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HI mommy2b...I know exactly how you feel! My boyfriend and I did not exactly plan this pregnancy. We have been together for three years so its not a bad thing or an unstable relationship but it feels more unstable now than it did before I found out I was pregnant. He does not do those little things like you were saying unless I ask him to. I would love for him to take more of an interest in the pregnancy, how I am feeling, the baby...all of that. He is scared and I don't think it is real to him because I am not showing and he has so many other things going on in his life. He doesnt know that although I am just as busy this baby is the #1 thing going on with me and I want to share it with him....but I feel like he won't let me.

Well, as a man, in both cases it's sounds as if you both need to talk to them, tell them that you want to talk to them and don't just be off. I know that if I'm not doing something that my fiancee would like, I'd like her to let me know how she's feeling. We have our arguments, I do alot of things and sometimes it feels like she isn't bothered about the things I do. The main thing that I want from my fiancee when I have done something that pleases her is for her to say thankyou and let me know how much better it makes her feel. I can't really give advice as I don't know the full extent of it, but I know I'm worried about being able to provide for my child and being able to give them what I didn't have... but also teach them the things I have learned from not having... I get worried about that alot. But yeah, I'd just make sure when you are unhappy that you make it clear. Good luck with your pregnancies.