do a urine test for free and it is 100% correct unlike sum kits u cn buy from da chemist...so good luck whatever u decide ↑
i know this is an old post but i have to add my two sense. if you are a teen or any age for that matter and think your pregnant and dont have the money for a simple hpt then how the hell are you gonna have the money to raise a baby? im not against anyone having sex(within reasonn)but if your stupid about not using birth control of some sort keep your legs closed!!!!!!!!!! ↑
hope31 i totally agree with your comment. is it just me or does this girl sound completely stupid? i mean at that age to go around having unprotected sex, not just once or twice but for a prolonged period of 5 months to one who did it unprotected for a year- stupidity beyond belief or what!! you are right, if they don't know the consequences and can't afford or arent mentally able to look after a baby then they should be keeping their tarty legs closed. its not just unplanned pregnancies they have to worry about either, they could be spreading STI's around also!! ↑
im 17 and i think im pregnant...i had sex with a friend and i we would go without a condom until he was to the point and then hed put a condom on....could pre cum get you pregnant? i mean is there anough to do that... anyway i know what your going through.... its scary to think that you could be pregnant..lifes to hard at this age as it is, i cant even think how hard it would be with a baby but its doable theres wic and parenting classes and much more...ill pray for you if you pray for me :) ↑
me and my boyfriend had protected sex with a condom on the 14th my due date for my period was on the 26th i am worried..can stressing over if you are pregnant or not delay your period? ↑
if you cant even afford a pregnancy test or you are worried that you might be pregnant when you dont want to be, then why the heck would you have and keep on having unprotected sex? stupidity beyond belief! ↑
lol they should get rid of posts that get so old like this one! i mean surely it can't have any modern day relevance. so do we think she was pregnant or not? my guess is yes and if she is one of those girls who has unprotected sex for 5 months then she probably has a few little ones by now! ↑
Name: DerricksGurl | Date: May 30th, 2008 12:43 PM
Look, for everyone that is being rude to her and judging her, that is not your place. If you think that she shouldn't be getting pregnant at such a young age, you don't need to post it here. She is asking for your help, not for your opinion. Jenni, if you are pregnant, you just focus on you and that baby inside you. Do the best you can do to get that baby the care that it needs. There are places that give pregnant teens help, free baby stuff and even free gas cards to get you to and from classes, if you and your boyfriend choose to take free parenting classes. Just look up "teen pregnancy centers" in google.com Good luck Jenni. Just take care of that baby, don't let them try to discourage you and make you think bad of yourself. Keep your head up and stay strong. ↑
Well... seeing as how the pull out method doesn't work. There is a very good possibility you could become pregnant if you are not already. However, there is only one way to know for sure if you are pregnant, and that is to get tested. There are plenty of free clinics you can visit. You and your boyfriend should go to one to get tested. And also pick up some free condoms while you are there.
Also, if you're having symptoms of fatigue and peeing a lot and you go to the test center and you are not pregnant, you might want to tell your parents and visit a doctor. Those are common symptoms of diabetes and related diseases dealing with low glucose absorption. ↑
im 16 and was pregnant i had no job and my bf has a minimum wage job. if you are i would suggest you tell your bf and you both go out and try to find a job. even a minimum wage job is better then no job at all ↑
