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Problems With My Mom

1 posts on this thread and the last post was on July 21st, 2005 5:39 AM
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jackye - July 20th, 2005 5:37 PM
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when i was young my mom never raised me as a daughter she treated me like a friend and let me do whatever i wanted she did horrable stuff in front of me like drugs,sex,drinking she cheated on my father over 50 times i dont like her shes hurt my dad,sisters and other family. i lost all tust and i love her but i dont like her at all almost to a point of hate my sisters forgave her but they never saw what i saw now i'm preg. and she wants to be mommy and buy me everything and for once be there for me but i dont want any part of her my sisters tell me i'm a cold hearted bitch i cry every night because i dont know what to do or how i should feel.someone please tell me hoe you feel.

to jackye - July 21st, 2005 5:39 AM

This is only my personal opinion. From what you describe i would feel very much the same as you do towards my mum. I would also feel very frustrated if anyone told me to forgive and forget. However you can't really find an other mum, so I would suggest a plain and simple confronntation. Tell her how you feel and that she needs to earn your trust a little at a time. there is no way how you could eliminate her of your life so might as well get in control of the relationship and set the rules yourself. Just measure your words before you speak and don't do it with the intent to revenge but to start afresh with a stranger if that helps. hope you manage. I'm not pregnant at the moment but i can relate to not wanting your mum around. It has taken me around 3 years to settle my feelings and my mum did not do any of the things yours did. She was just cold and jealous of me all the time.