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Ok some history - I'm 32 - have had 2 miscarriages - one in Oct 06 and the other in Jan 07. Not kids yet. DH and I are trying. My currently job is rocky - I could lose it at any time due to the economy around here (I'm an Information technology professional in the automotive industry in the Detroit area) - and my current manager is a jerk to put it very nicely. A new job has come up and I'm very eager to take it - manager seems nice - great opportunity, etc. I know I probably need to be at the job a year before FMLA but dh and I could make do without the second income (we would just have to cut back a lot on all the things that we don't need). Is it wrong for me to take this job knowing that I might conceive in the next few months and am not sure if I plan on coming back afterwards? What do you think? I mean I might not get pregnant for a while or might miscarry again - but then again I could get pregnant this month and carry to term... and I don't know what would be worse - the stress of my current awful boss and potentially losing my job or the stress of a new job... I don't want to jeopordize our chances of having a child - bio clock is ticking! Let me know what you guys think!

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