my period came on the 1st of August (friday). My next period should be on the 1st of September (Monday) or the 29 of August (Friday). But I believe it will be the 29th. If ovulation is supposed to take place on day 14 after period and needs a sperm to enter within 24 hrs after release to get fertilized, and my 14 day was like on the 13th of August and I had unprotected sex on the 20th of August, could I still become pregnant. I was pregnant before, it happened exactly on the day of ovulation cause I bleeded that same night. I thought that was natural after loosing your virginity to bleed, but I really did not loose my virginity. Anyway he convinced me to have an abortion (my sixth week)and oh how I hate him for that. I'm still trying to get over it. But honestly can I be pregnant cause I would be happy if I was, just worried about telling my family who is very conservative. And another thing, he wants us to have sex again today which would be like two days before my period. Now I'm not planning on getting pregnant, if it happens it happens. I have not had any bleeding which would suggest the sperm penetrating the egg. Can I be? ↓
You can actually get pregnant anytime during your cycle especially if you don't know the actual date that you ovulated. The 14 day theory is what is "typical" which is not true for everyone. The sperm can live inside you for up to 5 days and result in pregnancy. It may not seem likely that you got pregnant, but it certainly is possible. Implantation bleeding does not happen for everyone all the time (I never had it happen) so it does not mean you are not pregnant just because you did not have bleeding. Why don't you all just pickup a box of condoms? It's only a matter of time before you become pregnant if you continue to have unprotected sex. It sounds like this guy is pressuring you into things, maybe he's isn't the best guy for you? ↑
During my first pregnancy even before I found out I was pregnant my body was itching me like crazy, especially at nights. I was afraid I was going to tear my skin. The doctor said it was puruntis of pregnancy, but now I'm starting to itch again. I don't know if it is in my head, I don't think so. I really don't want to be pregnant cause the way he is hurting me now what if I get pregnant, how will he treat me...better..worst cause I think worst. I really wish I had never met him cause I would still have my virginity, my innocence and I would have never killed my baby. ↑
Hey, just to let you know that my period came exactly on time. So I guess now I know now for sure that i am not pregnant. But trust me, I am never having sex again, at least not until I am married. I pray to God I will remain true to my promise. ↑
Thanks. My bf is now my ex, but the thing about it is that i have always been breaking up with him, but it never worked...I hope it works this time...I really do, but somtimes i think about it cause he was the only man I've ever been close to. I'm with someone now...it sounds fast but we're known each other for 4 yrs now and because of the distance why we were never together. I still think about my ex even though I try not to, but I still haven't gotten over the lost of my child...that's why he comes to my mind. He doesn't even want me to talk about it let alone tell anyone...not even him...I want to talk to someone so I can get help but ...I don't know ↑
Do you think you need counseling to get over the abortion? Are you still in school? If so can you see a guidance counselor? Good luck with the new boyfriend but don't let him pressure you into sex either. Do it when you are ready and when you want to and use protection if you are not trying to conceive. Getting pregnant now will not get rid of the pain of your unwanted abortion or the pain of a breakup. Take it slow and heal from the past before you jump into anything with this new guy. ↑
I'm always having dreams that come through. Sometimes I don't remember them until they come through. The night before the procedure I dreamt about my baby. I was in a room and I was afraid because I thought I wouldn't be able to recognise him...and when I went in I saw him, he looked like my ex but he was so beautiful and he smiled for me. I picked him up and I held him in my arms...he was so beautiful. I still think about the dream...and what if he was telling me not to do it. It has been three months since it happened and each month gets harder. What kind of mother would put themselves above the life of their child. I wish I could go back in time. I told him that i didn't want to go through with it. He said he couldn't take the consequence for both of us. He wants to go into politics one day. I feel so lonely even though I have my friends and family around me. No one knows about it except for him and the doctor. I deserve to fee this way...right? ↑
