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I just had a baby in February by a friend of mine i met back in april of last year. We were friends, and one thing led to another and we ended up pregant. Right before it happened, we were talking about kids and he told me he absolutely loved kids. So my question is why would a guy who absolutel y loves kids not want to be there for his own child? When i told him I was pregnant, he wanted me to get rid of it and when I didn't, he started saying the child wasn't his ( long before i even had him). Then to confuse me even more he went on askig about his baby and could he spend time whenever he wants and i told him yes he could and that I would never stop him from that. Next thing I know, his son arrives, and he is nowhere near trying to be there for him. Can somone please fill me in with your advice on what could possibly be going on with him. Why would a guy who loves kids and didn't have his own father there for him, do his own son like that?

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