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Wanting To Have 3rd

6 posts on this thread and the last post was on May 23rd, 2007 9:19 AM
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sweetie - May 9th, 2007 10:49 AM
[Original Post]

im 30 and want to have a 3rd child ,husband says hes not ready yet and have to respect his wishes and wait, but is it true that when women reach 30 they go throgh a lot of emotions and want a baby?


Hot Pants Momma - May 16th, 2007 7:35 AM

I'm probably not the best judge of what happens at age 30. I am 33 and pregnant with my first child. I had been ttc since age 28. I do know that when I turned 30 and did not have a child yet, I REALLY felt as though my biological clock were ticking. I think alot of women probably see this age as the turning point if they want a child or another child and are ready to get the show on the road before they get much older. I know I did. I agree that you should wait until you and your husband are both ready. Does he want a 3rd child eventually? I understand the difficulty in waiting, but when you and your husband are both ready for this adventure, the wait will have been worth it!! Good Luck!!!!


sweetie - May 16th, 2007 10:13 AM

Hi its me sweetie,,
thanx for answering, yeah he does want a 3rd eventually,i just hate the waiting,but i will wait it shouldnt be to long i hope lol...i mean we dont use protection,well he calls pulling out protection,,again thanx for writing


OneMoreTime - May 21st, 2007 2:05 PM

How old are you other 2 children?



billsgirl - May 21st, 2007 10:29 PM

i am 28 when i explained to my boyfriend how the older i get the harder it will be to become pregnant. i sealed the deal when i asked him if he wanted to be the oldest dad showing up at the little league games.


sweetie - May 23rd, 2007 9:10 AM

my children now are 10and 8,and their old enough to where they can help out if they want..i know my kids would want a younger sibling even tho i havnt asked yet..and my son does play baseball his dad is asst. coach..so that would be good.lol..


sweetie - May 23rd, 2007 9:19 AM

weve been having unprotected sex since we have been togather,he just pulls out.
so if he got me pregnant by accident it wouldnt be the end of the world for him you know,cause he knows that i could by not using protection,but im waiting for him to let me know when hes ready...