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No real man turns to porn when he has a wife at home....

See its starting to make me think that I'm not turning him on? What is with porn it does nothing for me?

When your wife won't touch you or care about your needs what are you going to do? I see it as better than going to a hooker or stranger.

I don't know, better than an affair, but still a means of avoiding reality. I say you tell your wife what you need and be upfront about it.

He is taken care of in the bed now I do have to say he doesnt watch it as much as when I first got with him. I think he may of just got so use to watching it because his ex was so square but I was just wondering how others felt of the subject of your husband watching this?? He would like me to watch it but I fall asleep.

I don't mind if my husband watches it or looks at pictures. I don't think it means I'm not doing enough for him...he just wants to see as many naked women as he can. I'd rather he watched videos or looked at pictures than went looking for the real thing.

I agree with JBear. I like to share it with him and comment on the girls or things going on in the pictures or movies and also can act them out and I think this makes him feel like he can be honest with me and enjoy our sex life to the fullest

To be frank, NO! Bringing other woman into the marriage in ANY form is not ok and detrimental. Besides, what message are you sending your wife? That she is not good enough to please you. When you feel the urge, look at the beautiful woman beside you.

Good grief... There is nothing wrong with looking - men are creatures of habbit - they will always look unless you put blinders on him - then he'll be resentful - what's the point in that? Let him look and get over it... He's home, he's safe, he still goes to bed with you - what else do you need??

I think it is okay..in fact my husband and I watch it together!!!! I would much rather him watch porn than go to a strip club or something!!!!!

My husband looks at porn and we also watch movies together. I know that my husband is not watching porn wishing he could have a chick who looks like a porn star...he's just watching to get off. I don't see a huge deal with it, but it really depends on the couple. You also have to be open and honest with how it makes you feel. Also ladies, who are sooo against it, keep in mind that in "real" life, these porn chicks wouldn't want your husbands anyways. I know that a lot of women are afraid that their husbands are wanting someone who looks like the girls on these movies, but it's just fantasy.

There is nothing wrong with a little porn as long as BOTH enjoy watching.

Hmm. My partner and i will watch a video on occasion. I dont see any harm in our situation. If i dont want to have sex, then we dont have sex. It works both ways. My family has always been open about sexuality and im a firm believer in sexual toys and aides. I think everyones case is special and if you want to know if you can watch porn then talk it over with your wife or partner.

I agree with missy. There's nothing wrong with that. My boyfriend and I watch it together. It keeps our intimacy exciting in a way. I rather him watch porn at home than go out to a strip joint or someplace like that.

What a couple, or threesome, or more do when having sex is OK as long as its consensual (I count watching porn together in order to "get off" as a form of sex). Personally, my b/f and I both think porn flicks are unaesthetic and faintly ridiculous. I mean, all those bimbos waving their silicone tits and asses in your face, being humped by sleazy tanned guys. And the invariable groaning....It's somehow so pathetic. Also, the acting and storylines are just sooo bad, it becomes unintentionally funny. I'd rather watch a good professional stripper/dancer any day. They're sexy, acrobatic and cool all at the same time!
By the way, if your man is watching pornos without being sure that you enjoy them too, it is not OK! It shows his lack of sensitivity and respect towards you.

I have no objections to regular porn, you know guy on girl, even with a little girl on girl mixed in. My b/f, however, was paying $30 a month to download 5 or 6 movies a day of this 19 year old, skinny brunette chick that did nothing except masterbate in front of a camera. So basically, he was getting off on another woman. I flipped out, he trashed his hard drive he had all the porn saved on and cancelled his subscription, and now, we have a tenative truce. I will watch porn with him, but I do not want him using another woman in any way for sexual graitification.