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My Boyfriend of 5 years and I took a year break (and get this, we still lived in the same house while separated). We decided to give our relationship on last chance and put our best foot forward. After 2 months, we had an accident where the condom broke, and as a result, I now have a bun in the oven. I have decided to keep it, my boyfriend thinks otherwise... and is very distant from me since then. He has never wanted a child, and is extremely upset. I can't seem to comfort him at all,and he has been avoiding me. I also have active colitis, and am worried I may get so upset that I may trigger a bad episode. I have already been to the hospital once for a painful colitis night.... I have told him that I understand if he is worried,... I can take care of the baby, but I need him to lean on. Plus, he doesn't want anyone to know at all... I want to tell so I have more support and it is easier on my nerves. I have told some close friends, and my mom, but that is it.
Any thoughts?? We have separate rooms in my house... I cover his rent and bills each month and he owes me about $1000. Is it fair to ask him to move out so it is easier on me?

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