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6 kids under 7 and smoking drugs? where is social services

they're out looking for bad mothers, idiot, not pot smoking ones.

smoking drugs while you are supposed to be looking after kids is being a bad mum. what if there is an accident with one of the kids when you are high? not a very responsible thing to do, if you did care about your kids you would stop the stupidity and face your responsabilities

oh geez, do any of you IDIOTS know whatit is like to HOME SCHOOL and care for SIX kids during the day? of course not! you can't handle six kids and the ones you do have go to school for the majority of the day. how convienient for you!!!! my kids ARE taken care of or else social services WOULD be here taking them away! i have to answer to the school district 5 times a year, and in my state they are ball breakers so there's no slacking. and you idiots have an IGNORANT view of what being "hi" is.... i am not zonked out on the couch oblivious to reality, how would i take care of what i do if i was?? stop talking shit about what you have no clue about. i'm not blinked out during the day. freaking morons. i take a toke here and there. sudafed gives me more of a buzz.... so take a toke, have 6 kids, home school them, and then get back to me. last note, it's people like YOU who are the roots of hatred in our society, think about it, you're spewing hatred at me b/c you don't agree with a personal habit of mine, holy shit.

oh, what if there was an accident? there has been, i have three boys, and all is well. matter of fact, i am so capable of handling "real life" that i had my last baby naturally at home, i didn't rely on somebody else delivering my baby for me NOR did i "RUN" from my the reality of the pain and opt for DRUGS (i don't consider mj a drug) to numb me. how many DRUGS did you opt for in delivery? and how many did you come home from the hospital with?? uh-huh..........

You ask if any of us have 6 kids... Like you are worthy of some award for being mother of the year, or procreator of the year. If it is so much work, keep your legs shut and stop getting pregnant. I would label you the idiot. Let me guess, you don't believe in birth control. Oh wait, you are mormon? You clearly have too many kids if you need to get high to take care of them! Also, social services has been known to ignore some of the worst child abuse cases in history. I am sure you would be in some trouble if they knew about your habit and the fact that you get your baby high. I hope you end up in jail so your kids have a chance to thrive.

i AM worthy of a mother of the year award, thank you very much! but that was not my point, leave it to an ignorant asshole to miss the real point... let me try simpler terms.... i have MORE responsibility than YOU and yet i do it SUCCESSFULLY. mj does not hinder my ability to do what i have to do. i NEVER complained about what i had to do, moron. i LOVE what i do! you seem to keep missing the point that i HOME SCHOOL! this is a voluntary decision b/c i LOVE my kids and want the BEST for them! if there was too much on my plate, i'd send them off to school! holy shit, do't you get it? i OPT to keep them home with me... where are your kids for most of the day? maybe it is YOU who can't handle life since you see fit to send your kids off to an institution for most of their childhood rather then be bothered actually parenting them yourself. and why am i an idiot for having children? i love my family and hope to expand it even more! and no, i am not mormon, wanna guess again? and i don't "need" mj to handle my kids. i'd go into the benefits of mj, but it'd be lost on you, so let's just leave it at that. and this is rich, you hope i end up in jail??!! wow, you're one messed up shit head. who's best interest are you really looking out for? surely it's not my children! if i go to jail (which i won't, sorry to disappoint you) my 6 kids will surely be divided up and sent to different foster homes. this alone would devastate them as they are all so very close. the older ones will probably end up floating around homes until they are of age and on their own, at this point really fucked up b/c they never really had a family. the younger ones also stand a chance of remaining in foster care for many years, or get adopted away from their siblings, never again knowing the incredible love that comes from our family. is that what is best??? all b/c of mj??? at home they learn responsibility, compassion, sharing, selflessness, LOVE, academics ONE ON ONE, maturity, fun, and beauty. NOBODY could EVER duplicate what i give to my kids. if you could take them from me you could NEVER measure up. they'd never be as well off as they are with me. my competency and my family's strength is evident in my "special education" daughter SURPASSING her peers on her achievement tests and my sons acceptance into a scout group almost 2 years his senior! my dd and i have such a tight bond that she was with me throughout my entire home birth experience. i am so dedicated to my babies that i prefer natural cloth for their bottoms, momma's milk for their bellies (and they don't get high from me stupid), and mama's arms for most of the day (i babywear). you paint a picture of me stoned and reckless, but (now stay with me here and try to get what i'm saying...) would i be able to do all that i do (which is a lot, but it's my HAPPILY CHOSEN way of life) if i was incapacitated on weed? you're the one with the warped sense of reality here. your opening your mouth without knowing what you're saying. your words are filled with anger and hatred while i sit here with my loving husband, surrounded by my awesome kids, who are happily and safely tucked into thier beds. would it make you happy if i woke them to tell them they had to pack their bags and leave me and each other b/c some ignoramus thinks mommy is a BAD person for smoking an herb? YOUR kids should be taken away b/c you're breeding the next generation of bigots that the world doesn't need! while my kids will be compassionate, accepting, loving and tolerant, yours will be hard, judgemental, condemning, and miserable. i don't really hope that your kids would be taken from you b/c i am sure that behind your asshole mask here, you love your kids. but what i do hope, is that one day yourself or one of your kids needs the help of one of mine for whatever reason and when my kids help (as they would do just about anything for anybody), you somehow know that these are the kids that were raised by that pothead, loser mom from way back when. i hope you have to eat your words one day. i hope this with all that i have. if you answer this again, please tell me how it is that you think i make it through my days? how do i teach math, do laundry, change several diapers a day, and prepare three + meals a day? if i'm the bad mommy that you think i am, why don't i send my kids to school so i can have more time to myself? instead of incoherently spewing nastiness, try THINKING and answer those ?'s...

Hi nm, out of curiosity, could you please tell me how you handle mj around your children? Do you hide it from them or do they know your stance on it? Knowing that it is often times a "gateway" drug, would you be upset if your children started using when they were teenagers? I'm not judging you or anything I'm just curious what your thoughts are and how you think you would handle the situation. If you're wondering, I personally don't use mj. I tried it when I was a teenager and didn't care for it. Many of my friends who did use it went on to become crack heads and junkies so I was really cautious around anything of the sort. I'm not blaming the mj, they made the choice to escalate their use of drugs and their home lives had a lot to do with their choices. I'm just wondering about your opinion about the other scenario.

I have had 2 home births both of which I had no pain relief at all, and even if I did it is LEGAL! I had a midwife deliver the babies because they are professionals and would know what to do it anything went wrong. Why are you keep repeating yourself about home tutoring your kids and how many you do have. I don' know if I could manage 6 kids cos I've never even tried, noone would know unless they have been in the situation. My children do not go to school yet so no - they are not at school for the majority of the day. Even when they do go to school it is for 6 hours a day. 6 hours out of 24 is not most the day. At least get your math right! Nowt like blowing your own trumpet is there. All we can do is our best, noone is the worlds greatest mother. So how about getting off your high horse for once and taking a look at the real world, not the doped up one you are living in at the min.

for "p", who asked straight questions, i will give straight answers.
i have ocd which normally would require me to be on a high dose of an ssri. ssri's cause sweats, tremors, and a lack of sexual desire. i did the ssri thing for a while and hated it. then i tried mj. mj calms my mind. i don't get bonked out stoned. i take one hit just a couple of times throughout the day. it is very mellowing, but does not render me couch locked. my eyes don't even get red and slanty like you're probably imagining! what you people don't realize is that mj really does have a lot to offer. youhave it ingrained in your head that it's a bad "drug" ranked right up there with crack, but that couldn't be further from the truth! it is a natural herb (and contrary to what some think or claim, suppliers do not lace the weed with anything, it'd be a loss of money for them!). and i do not meet some shady character downsome dark alleyway to get it either. i get from a friend whos's also a wonderful member to society. as for what i do with my kids, i don't smoke in front of them, but they do know what it is. they know it as medicinal in nature. we intend on teaching them all about it as they grow older. we will teach them that it is a naturally growing herb that when smoked has wonderful effects on the mind and body. just as we teach them responsibility with a car we will teach them responsibility with mj. i do not consider it a "drug". it is an herb made illegal by this country b/c of scared and ignorant law makers. how can they keep nicotine legal and not mj? nicotine gives me a quicker and nastier buzz than mj and it is loaded with nasty chemicals that will kill you if giventhe chance. mj has no chemicals and no bad side effects on the body! you won't die of an overdose or have cancer in 10 years. do you realize that imj helps many people come off the ssri's like me? it helps cancer patients with their pain and lack of appetite. it helps arthritis patients with their pain and stiffness. montel willaims uses it for his pain! he is an advocate for legalization! is he a dark and menacing member of society? should his kids get taken away from him? see, you're image of a pot smoker is warped. we're not the drug addicts you picture rocking in the fetal position in the corner. we're not crack heads or trash. i bet if you met me and didn't know about my mj use, we'd probably be friends! you're being ignorant and judgemental and prejudice. and also, dd suffers from juvenile rheumatoid arthritis and she will probably be the first one i would allow to use mj because of it. right now i have to pump her with all sorts of medications that i know are no good for her in the long run, but it's all i have for her right now. i'd much rather hand her some mj. just like teaching them how to responsibly handle a car or a job, i will also teach them how to responsibly handle mj. i fit is abused, they will be reprimanded. see we're users, not abusers. there is a big difference. and why i keep mentioning my home situation is b/c i am trying to make a point that is obviously lost on you. i am a functioning member of society and a dedicated mother. THIS is the bottom line. and i even have more accountability than most b/c i have the school district to answer to 5 times a year so if i were neglecting or abusing my kids, they'd know it! i'd actually get away with less then the normal parent b/c i am so closely watched! so the fact that i am kosher with my school district and the fact that my kids are doing so well PROVES that mj is not a hinderance, if anything it is a help! why don't you surf the net and do some intelligent research on mj? you can start at NORML.com. it is an organization for the legalization of mj for medicinal purposes. it has a lot of good info. curb your ignorance and open your mind to the truth.

Marijuana aside... Wow. Your posts are too annoying to continue reading. Seriously, your rants are the same in every post. You are so ignorant and arrogant to think that your children are getting a better education, just because you home-school. Given that you are doing the HS, it would not be an understatement that your children are probably lacking in social skills and intelligence.

you are an ignorant ass. what does homeschooling have to do with her children being unintelligent? you're the stupid one. homeschooled kids are usually much more educated than their public schooled peers. many of the child prodegies of today were homeschooled and thats what allowed them to move up to college and the proffessional world so quickly. get some education on a subject before you spew bullshit you know nothing about. and that goes for weed too.

Way over your head... I was OBVIOUSLY referring to the fact that SHE is doing the HS therefore, her kids would be better off in a public school. Now for the real insult to HS kids. They tend to be weird. Yes, WEIRD.

Oh, and direct me to a scientific study that shows HS kids to be more intelligent than children who attend public or private schools. Did you make it up or is there hard evidence to suggest what you stated?

you're such a fucking moron, you bitch about my posts, but obviously you don't really read them....i've ALREADY SAID that my kids are ABOVE AVERAGE. they have to take achievement tests every year and if they were "lacking" anything, the school district would do something about it. and yes, there are published statistics that prove home schooled kids excel higher and faster than public schooled kids. i have read lots onthe subject, but i don't have links. if you're really interested, check it out yourself. if i thought you might actually be sincerely interested i'd find some links for you, but you're a waste of time. i tried actually being nice in my last post, but it was so wasted on you. and "wierd"? do you have any actual scientific proof of that?????

why are you using foul language in every single on of your posts? it doesn't make you look big or clever.