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Did You Or Your Wife Bring Up Having A Child?

1 posts on this thread and the last post was on May 5th, 2006 12:25 AM
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MrsDick - May 4th, 2006 4:30 PM
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I want a child now and my husband does not. What made you decide to want to have a child and who brought it up in the first place? Just curious.


falafal0 - May 5th, 2006 12:25 AM

My husband wanted another child -I did not. He talked about it for two years before I started changing how I felt about things. Mind you we have three already. I am now 24 pg with our fourth and boy, is he excited...I am excited, but more nervous! Going to #4 is a big step, I think. You both need to be ready though. I wanted another baby after our two boys, and had to wait until he was ready, which was over a year or so. You can't force at all - messes up your realtionship. Just talk things through honestly and openly. If you can't agree, get together after a few months and see if things have changed. Maybe one feels a desire for financial security first, who knows...men and women are very different. good luck XO