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Who Is The Father?

12 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 23rd, 2005 3:03 PM
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Desiree - September 22nd, 2005 11:17 AM
[Original Post]

Aug 12 I had unprotected sex with a close friend. On Aug 23, I started my period. Towards the end of my cycle, I had unprotected sex with a different close friend. It is Sept 22 and I am pregnant. Without a paternity test, who would I figure out who is the father?


KLC - September 22nd, 2005 11:21 AM

If you had your period after your first encounter than it is most likely that the 2nd guy is the father.


Abby - September 22nd, 2005 11:26 AM

I would say the 2nd guy....but to be 100% sure, you will probably need DNA test....good luck to you.


Sue - September 22nd, 2005 3:38 PM

It does sound like it would be the 2nd guy. First you need to figure out how far along you are and then it should be easier to figure out. But if all else fails y ou may need dna testing, especially if you want child support.



rl - September 22nd, 2005 3:42 PM

boy you are sure nice to your "close friends" but I would say it would be the 2nd guy but I agree with the others a dna test is probably needed to know for sure...hope these guys are still your "close friends" after you tell them one of em knocked you up...good luck with that....


KC - September 22nd, 2005 5:01 PM

Hun, don't let anybody put you down. Your a grown woman and most of us have done things we aren't proud of (except rl who obviously is perfect) I would have to say probably #2. I would keep it that way until the baby is born and maybe get a DNA test, an ultrasound will help you pinpoint the date (just remember dr's usually measure by the first day of your last period, so don't think youre two weeks further than you are. look up a due date calculator online, it will tell you the conception date, due date, and all that good stuff. I've been there sweetie.)_


mel - September 23rd, 2005 12:30 PM

You got your period after the first guy, so he is defineately NOT the father. After sex with the 2nd guy you missed your period, you can assume that he IS the father. I'm sure he will probably want a paternity test after the baby is born to confirm, considering you were with someone else, but I am positive he would be the father.


geez!! - September 23rd, 2005 1:32 PM

ppl bleed during pregnancy ALL OF THE TIME! get a clue ladies. desiree, there is NO way to know without a dna test! ABSOLUTELY NO WAY! i bled the first 3 months of my pregnancy! how bout that mel..... r u sure theres "definitely" no way it could be the first one!! like i said, get a clue



I just don't know - September 23rd, 2005 2:22 PM

I had unprotected sex with 38 guys this week who is the father ?


Ha Ha - September 23rd, 2005 2:53 PM

"I Just dont know", that made me laugh out loud, thanks, i needed that...You must be tired now, what with all the sex and stuff, so i'll let you rest.....THAT was funny.....I think number 17 would be daddy.....good luck.


Ciara - September 23rd, 2005 2:54 PM

What would I win if I can guess? Hehe. You must be VERRRRRY friendly :)))))))))))


I just don't know - September 23rd, 2005 2:58 PM

oh good I thought it was number 17 too ... ya I am tired , I think I'll keep it down to half next week because now that I am preg it won't be as easy anymore lol


I just don't know - September 23rd, 2005 3:03 PM

oh my God ... I can't remember his name (#17) do you think he'll be upset that I can't remember ya know cuz possibly being the father ?