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Paternity In Question!

4 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 21st, 2005 11:24 AM
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krc - December 20th, 2005 1:31 PM
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i was with my ex-boyfriend nov. 8th. I was with another man nov. 10th. I am now 6 weeks pregnant. The 1st day of my last period was oct. 26th. My ex and I were together around 4am so actually it was november 9th? Anyways the conception calender says I conceived anywhere in that time frame. Does anyone have any opinions on which of these 2 men is the father. I know I have to wait till the baby is born and do a paternity test but I really want it to be my ex's baby because he passed away when I was 2 weeks pregnant. Im scared it is the other guys because the whole time I was with my ex we tried for a baby and it never happened. We split up for 2 months. We run into eachother one night and one thing led to another. 2 days later im with a different guy, then im pregnant. So once again....any thoughts on this matter would be appreciated!


kellie - December 20th, 2005 1:47 PM

Sorry, but those dates are WAY too close to determine who the father is. Sperm can live for several days, so the first guys' could have still been swimming around up there when you had sex with the second guy. You are going to have to wait for a paternity test.


Ba8y6irl - December 20th, 2005 1:55 PM

Yeah chances are you had a mix of sperm swimming around in you... it could be anyone! Try Maury Povich... lol free paternity tests for all!!

T - December 20th, 2005 2:37 PM

Ya they are too close together, this happened to a friend of mine, and there were father apart, I believe a week, she thought it was one guy, they did the paternaty and it turned out to be the other one. No guarentee's. Good Luck.


Audes - December 21st, 2005 11:24 AM

Why didn't you use a condom with the other guy and then you would have known for sure it was yoyur ex's. You will have to wait for a paternity test.