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6 posts on this thread and the last post was on December 14th, 2006 1:28 AM
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 | Renee81 - December 6th, 2006 11:47 AM |
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Before me and my husband found out that I was pregnant our sex life was great...for 4 long years. Now what can I say...my hormones are all over the place and he refuses to have sex with me...just when I want it the most. His reason is that I now have a life in me and it just doesn't feel right....What I don't understand is that we found out that I was pregnant when I was 9 weeks and before we where having sex everyday...What should I do because I am lost....

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 | apr - December 6th, 2006 1:33 PM |
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sounds like the guy is jealous, but i'm just a woman. lets see what the guys suggest

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No no no not jealous, a lot of guys are scared of hurting it, or it just makes them feel weird that their child is RIGHT THERE haha. Why don't you just ask him, then you can reassure him he can't hurt it, if that's the case.

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 | Renee81 - December 6th, 2006 10:40 PM |
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Well I just think that it's crazy....I asked him what was the problem and he said that he just doesn't feel comfortable because I'm now carrying his child and he doesn't want to hurt our baby...Well I explained to him that he couldn't hurt the baby but he has to be gentle with me...nothing rough...DIDN'T WORK.....I guess with time he will come around..I don't want to pressure him.

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 | Keith - December 9th, 2006 10:09 AM |
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Hello Renee81 Next time you go to your doctors for a check up why don't you take your man with you? Get the doctor to explain the facts of life (in regards to 'is there sex while we are pregnant') Also point out to him that if he was going to 'damage' or hurt the baby in any way there would be millions of people all around the world with indents the shape of a dick in there heads or other parts of their body because daddy and mum had sex while they where Intro Uterus Regards Keith, dad of 2 Adelaide South Australia

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 | Renee81 - December 13th, 2006 12:44 PM |
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Thanks Keith I think that I will take your advice

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 | Felisha - December 14th, 2006 1:28 AM |
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renee81 dont forget to have the doctor tell him that it is a good workout for you while pregnant. it is coinsidered a cardovascular workout i think that also might help him come around good luck with getting some.

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