I had a m/c xmas eve 07, i was i thought 12 wks but baby had died at 6 wks, the doctors weren't exactly very sympathtic. I am now 6 weeks pregnant again and very scared and a emotional rec, my doctor refuses to talk to me and tells me that i have to wait until my scan end of september to find out if i m/s again. ( nice i hear you all say ) my breast arent like bowling balls anymore, and i have a achy pain in my tummy, please give me some advice do you think i am having another m/s ?????? ↓
Hello, I am sorry about your miscarriage. I too miscarried at the same time, same scenario as you. I am currently 18 weeks and felt the same the as you did in the beginning. I basically demanded HCG levels and an ultrasound at 6 weeks to make sure I was still O.K. Oddly enogh, my HCG didn't double as it should have and the ultrasound tech dated me at 4 weeks instead of 6 weeks and this sent me into a panic that lasted 2 weeks until a follow up ultrasound. All was well, but it really does give you piece of mind. Is there such a thing as walk in clinics where you are? Maybe you can bypass your dr. and go that route?? Good luck... ↑
Hello, I'm so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I would get anoth opion. I feel a dr should really respect a mothers fears and feelings. I completely know how hard it is not knowing you can scare your self to death. Get u/s done and put your mind at ease so you can enjoy this very special time. Good luck! ↑
I would get a new doctor, no person should be treated badly by someone who is supposed to be helping them when they go through a loss like that. I switched doctors during my first pregnancy and it was the best decision I ever made. Not only did they help me through my devastating missed miscarriage of 10 weeks, but they helped me with my subsequent successful pregnancy. Symptoms can come and go or change, and I remember having the achy pain with my son, but I would look for a new doctor and stress that with your loss you want to put your mind at ease. Nothing wrong with that, they should be willing and able to accomodate you and if they aren't, dump them. Good luck! :) ↑
Definitely get a new doctor...what an asshole! The dr. should have much more compassion, especially considering you miscarried before. Normally you are scanned early on if you've had a previous loss (at most doctors)...good luck to you and I'm sure your baby is fine! :) ↑
