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Freaking Out....dont Know If I Can Do This...
4 posts on this thread and the last post was on March 1st, 2009 8:25 AM
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Hello ladies,
As I've written befor I'm 25 yers old and I'm engaged to be married in April. My pregnacy is a secret from all my family & some of my friends until after I get married. My fiance is in the Navy & he left yesterday & won't be back until 2 days befor we get married & I just don't think I can deal with the stress of being away from him. We have had some trust issues in the past and altho I really trust him, the stress of him being gone away is really killing me. For example he didn't call or msg me for almost 24 hrs and it has stressed me out so much that I've been puking since 8ish last nite. In 11 wks pregnant now and already highrisk because I have high bp. I know this can't be good for the pregnacy but I really don't know what to do at this point.
Any suggestions or comments would be so greatly appreciated. I feel like I'm absolutely cracking up.

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I have another concern now, I've never spotted befor and I did today. Sorry for details...but first time was pinkish red and now brownish... I am getting worried that all the stress has caused issue.... What do you think?
I hope to hear from someone soon...

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 | hlc1122 - January 18th, 2009 4:11 PM |
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i think you need to sit back a just relax you pregnant enjoy what will be here in a few months and you need to tell someone who wont judge you if thats the issue..taking to someone about your conerns or worries will be a little less stress. the spotting is going to be fine unless you bleed red other than that take it easy and try relaxing and take in the enjoyment of what you have inside you... Im only 5.3 weeks and my boyfriend doesnt seem to care and wants to be happy and act like im not sick and my boobs dont hurt so im happy when he is away lol... well you can talk to me a stranger ill listen i got my own jerk im dealing with!!good luck

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 | jirzlee - February 28th, 2009 3:25 AM |
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I think that you should tell at least 1 person about being pregnant. WHo are you going to share everything with, especially if you are home alone? this would definatly ease a lot of your stress

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 | Lindy - March 1st, 2009 8:25 AM |
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i think you need to realise that you are putting yourself through stress for no real reason. Really what is 24hours. Try and stay in control and for the sake of your baby...chill out. Try and look at things from the point of view of a mother whose child depends on her than a young wife to be who is feeling a bit insecure about her absent partner. If he is in the navy he is gonna be away alot and that wont change, so your gonna have to. Your loyalties now lie with your child, and that will only become more apparent as the years go by. Stop stressing and try to use your time productively like planning for your babys arrival and enjoying all the lovely free time you have. Men suck sometimes but you cant let your trust issues affect your baby! Good luck xox

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