i missed my period and my mom said it was from my little sister is trying to start and that is why my period is late that is what my mom said. so i need your advice what do you think and i need to know right now because my boyfriend is scared to death!!! and im only 14 help plzzz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↓
I'm kind of confused by what you mean. You said your mom is saying you missed your period because it's about time for your sister to start hers? That doesn't seem very likely to me. I heard some rumors when I first started my period that your period can come at the same time as someone you are close to... But that's never been accurate for me, and I've never heard of someone missing their period under those circumstances. Take a test anyways. ↑
There is a theory that women living together tend to menstruate together - something to do with pheromones. I don't think it applies in this case - ask your mom if her period is late too?? If you recently started having sex, the emotional stress can cause you to be late or skip. Give us some dates. When was your period due, when did you have sex, and what kind of protection if any. What signs do you have? Good luck ↑
There are many reasons why someone your age could being having their period late, but if there is any chance you may be pregnant take a test. I was 14 when I became pregnant with my 1st child and I know how scary it can be wondering. So to ease your mind take a test. Their may be facilities in your area that will give you a test for free and also they won't tell yourparents. But for the furture be safe and use a condom! Take care and the best to you ↑
i took a test and it was negative so i don't no what to do now so what do you suggest!! my boyfriend is ok now he had a suzier when i told i missed my period and when i told him it was negtative he was relived ↑
thanks 4 the advice everybody i really needed to talk to someone but my mom wouldn't listen to me she thinks that a 14 year old can make the right decions all the time so i kinda moved in wiht my boyfriend since she don't care about me anymore she won't even call me i try to talk to her and everything but she doesnt care she told i should become a whore!!! what the hell she is a bitch some times and i kinda told her to go fuck her self and then i called my boyfriend i think my mom is having these wried mood swings because she is pregnant again so i dont no what to ↑
Wow, don't disrespect your mom like that... Despite what you may think, she loves you. She's just frustrated and disappointed in you. That's a hard thing for any mother to go through. You're her little girl, she only wants what's best for you. I think you should go back and apologize to her. ↑
i tried to talk to my mom she wont even talk to me i told her i was sorry and she said she didnt care anymore about what i did i told her i wasn't pregnant i got my bf mom to take me to the doctors and he said im perfectly perfercet nothing wrong with me!! so i told the doctor to call my mom she did and she told her everything and she said that im not her problem so now im living with my bf ↑
I know growing up if rough,. Parents often contradict themselves by saying stop acting like a child and then saying you arent old enought to do that. You are at an age where you are expected to be on two different levels at once. I really think you and mom need to both appologize and come to an agreement. Don't let pride stop you from calling your mom because no matter how old you get you will always need or want her. DOn't be stubburn just go home and talk to her. Take care. ↑
i COMPETELY agree with mama4andmore. i mean...its not easy to be the bigger person in situations like this. but it shows ALOT of maturity and..lol grown up ness in your self. jus go talk to her...and if she is still freaks out...give her more time until she is calm......and if she IS calm when you talk to her...then GREAT try working things out. but please dont grow FAR apart from her.....BELIVE me thats the HARDEST thing to have to go thru. I dont even talk to my mother for LESSER reasons...the best of luck to you ↑
i went home like you suggested and apolizied to my mom and she did the same well mom and i think the best thing to do is be a part for a couple of days to be apart you no and then on sunday im moving back in ↑
i agree when i was living athome me and my mum constantly rowedand after i moved i didnt talk to her for a year!! and it was the hardest thing i,ve done.........we now have a close friendship!1 also summersun in some posts you say your not pregnant and in others you say you are?? im confused ↑
Summer, I hope you and the bf are using condoms now, or better yet not having sex at all. Since we don't know when you ovulated this cycle, you could get pregnant any time. Good luck! ↑
fist of all..move back home...try NOT having sex at 14....rplace that with doing well in school..getting nice summer job, babysitting, and starting to respect your mother. Jesus if you were my daughter.....uhg. ↑
sumersun: well the reltonship is going good and his mom said i was welcome there anytime i would like and he loves me that is why im having a baby in febuaruay well the doctor said i had to go take another test and found out i was pregnant and im having the baby and when im eighteen im getting married and going back to school and my mom she knows now too. angelmonkey: but i thought you said the doc looked you over and said u were not pregnant and rang your mum? ↑
yes i did say that but at the time the doc didn't really go through enough and i have been having all the systomps and we called him and told and him about it and he told me to come in and i did he confrimed it this time and i moved back in with my mom and she is really sorry and so am i my mom think the best thing to do is to have the baby she is really excited and same with my bf!!! my dad wants anbortion to happen but i told i made the mistake so im going to raise the baby ↑
whatever my aunt was pregnant and they said she wasnt and then they said she was so just lay off. the only reason at first my mom was disappointed was because she was 14 when she had me ↑
its more than just the doctor thing that makes me think your lying..........its the way you were like im not pregnant and then all of a suddon your due in feb.........like you forgot you even said you were not pregnant there was no the doctor made a mistake im pregnant just im due sometime in feb i mean jeesh not even a date in feb? is that what your doctor your due some time in feb..........i mean if itis then your doc isnt very profesional ↑
they work it out from your last period when youwere due on when you O,d ect and since you said you were 2 weeks late it wouldnt of said it was 2early all they do is caculate you could find out the day of a missed period and work out when you were due! you dont even know what your going on about because your lying seriously its 2 early 2 tell when im due pffft ↑
