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I had an appointment with the OB almost two weeks ago (pregnant with number 2) and he noted that I had a 4th degree tear with my first. Recovery wasn't too bad with it, and I'm not incontinent, although I feel like I can never get my behind clean, if that makes sense (and sorry if tmi!) Anyway, he offered to give a c/s due to the risk of tearing again and becoming incontinent of bowel. I am having a tough time finding out what the real risk is. I guess if I had my druthers, I'd rather have another vaginal delivery with not pitocin this time around ( I hated that stuff and it lead to a lot of unnecessary intervention for me, IMO.) Of course, I don't want to be in adult diapers either. I think that it may be better to be safe than sorry, give up the idea of an ideal vaginal delivery this time around and opt for the c/s, but I'm so conflicted about it. Luckily, I have about 12 weeks to decide (he wants me to decide by 30 weeks.) Anyone have any experience similar to mine or know anyone who has that would like to share how things went the second (or third, etc) time around?

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