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My advice to you, is to not put out his clothes for him. He is taking advantage of you. Let him get his own clothes. If you and your husband don't come up with a compromise on chores and taking care of the kids, it sounds like things won't work out.

I understand the not helping around the house. My husband is the same way, and it is frustrating. He won't even take out the trash, the only thing he does is change the kitty litter, like every other week.

When it comes to him paying attention to your kids, I understand that too, but from the kids point of view. Before my Mom got a divorce from my Dad, my Dad didn't give us any attention. Let me tell you, that has effected both me and my sister. We have emotional issues because of it. My Dad really hasn't changed over the years. That is something I would deal with now, by having you and your husband go to counseling. Him hearing all of the things he is doing and not doing from someone else might help him see what damage he is causing.

Ha! I have heard that one...