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You do have a lot on you... Unfortunately, this is a decision that you must make for you, your baby, and your boyfriend. Does your family know about the pregnancy? Maybe they can support you until you figure this out (even if it means going back home)... Talk at length with your boyfriend too. Maybe also posting on the appropriate trimester board will get more response from others that have or are in your simliar situation... If you do decide to place your child for adoption, I would start the process soon in picking an adoptive family and so forth. You can get some GREAT support via adoption agencies! I wish you the best!!

if you give up this baby because of money you will never forgive your self or him....... You will hate him when he gets that money because every dollar you spend will make you think of your baby... there are many jobs out there for him .. ..

If you love him and baby... just get married now and live that dream that i live.. its amazing.. still challanging but life always is!

I don't understand how he could even bring himself to suggest giving the baby up. If he stands to get $100,000, what is the problem? Why not get married? Personally, I would get some help from my family to move home and raise the baby alone with a good support system before I would give up the baby.

Hi, I just wanna say one thing every thing is possibly and even though you have to make a really big and hard dessicion, you have to make it. I am raising triplets alone, i go to college, but i get help lots of help and not only from family. But what i do know is that if i had to make a choice between money or my childeren, then i would choose my childeren, they mean so much more then any amount of money! Sometimes you have to let go something you love for something you love even more. Give it another thought and good luck!

Sweetie,first of all I am glad you are not thinking of abortion.Second,do Not put your precious baby girl up for adoption unless that is what you wholeheartedly want.Men come and go,but that little girl will be your daughter for life.If you really love each other,get married,but don't give your child up,My sweet baby girl is nearly 13 months,and I can honestly say my dh and I would give up anything and everything for her.No amount of money is worth more than a child.

If you want to keep this little girl, you should. Could you not keep it a secret until after the baby was born...maybe the business would be sold by then?
Whatever you decide, I"m glad you're not choosing abortion.
If adoption is your only option, I'd love to talk to you on Y! ms42721 IM me there.