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Well, It's really kind of hard to tell. Do you think he will be honest if you try to talk to him about it? My husband did something like that to me while i was pregnant. He was looking for someone to sleep with on one of those singles websites, I found his profile and he denied it until he was blue in the face, but I still wouldnt take no for an answer because I knew I was right. After about 3 hours he gave in, and told me everything. Now we have full on honest conversations that help us get though everyday stuff. If i get angry at him for something, I dont yell I say hey....we need to talk now. andhe does the same. Sexually we also have conversations. Once you get over feeling embarrassed its really easy to talk to someone. Especially a signifigant other. My advice, get some proof first before accusing him. Maybe talk to him and tell him you are feeling alone, or uneasy about ihm leaving early and see what his reaction is.

I know how you feel..I found a paper in my husbands bible and it had an e-mail account and password signed up with his name..i did'nt say anything i just sat the paper out so he would see that i knew..He said well you should'nt have been snooping i was'nt i wanted to read his bible..needless to say the e-mail accounts contained numerous amounts of profiles for sites that was upsetting to me,he had made profiles to personal ads and searching for people to meet.This was devestating to me of course he said at the time he had made the profiles we was going through a tough time,but we had also just found out i was pregnant when he made them.Still i find other personals accounts he's made..it hurts me alot and still bothers me wether we was having trouble at the time.I'd rather him tell me to leave or him leave me than for him to make accounts such as those he had made.I guess my advice is to watch your husband,be very nice to him and comforting and if that does'nt help then i would follow him one morning and see where it is he goes.

Wow Tara, that's kind of scary your husband created personal ad accounts. Especially when those things cost money. I would be so hurt too. But, at least he was honest and didnt hide it, but still I'd be a little nervous if I were you. You're right though, if he doesnt want it to work out he should tell you instead of going behind your back and searching for other women, almost as if he wants a back up or something. good luck