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.... of course we will probably never find a actual cheating husband on this site... only the ones that think that pregnant women are hot would visit sites like this and post things.... the other ones (the cheaters) are obiously busy doing other things instead of being involved in pg.

My boyfriend told me when I was 7 months preggo that he found me[insert full body shiver here]. He wouldn't touch me once I was poking out over the top of my low rise jeans. He wasn't cheating with another woman, but he spent about a hundred dollars a month on online porn. It continued after I had our son, and it just got to me. I don't look like those girls, I never will, and my thoughts are, if he's window shopping for a corvette, he's not happy with the station wagon he has at home. I told him it was the pretty, perfect little whores on his computer, or me. He made his choice, and thankfully for both of us, he trashed his hard drive with the porn on it. Sometimes guys have to be smacked and told to be happy with what they have, instead of thinking there is something better out there. Don't mean to offend all the guys here who say they love pregnant women, but not all of us are that lucky to find one of you.

hi i am laura and i have a lovley fiance, but scince i have become pregnant i have become paranoid, i shoudent but my all my emotions are all up the wall, one second i am happy then sad then angry and its so confusing, i am just worried that he is going to get fed up with it and leave me, scince i have become pregnant he has his off days and just dont want to know me, i have been has nice as i can to him as its not just me going through with the change but he is as well, i just dont want him to fall out of love with me, i just feel that i dont have any control over my body.

Wives are not for only breeding. Ug you are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to mine. That comment is completely uncalled for. Cheating is never ok even if you do think wives are for breeding and girlfriends are for fun.

Okay. I am actually having sex with this really hot guy that HAS a pregnant wife. I have wanted to ask him why he waited until she was pregnant to cheat, but figured it was none of my business. The sex is ridiculously good. I mean REALLY good. He has all this built up sexual frustration because his wife has always hated sex. So I'm on the guys side on this one.Sorry girls. Don't kill me.

BS and Tim and some other guys, thanks so much for your honest answers. Not all guys cheat and there are guys who have other interests in life besides women to keep them busy. Of course men need and want sex as often as possible, but I would rather feel a little uncomfortable doing it with my husband then him feeling a bit let down so to save any risk, I think ladies its a good idea whereever possible to have sex during pregnancy. I think it also depends on the age of a guy and his maturity. there are so many men who literally have no clue out there and that is pretty worrying for their kids. A guy who is reasonable thinks about the consequences and possible outcomes of what he might get into. A guy who doesnt give a damm about nothing but himself is a selfish idiot who doesnt even deserve to be a father. if he cant look after you, how the hell can he look after a child?

Okay. I am actually having sex with this really hot guy that HAS a pregnant wife. I have wanted to ask him why he waited until she was pregnant to cheat, but figured it was none of my business. The sex is ridiculously good. I mean REALLY good. He has all this built up sexual frustration because his wife has always hated sex. So I'm on the guys side on this one.Sorry girls. Don't kill me.
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Cool you sound like an 18 year old who is being used by some idiot to keep him busy while his wife is pregnant. have you ever been pregnant?? sounds like probably not so good luck when you are and if your guy cheats on you I am sure you will be loving it!

Im sorry for your unfortunate situation. I am 26, my girlfriend is 25yrs old. We have been together for almost 3yrs and are expecting in may. My answer to the reason why guys cheat is because they are either not getting it at home or because they are weirded out by their "unattractive" pregant wife. In my case, I have not cheated on my girl, but I have been tempted, to because im not receiving any form of sexual satisfaction at home and this is driving me crazy becauase I am very attracted to my lady and would like to have sex, but she stays mad at me 24/7 which prevents the sex and in the earlier stages, she just was not feeling like having sex. I don't know if this helps answer your question. In my case, the reason why someone like me would cheat would be because of the lack of satisfaction at home. She makes no effort to have sex with me.

I'm in the same situation as mokakpu. Look ladies, it's all well and good for you to say "hate that man because sex isn't important, only the emotions." But if that were the case, then you wouldn't care if your man cheated as long as you were getting the emotional satisfaction.

I'm trying to support my wife in every way I can. I do extra housework, do any kind of lifting, nightly massages, and I don't even bother her for sex, apart from the bi-weekly request, "maybe tonight?" I haven't gotten any in 7 months. I've actually been debating finding someone to just have a release with. Honestly, it's fucking frustrating.

I've never cheated on my wife, and before this long ass stretch of time would never have considered it. Now, I can't really say.

And for all you ladies who say "oh, the man is awful for cheating and men are dogs" bla bla: studies have shown that at least 50% of women cheat on their husbands, and typically it's during a job change. Ponder that while you accuse us of being the weaker sex.

why men cheat during pregnancy? well i don't think its to do with women appearing more "unattractive" wwe arn't THAT shallow.

However i will tell you what i think from personal experience although i havn't cheated and never have on anyone...yet.

ok firstly the sex stops and i dont just mean sex i mean all activity associated with it too (even kissing or god forbid cuddling)

then theres the being ignored 24/7 no i,m not going overboard . Literally 24/7.

And finally if i dare to speak and challenge her ignorence the once mild mannered girl i met 3 years ago that would never swear or call me a name now resembles the girl out of the exorcist . This is what i got 5 minutes ago :- i fu**ing hate your guts you little Dic*ed ugly tw**t no wonder you havnt had many girlfriends look at the state of you you ska*k ( not to mention bringing up the darkest most painful memories from my past ). she also shoved me threatened to hit me and very nearly did . You may think this is isolated incident ..... no. it isnt . would i cheat??? too right i would

I've just read all four pages of this thread thus far and there are so many valid points. A lot of it is an age old problem NOONE understands the problems of the other side, at least not completely. For that matter we dont make their problems matter as much as we need to. My S.O. is 3 .5 months pregnant and I cant remember the last time I got so much as a kiss let alone sex (oral or otherwise)!! It really is driving me crazy, we've been together for 2 yrs and im not going to cheat on her but if I were the type now would definitely be the time I would. I've been cheated on in the past so I will never make my babe feel that kind of pain and betrayal.

Now then, I can COMPLETELY understand why some men WOULD cheat. I know there are many that will sympathize with this. When you are made to feel like you no longer matter then you will automatically want to find a way to feel like you matter again!! That goes for sex affection, companionship the whole 9 that make up a relationship.


My S.O. still love me but in her own words "you always irritate me and its not even anything that you do". When you are told things like this and are never given any kind of the treatment that you are used to its NATURAL to feel bad about it and want a change. I understand that you all are tired and get sick alot and ache and have hot flashes and temper boil overs believe me I do.

I think its still important to remember that the men in your lives are still people to and we still need love, affection, comfort, companionship and yes the magic pill, sex.

Thats just my .02. More to the point. Its frustrating as he!! because I do EVERYTHING around the house, all of the laundry, all of the dishes, litter box, trash, breakfast(for her, i dont have time), dinner (when I get home early 4nights a week), cleaning the bathrooms, groceries, EVERYTHING and I still work a very stressful 50 hrs/wk I do everything I can to support my love. I even slice up fruit for an after work snack for her daily. I dont know what more can be done and I cant even get a simple kiss to make me feel special god forbid i even make a JOKE about sex. Then I get the "everything is sex with you" line... news flash if it was as you say I WOULDNT BE HERE!!!

So trust me I can whole heartedly see why some men would do it because I know for a fact that im not the only man on these forums going through this ive read way to many posts that are almost exactly like mine as proof. With all that said I still cant imagine cheating on her.

Okay, I have a question for all of you...Why do you breed? I'm genuinely curious. What on earth would compel intelligent human beings to bring a child into this terrible world? It's a very selfish thing to do really. Why?!?
It's just like "Idiocracy". I think vasectomies & tubals should be required if your I.Q. is under say 130 - 39..I mean c'mon - you're caring for a child not goldfish! And for the people who some how slip past the sterilization radar and conceive - MANDATORY ABORTIONS all around!!
I'm just kidding you guys!=) Keep ruining your bodies and sex lives...keep spitting out children this world doesn't need. It's neat! If it weren't for people, we wouldn't have things like global warming and nuclear holocausts!
Kids - they're full of surprises. We should place bets on which one of your bastard children will grow up to be a serial killer, or a rapist. DON'T WORRY - chances are your children will end up as mediocre as the people who created them (at best)... never asking, never answering... just coasting along like a bunch of brainwashed cattle who's soul purpose is to eat, shit, and breed.

i thought i would do an update on my situation.

Not only has my girl friend ( sorry , now ex girlfriend) had another crazy outburst she also just chased me into the room nearly knocked the door off the hinges and punched me three times n threw my music stand at me . i told her to leave then she slapped me a further 3 times. ok i have not cheated but shes looking for alternate accomadation as i'v kicked her out .

"threw my music stand at me"

Good for you! A women wouldn't take that kind of abuse - you shouldn't either.

See what I mean...
Breeding - people shouldn't.