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It's your body, and you are the one in charge of it, not your doctor. #1, you probably didn't dilate because you weren't really ready to give birth. 40 weeks is an average, not a set-in-stone number. Most 1st pregnancies actually last about 41.5 weeks. #2, The bladder complications were probably a result of the c-section itself, and are more likely to be exacerbated by a repeat c-section than a VBAC. Bladder issues are a little-discussed risk of c-sections. #3, Induction DOES increase your risk of uterine rupture, so you are probably safer scheduling a c-section than agreeing to an induction. As far as big babies increasing the risk of UR, that's simply not true, and frankly, the only way they can estimate the size of the baby is if you allow an ultrasound. Decline the ultrasound, and they have no way of knowing how big the baby is or isn't. Really, the ultrasounds aren't accurate anyway. At 36 weeks, I was told my daughter was 6 pounds. She was born (via c-section) one week later, and weighed over 8 pounds. A friend was told at 36 weeks that her baby was at least 8 pounds, so she agreed to an induction at 38 weeks; the baby was barely 6 pounds. Furthermore - there are things you can do to reduce your risk of uterine rupture. Don't skip your kegels! Don't get the epidural. Prenatal yoga, as well as breathing and meditation routines can help you relax and get your mind/body into a state of cooperating with each other. Your body DOES know how to grow a baby, it DOES know how to get the baby out, without risking you or the baby. Just learn to let your body do its thing without interference.

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