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Jess, I'm sorry to say this, but your boyfriend is a POS. I'm sitting here in the exact opposite position, trying to be a part of a pregnancy that my ex-girlfriend wants me to have nothing to do with. I've been totally supportive, even though she cheated on me, and I would give my life just to make sure that this child was born safe and I can be a part of this, but I've been cast out. Your boyfriend also has no idea what he's talking about because I've been reading books and articles for the past 72 hours STRAIGHT. I've been waiting for this day for 24 years, and I'm being shut out. He has no idea what he's missing, and how lucky he is. It actually makes me a bit mad that he's doing that, because at least one guy here in Virginia would give anything to be in his position. Don't give up on him if he comes around, and whatever you do, keep him in your life. Try not to fight, and believe me, I know that's very difficult with your hormonal changes right now, it's a roller coaster, I know it. Just try and stay calm and realize that you can only control what you can control, and worry about your baby first, him second. Besides, all the stress isn't good for your baby. It'll be alright.

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