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My fiance and I met at the end of June 2008. I asked her to marry me in October and gave her an engagement ring. Things were perfect and then, she got pregnant in november. A couple months later, things began to go downhill. A month ago, she told me she didn't want to keep the baby or marry me anymore. I figured it was just hormones because she has been on some serious mood swings lately, but I overlook that because she is not herself right now. I love her more than life itself. Now, we each have 3 kids from a previous marriage and this pregnancy was not planned. She has given me the ring back and asked for her housekey back and wants to give the baby to her twin sister and her husband who live almost 4 hours away. I have been opposed to this until just recently bacause I am finally trying to think of what would be best for the baby and not just what "I" want. I am a nervous wreck over this because the baby is my child and he always will be. I don't want to lose him or my fiance but I stand to lose them both. It probably wouldn't be best to keep him and have him alternate between 2 split, single parent homes struggling to afford raising a newborn baby. Her sister and her husband are great parents who want another baby and could give him more than we could at this point. My fiance is around 22-23 weeks along right now. What is my question?... Will I or her be able to give him away once we see him born and hold him? I have a hard time thinking so but she is determined to give him up and only wants me to consent and wants nothing to do with me if I oppose her...except maybe have sex because she says that that is the only reason she may have me around at this point. She doesn't even know if she wants me around if I do consent. Is it just hormones or am I a fool for hoping we can work things out?