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1 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 18th, 2009 7:03 PM
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teachpa1 - June 18th, 2009 5:22 PM
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Here's my story. I got pregnant last summer and carried until 21 weeks where I had to terminate the pregnancy due to the fact that the baby had no kidneys and a heart defect. Our baby had a 0% chance of survival. In January, my husband and I started trying again. I got my period in January, February, March, April and again in May. Each time, I was on time with a heavy flow the first 2 days. My last period was May 14. From my estimation, that puts my period due last Thursday, June 11. I took a test last Wednesday; negative. I took another test on Saturday; negative. I still have not gotten my period. What I have is a very light red/sometimes brown discharge when I wipe (sorry, TMI). I don't have it consistently. It does not involve a pad or tampon. I just took another test today and it was still negative. I'm so very confused, upset, angry, frustrated. My other symptoms include frequent urination, lower abdomen cramps, increased appetite, fatigue, and butterfly like feeling in my stomach. I wouldn't say that I'm stressed. In fact, I would say that I'm less stressed than the other months that we were trying.
So, can anyone help me with what this might be and what I should do???


jeffreys mommy - June 18th, 2009 7:03 PM

Sorry to hear that you're having problems. It seems like you might be in the easrly stages of a misscarriage. When I had a misscarraige, it took 2 whole weeks to finally bleed heavy and complete the miscarriage. I was spotting very lightly the whole time. Your tests might not be positive because hormone levels are decreasing due to the pending miscarraige.

I really hope I am wrong on this and that your spotting will stop and you will have a pos. HPT.

Good luck!