• Week by Week
  • Sex and Pregnancy
  • Weight Gain
  • Exercise and Nutrition

New to the forum? Sign Up Here!

Already a member? Please login below.

Forgot your password? Need Help?  
Learn and Discuss About...

Pregnant Girlfriend

4 posts on this thread and the last post was on June 20th, 2008 6:45 PM
There are currently 4843 members logged in.
Patrck1281 - June 4th, 2008 1:02 PM
 [Original Post]

Ok, I am not sure where to begin. My girlfriend has two children already, five and six. We were planning on moving out of state this month, and she just found out she is about one month pregnant. She has been very irate to me, blowing up about everything. Like just twenty minutes ago, we were in the car, supposedly taking the kids bowling. She blew up about a song in the car that I liked, and started telling me how crappy I am, and that she didn't want to be with someone as crappy as me. Then she allowed her 5 year old son to agree with her and he called me a crappy dad. I immediately turned the car around and headed home. The entire time home she was going off about how she wanted me gone and stuff like that. I am not sure what to do, we are supposed to be leaving to move 2,000 miles away this Tuesday. ANYBODY PLEASE HELP ME!

clindholm - June 5th, 2008 12:24 PM

Wow, that's harsh. I know we all get very hormonal especially in early pregnancy and tend to fly off the handle a little quicker and cry about stupid stuff, but she is just being mean. I assume this pregnancy was not planned and she is not happy about it and it appears she is taking it out on you. I think this is beyond hormonal especially turning the kids on you. I wouldn't move anywhere with her (especially if it's further away from family) until you have a serious talk with her. Pregnancy is not an excuse to be a b*****.


Skyeblue - June 10th, 2008 3:20 PM

I think it is so so wrong to bring her children into it. Hormones are not an excuse to be abusive to her children. She needs to get help ASAP, therapy, counceling or something. What was she like before...? Has she ever shown this mean streak before...?

Patrck1281 - June 16th, 2008 7:38 PM

Well sorry I didnt get to these comments sooner, but we have now moved. Now she blames everything on me and is saying she wants to go back home(2,000 miles away). I am completely lost. No this pregnancy wasnt planned, ans she is crying a lot. I am soo lost.


MelissaP - June 20th, 2008 6:45 PM

have you both sat down and had a heart to heart? Maybe if you sit down and express your love and full support of her, it will help calm her fears.Let her get some issues off her chest and well. Together you can help to resolve them. I really hope everything works out for you two. And I hope she doesnt let her hormones get the best of her. You sound like a great, caring guy.