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Hi, cameronsmommy!
First, congratulations on your healthy baby! That's the most important thing, right? That said, as a fellow woman, I know about that "gross flab of skin" that you're talking about. I call it the "shelf of fat", myself...referring to the stubborn and strange clump that seems to hover just over the c-section scar...only us c-sectioners would know about that one! I know it's been ten months but don't lose hope. My son is about 14 weeks, now, and it's been a long three months but I'm starting to feel great about my body again...you CAN get there! In fact, I'm even thinking about having another...soon! I guess the biggest question is, are you doing enough cardio? I know it's hard to fit it in, and I know the first instinct is to do crunches, but I stubbornly persisted, even when I felt like giving up, and it's my running that finally kicked that "shelf of fat's" ass! I do lift weights and do plenty of abdominal excercises, as well, but seriously, it's the cardio that get's everything going...the rest just helps with the overall tone-up, in my opinion. Another suggestion that I'm big on is the physio ball...I always called it the "ab ball". Either way, it's that big goofy thing that you may have even seen in your delivery room! It's great for core strengthening and since I've started implementing it into my excercise regime, (I started before trying to get pregnant so that I'd have a jump-start on things) I've developed REALLY strong abs! In fact, my midwife told me that because I got such a strong core going, I probably wouldn't really "show" during pregnancy 'till 7 months. I didn't believe her but she was right, and once I had the baby, it only took about a week to get a flat stomach again. Of course things were a little loose for a while, but as far as actual muscle control, it definitely helped. Keep that in mind for any subsequent pregnancies...and good luck...you can do it!

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