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3 posts on this thread and the last post was on February 27th, 2007 2:48 PM

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KatieMarie - January 22nd, 2007 12:06 AM

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I am 6 months pregnate, my and my partner are still together... lattly he has been doing things to stress me out and he knows this can hurt the baby..also he is always putting himself first. for example when i havent ate all day i ask him if we can go get something to eat and he will say well i dont want to or wait i have to do this first..then when he knows im waitin he takes his good ol time doing it....he has done things i dont agree with and i think he might be doing it because i cry alot rate now because of my emotions and he thinks he can get away with it..could this be because he is scared and got "cold feet" or is he just being a plain jerk and i should move on without him and just worry about my unborn baby.

charmy - January 24th, 2007 5:17 PM

he is just a plain ferk i would leave him and move on....

momma3tobe - January 27th, 2007 9:15 AM

Just leaving him and making you baby fatherless is not the best course of action. The hundreds of fatherless people in America will tell you that. Guys are dense and maddening at times, my husbands points out that I have hormonal issues right now every time I do anything besides smile... which is frustrating because I feel like he doesn't think I have valid feelings. The truth is, I do have mood swings and although I was perfectly content with him before I got pregnant, now I am needy and nitpicky and feel like he ignores my needs.
You need to tell him how you feel, and be honest, even though you might be emotional your feelings are real and valid and he needs to pay attention to them. I think it's hard for men to understand what happens with our minds and bodies during pregnancy. My husband told me flat out, don't hint around, just say it so next time say "Honey, I am starving and I want to go eat right now". If you ask, he thinks he has a choice LoL!

KatieMarie - February 27th, 2007 2:48 PM

thanks from you guys....good way to look at it momma3tobe!...thanks for the info

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