well im new here and im only 15 .
so please be a little nice with me.
see one of my friends ( annonymous)
is asking me if i want to give him a blow job.
and i got scared at that moment.
but silly me i said yes.
and now hes been bugging me to give it to him.
and im afraid that i may get pregnant by giving him a blow job.
so i was wondering ....
can you get pregnant by giving a blow job? ↓
no. your stomach doesn't connect to your uterus so unless you sit down and dribble the semen onto your crotch afterwards, you're pretty safe. and don't just give in cuz he asks. guys are pigs like that. ↑
no you cant if it somehow gets to your vagina then yes............are you having sex with guy? if you are then you shouldnt be if you have to ask if you can get pregnant by giving a blow job.....did you not have sex education at school?? ↑
no you can't get preggers by giving a bj. don't have sex w this guy unless you're going to do it for YOU. when YOU know you want sex, you'll know. but i do think you are a little too young for that! both you and him are. don't let someone pressure you into something you don't want b/c that could end BADLY. both emotionally or uh... physically! speaking of pregnancy, ha. if sex isn't something YOU want at this point in your life, DON'T DO IT.
i had a b/f that would talk non stop about "yeah my ex would do that for me, but oh i don't expect you to!" and all i thought was 'good cuz you sure as hell ain't getting it from me' lol. tell him to pull a marilyn manson and then he can do it all himself =) or to ask someone else. that's not much of a friend. ↑
sex is an amazingly beautiful thing and can be BREATH-TAKING when you know what you're doing and when you actually WANT IT! and at your age, i doubt you completely want it... or even know what you're doing. you have no idea what it takes to have great sex, therefore... why do it?!! lol.
but when you DO decide to have sex, make sure he's going to please YOU first! ↑
strix: age isn't a factor in know what it takes to have great sex. a lot of older people that have sex who aren't in love don't even know what it is to have great sex. i wouldn't assume too much. but yeah, absolutely, wait until YOU'RE ready to do it. ↑
No you can't get pregnant and I can see you don't even want to do it.. don't do what you don't want to no matter what. Just stick to your guns. If he doesn't like it tough shit he has a hand he can pleasure himself. ↑
People will respect you if you respect yourself. Giving a blow job to any guy who asks for it is degrading, and he doesn't have any respect for you if he's asking for it. He isn't your friend. ↑
Wooo don't be doing that shit at 15, especially if it's just one of your friends bugging you. Let some other girl do it and take the flax.
Anything like that should be done in a relationship at first. I gave someone a blow job when I was 14 at school cause I fancied him and i thought it would make him like me, but it didn't and I got given the name "Head Girl". Luckily, as I was really clever, the name ended up being turned into a pun and even I saw the funny side, but I severly doubt that would be the case anywhere else and when I moved school to do my exams, it meant I started off there with a bad reputation and guys got the wrong idea about me and it took a while to build up a good reputation.
No you can't get pregnant by giving a guy a blow job but you CAN get an STD. If your going to give him a blowie use a condom, if he doesn't like it don't do it. Unless your in a committed relationship & know for sure your partner doesn't have anything, don't do ANYTHING sexual without protection (no matter what your age is). ↑
You cant get pregnant from a blow job, but sexually transmitted diseases are definitely a risk. Your intial reaction of fears shows that you are not ready to have ANY sexual relationship. This boy is a pig. Tell him NO, you changed your mind, and that you are not ready to do something so personal with ANYONE. Dont let him pressure you and walk away! ↑
Funnily enough even at 15 I knew exactly how people could and couldnt get pregnant, so why do I find it hard to believe that there are many thick people that dont? Anyway, just cos some blokes asking you to suck them off doesnt mean you should... you dont have to you know... just a thought ↑
