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i just have to say if your husband is cheating on you while your pregnant not only is he hurting you but putting your unborn child and also you in danger with all the crap that is around these days and I am sorry but a woman that would sleep with a man she knew was married and had a baby on the way is a "ho" and if she is a "ho" then she prolly has all kinds of nasty things growing down there....My ex cheated on me now he is my ex I gave him no second chance I took my self to the doc and got checked out to make sure that jerk did not give me anything!! Now I am happily re-married and I know my hubby would not cheat on me not while I am pregnant and not ever he is just a good guy and when I am not feeling like it he has a nice magazine collection he can turn to ha ha lol that is his "other woman" and you know I can live with that!! good luck but I would say get rid of that bum...before he gives you what ever the skeevy slut he is sleeping with has!!

I'm tempted to say that every woman should have a blow up not pregnant replica of herself in the closet for their husband but I won't so that I won't offend anyone ... OOPS I already did sorry ... forgive me I don't know what I was thinking .

Hi, I just felt I had to put a word in here. I’m a first time Dad to be and very excited about it. I had to leave for work related reasons and I came back and she had totally changed. She said she was not sure she loved me any more, she did not late me have any say in picking out the babies stuff cribs close ext…. She went and bought a house and put it under her name and said if we ever get back together that I would have to look at it as paying rent because she would not put me on the house. This was a house we were suppose to have together. I tried everything to make it work, I tried to compromise on things but in so many words she said its my way or the highway. I’m really thinking of moving on but then I really want to be there for the kid. Is it wrong to want to move on? Now don’t get me wrong I will be there for the kid if I do leave. But it will be only a few hours a week and devastating child support. So either way she wins. If I stay she gets her pockets lined and if I leave she gets her pockets lined with my money. I have no problems supporting that kid but I don’t want her to profit off me. Especially if I only get a few hours a week. I don’t know what to do move on or stick around and try to make this work. Which will mean that I have to cave in and just let her do what she wants. What should I do!!!!!! help

what a bitch ! wish there was a way you could get your sperm back . you got robbed buddy . whew ! talk about getting robbed of your dignity . God doesn't make idiots but laws do . Try fighting back ? Damn what a shitty situation

PA law favors Women, it would be a long up hill battle with virtually no hope of winning any ground.

I favour women too and I hope you do too because women are best for child rearing ... it's a pretty hard thing to dispute even if a man could be supremely trained at child rearing we don't even have the right parts . I just think she sucks and I'd love to send her an e-mail to tell her how much of a bitch she is . anyway keeps ties with your little one and fight her if she wants to shut the door on that ... you won't loose .

sorry that your going thru that since i was just weeks pregnant he started chaeting yet we have been dating for over 8 yrs i believe he has never loved me cos if he did this shd hav been the most wounderfull thing so i hav considered quiting its all i can do .otherwise am dying of pain

My fiance (we were only engaged for two weeks, and got engaged on our daughter's 1st birthday on Oct 1st) just cheated on me with one of our friends and i'm 6 months pregnant again...but I'm moving out and going to do it on my own because i think it's not worth being with someone who really doesnt consider my position or how is actions affect us and our kids..so instead of kissing a mouth i dont trust i think i'm just going to tough out being a single mom at 19 and going to have two kids right before my 20th...i know its tough but do what you feel is best for you and your baby..

Hi Stacy~ My heart goes out to you... I'm sorry he's put you in this situation, but it's up to you to make the chage since he doesn't seem mature enough. I have read a lot of different books in relationships, love, parenting... A quote I value the most is "you are only responsible for 50% of the relationship, any relationship. Your partner has to meet you 1/2 way- you can only give 100% of your 50%- that's it, the other person has to meet you 1/2 way"... I recently read a book for dads to be since my husband and I are at the point of starting a family. I read a line that really stuck out to me "if you want to be a better dad, you first have to work on being a better husband- being a good dad will come from that..." My advice to you is keep your head up, don't take the blame...it sounds like you are saying that you gained 12lbs and now are not sexy enough to make love to- Bull Shit on that... Sounds like your husband is immature. You and your children would probably be better off in an environment w/out the tention his cheating will cause you. Good luck and be strong. Believe in yourself and listen to your heart, you'll make the right decision...

This sounds like a typical case of postpartum depression. It's very common and in some cases, the new mother gets "crazy" for a little while.

You may want to suggest that she sees a specialist although she will probably get very very mad after you mention that...

I have a few friends and acquaintances who went through this. One left her devastated husband for her dentist. Few months, she realized what she had done, saw a specialist and had to be put on drugs. SHe then came back and was lucky enough that her hubby understood.

I don't know what else to say...

To Stacy, I am not in your shoes but it sounds like you deserve much better... Men who cheat, cheat period. THey would wether you are pregnant or not.

I wish you the best of luck.

because wives are for breeding- girlfriends are for fun

Can we just let this thread die? It's been since July. I'm sure the original poster has moved on. I'm sick of seeing this in my inbox.

i think that men naturally take the woman they are in a long relationship with for granted. It dosent matter if its marriage or shacking up. The only time some men care, is if they think "if they slip up my woman will leave me". Your pregnant with your second child. He's not scared of you leaving him. It's called "taking someone for granted". They all do it. Not to the extreme of cheating but... that comes along with him not respecting you.

Strangely I was very attracted to my wife when she was pregnant with our daughter. It was almost a fetish, I had never really considered pregnant women attractive before making love to her while she was pregnant. Now it is sort of an addiction, whenever I see a pregnant woman I want to make love to her.

I'm sorry if your husband is cheating. My boyfriend thinks I'm more beautiful each time my belly gets a little bigger. He's a wonderful man! You absolutely deserve a wonderful man, too... and a partner who is realistic about life & women in general.

.... of course we will probably never find a actual cheating husband on this site... only the ones that think that pregnant women are hot would visit sites like this and post things.... the other ones (the cheaters) are obiously busy doing other things instead of being involved in pg.