well, guys, I am 22 and she is 24 and we've been together for almost a year and a half now and just found out she's pregnant. I'm not worried about the money - we're fairly set in that aspect - I don't know, I guess I'm wondering what advice can be given as far as telling our parents (while hers like me, I don't think they want this) and just getting through these crazy mood swings. ANY help is MUCH appreciated!! ↓
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Name: early40 | Date: Jan 3rd, 2008 6:16 AM
Everything will fall into place. She is pregnant, there is no turning back. You have to tell both your parent. Maybe speak to your parents for advise and she can speak to her parents. Starting saving in terms of finance. You have to sacrifice a lot for the sake of the coming baby. Congratulation and good luck. ↑
Name: ms. optimistik | Date: Jan 3rd, 2008 8:38 PM
I Know this is a site for the guys, but just curios on what you guys feel. I think that you should tell her parents together. Also know that most wait until about 3 months when they know the pregnancy is going well. You may be young but she's your "lovely lady" let her family know that you care for her and you will stand by her. Congrats!!!!! ↑
Name: jack13 | Date: Jan 5th, 2008 11:20 PM
I am not in any way complaining about the pregnancy. Frankly, I'm ecstatic! We are already working to get some things in order but I'm sure that there is much more we have not considered. Friends of ours have their own children and have already offered baby clothes - one less thing to worry about. I would really appreciate any advice as far as during this prenatal process and just how I can treat her better, since I really don't have a clue as to how she's feeling (she's been having a good bit of trouble with morning sickness). Thank you all! ↑
Name: Chris1975 | Date: Jan 6th, 2008 8:33 AM
There are some good books out there which have dedicated chapters to answering mens FAQs, plus have good month by month explanations of whats happening to your lady as well throughout pregnancy and once the bubs is born. Maybe go on ebay and buy a copy of "What to expect when your expecting". Its well worth having a copy...or if you have any friends with it that could loan it to you :) ↑
Name: ms. optimistik | Date: Jan 9th, 2008 11:54 PM
Jack13...the doctors appt will be slow!!! Normally once a month until I think your 7th or 8th month then they start every 2 weeks then every week. You should get an ultrasound around 20 weeks to check the sex if you want. They will do a diabetes test that alot of women get and it is just through the pregnancy. As far as morning sickness, have her eat crackers b4 she gets out of bed in the morning, try to take prenantal vitamins at night before bed instead of in the morning. Stay away from smells that bother her. If she has a hard time eating, have smaller meals more often...I have to let my food get cold so I can't smell it!!!! As far as helping her, the occasional back rub is nice...just hold her. Maybe a warm bath(Not HOT)!!! Hope some of these things help. let me know!!! ↑
