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Mean Girls!

12 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 21st, 2005 3:39 PM
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BM - December 20th, 2005 6:13 AM
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I think some people are so mean! I think some of you are acting like little kids playing in a playground!! I have been roaming these threads for some weeks now and most of the time I'm just looking for similarities between myself and others and trying to gleam information from them! I have read some pretty ridiculous threads (as you all have) and I have simply laughed and closed them down to go onto the next one, or better yet to go and do something constructive with my time - like play with my kids!! Please guys, if you find some of the threads "annoying" why don't you just have a laugh and move on to the next one! There is no need to write back to people just trying to start something!! Now I sat here for a good 10 minutes contemplating whether or not I would click submit to this thread cause I know it may cause a frenzy with some people, but I really don't care - cause I just wanted to try to get a point across to a tiny percentage of you that may take heed and listen for once...! Don't like my chances, but hey... life is for taking risks huh?? I wish you all luck with your pregnancies or hopeful pregnancies and hope that you all stop stressing out so much cause it all goes straight through to your unborn babies....! Poor loves don't deserve all this aggression do they???


Hi - December 20th, 2005 7:26 AM

Well said BM & happy holidays!


Emy - December 20th, 2005 8:26 AM

I agree that there are a lot of nasty posts here that are unnecessary and I also think that some people are way too sensitive and take things personally. Like you said, people who feel annoyed should just move on.


itsapinupthing - December 20th, 2005 1:27 PM

BM you rock! it's about time someone said something......I hate to see those hate e-mail soooo much. It even scares me to write my thoughs and feelings.
Thanks again girl



Marie - December 20th, 2005 2:19 PM

I second that!!!!


Lin - December 20th, 2005 2:29 PM

I honestly think people are just far too hypersensitive. There are definitely some mean things said, but in all reality, they seem to make up the large minority of posts. For the most part, I think people on here are very nice and helpful.


Lin - December 20th, 2005 2:35 PM

Oops...of course, I meant "small minority" and not "large minority."


kellie - December 20th, 2005 3:06 PM

I agree with BM but I agree with Lin that people are to hypersensitive.When they hear somthing they don't like they go off and start a chain reacation.I also agree,just move on.I do often wonder where the common sense is sometimes.What can we do.Don't like it,Don't look.



ambery - December 20th, 2005 3:30 PM

I think that you are 100% right some people on here should not come on here at all, i think that everyone comes on here because they have questions or concerns, and everyone should be respected. People that are just on here to make fun of people bug off your not wanted.
MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVRYONE (THATS NICE)


Lin - December 20th, 2005 4:38 PM

That's all nice in theory, ambery, but the thing is way too many people interpret people disagreeing with them as being mean. It is certainly possible to be respectful and disagree at the same time, but there are definitely some hypersensitive people who don't seem to recognize that. That said, there are also others on here that are great to have civilized discussions with and even some really interesting and insightful debate.


Danyel - December 20th, 2005 5:47 PM

I completely agree, I am very new here ( I've only made one post ) and honestly almost didn't because I wondered if mine would be ripped to shreds after reading some past ones. It is good to know that most of the girls here are nice and will not be so ruthless !!! :)


BM - December 20th, 2005 8:50 PM

I think most of us are super sensitive - we ARE pregnant, we are supposed to be hormonal hey? Anyways, I'm glad I didn't receive a backlashing for my post - I'm not trying to be nasty to anybody! Like Lin said most people here are friendly and very helpful, that's why I come on here... but to the people that not only post mean comments to girls wanting help but the ones who respond in an aggressive manner when they don't agree - keep it for your in-laws or your annoying neighbours down the road - we don't want rage and aggro, we just want a friendly person to chat to! Thanks guys for supporting what I said - I was deathly scared I would get abuse for writing this! Have a Merry Christmas and a great New Year!!


marisa - December 21st, 2005 3:39 PM

Tell me about it My step-daughter call me fat woman, fat cow , fat so I get so mad and of course makes me fell bad .. I know it's not nice to tell people bad stuff thats why I don't say anything ...I do have to say that i did tell her that at I least gain alot of wieght like she did and that I have'nt got a strecth mark. Im36 weeks now anyway she don't seem to stop telling me all this rude stuff Im fed up with her crap she's only 16 All I have to do is ignore her right..