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Pregnancy<br>Tests

1 posts on this thread and the last post was on September 24th, 2004 5:06 PM
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Katie - September 23rd, 2004 9:04 PM
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I am 32 weeks pregnant and i am 17 yrs old. The father of my baby has said he was going to be there for me about four diffrent times throughout my pregnancy and then makes up some lame excuse to leave me and tell me to forget i even know him. He called me again today. What should i do? Should i tell him that if he done this soo many times there will never be an us in the future because i cant trust him...or should i just be more careful and make him call me and give me reasons to trust him again?


dymond - September 24th, 2004 5:06 PM

i am 17 and have a 2 month old baby girl. my bf, now my ex, did the same to me. i was 4 months b4 i found out i was preg and he was completely up for being a dad and becoming a family . then he decided that he wished for me to get an abortion, i said no so he left. then he came back once again saying he respects my decision and wants to make things work but after that call i didnt hear from himm for2-3 months. then here he comes again saying hes sorry and wants to be in her life(this is all b4 i gave birth) . i was finally fed up with him treating me like shit so i told him that if he didnt clean up his act and do what he needed to do this time then he wouldnt have another chance. the only reason he kept doing this and would have kept doing it was becuz i never took a stand and instead just let him do me as he wished. dont make that mistake. i am now raising my baby girl with my new bf and he loves her with all his heart. you and your baby deserve the best. i couldnt be happier. my babys father never did a thing for me or her during my pregnancy and since the day she was born when he called to see what hapened-i havent heard from him and i can truly say im glad i ahvent. my daughter deserves the best-not someone who just comes around when he feels like playing daddy for a day or two.
if you need to talk or w/e write me at livingadream@netscape.com
this time can be really stressful at times...dont do it alone.