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Fiances 14 And Pregnant, Im 19

264 posts on this thread and the last post was on March 17th, 2009 8:38 AM
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rachel - February 27th, 2006 7:24 PM

hey danny u sound like a great guy supporting her and the twins. im 16 and ive been trying to get pregnant since 14 cause my sister lost hers hope to hear from u soon if u have an email addy u can give it to me and we can talk


SweetMotherOfJesus - February 27th, 2006 11:17 PM

Tiffany: It is my concern when someone takes advantage of a 12 year old girl. I hope you think it wouldn't be anybody's concern if you got raped. It has been established that physically a girl at age 14 can in most cases give birth to perfectly healthy babies. I'm giving my opinion on what I consider an abuse on a little girl. I see a lot of young girls posting here about getting pregnant at ages where you should be worried about school and sports. I'm not an old guy but I'm old enough to see past the blindness that love at that age is. Life is tough, life with a kid is tougher. I speak out of experience, I got married very young (I was 20 at the time) and I thought that I was prepared for everything, life tought me that I was wrong. It was hard, very hard, to go to college while having to provide for a family. Perhaps when you grow older you will be able to understand why some of us see this relationship with disgust.


coda - February 27th, 2006 11:47 PM

its none of our buissness thou yeah he asked for support not abuse these babys are probably born now and in this world so i wish them all the best. and sweetjesus dont be so patronising u dont know how old tiffany is and it does not matter nessaserly how old u are i am 22 and i have probably seen and done more than u have in ur life ! so lets just drop it danny aint posted in here for a while so i would say this thread is dead



SweetMotherOfJesus - February 28th, 2006 12:02 AM

Coda said: " i am 22 and i have probably seen and done more than u have in ur life !". I really doubt it. And even though its true that I dont know Tiffany's age, she sure sounds very young. You sound very defensive, you went through something similar and want to rationalize it? There are laws against this type of behaviour, they are there for a reason. The well being of a child (both the mother and the baby in this case) IS EVERYBODY'S BUSINESS!. If you want to justify your behaviour, thats one thing, but don't tell me its nobody's business but theirs. When they are old enough to make mature decisions and legally aquire the right to do so then they can do as they please. In the meantime society (all of us) should be looking after children so they don't get abused like this little girl.


coda - February 28th, 2006 12:12 AM

no . my big sister had a baby at 16 and has bi polar depression . my dad use to emotionally abuse us i left home at 16 bought my own house at 18 moved to australia last yr. from scotland i work in care i see some horrible stuff every day i work with deaf/blind dysabled kids , have worked in mental instatuest believe me i have seen alot dressed my first dead body at 16 these things stay with u for life. i dont need to justify myself to u thou i dont need to justify myself to anyone i just think that life is presouse and we should not holler abuse at others because we dont agree with them. life is too short and she was 14 not 12 . at 14 i was lookin after my bi sisters baby while she was out partying thats why i said its life experance not age that counts . i know alot of ppl my age who have lived sheltered lives but i was not one of them i had to grow up fast. see u dont know what goes on in other ppls lives so just think b4 u jude ppl this is suppose to be a suport group not to pick on ppl and make them feel more fritened or scared than they probably already are.


anne - February 28th, 2006 1:06 PM

sounds like dannyboy duped you guys. i hate when ppl post crap to start fights :(


SweetMotherOfJesus - February 28th, 2006 3:45 PM

" see u dont know what goes on in other ppls lives so just think b4 u jude ppl this is suppose to be a suport group not to pick on ppl and make them feel more fritened or scared than they probably already are". 1. I don't know you or anyone else on this web site, I'm not assuming anything from anybody. You posted a brief resume of your story and it seems that you think that what you have gone through or seen is bad? I've seen lots worst. 2. You say that this is a support web site, well I'll tell you what I support:I support no child abuse. She is 14 now but she was 12 when she started dating this guy and it seems that she was being sexualy active at that early age.



steph - February 28th, 2006 3:54 PM

i think you need to focus on being parents before you get married... young love changes... you are 19...think about how much different you were when you were 14...


krazy - March 1st, 2006 1:04 PM

well danny it should be ok i'm not going to lie to you i'm 14 and I had a baby girl in aug. and it turned out right and I'm stell with the father but you shouldn't worry I belive she will be ok .


wtf people - March 1st, 2006 11:29 PM

sweetmotherofjesus, i completely agree with you.


SweetMotherOfJesus - March 1st, 2006 11:56 PM

wtf people: Thanks, glad to know I'm not alone.


LMAO@ YALL - March 5th, 2006 10:14 PM

The girl been had the babies. He never posted any pics and you all still going. Its clearly a lie. Lol if any of you participated in a spelling bee. And god forbid stay in school education is important. Get the spelling part down before you try to have sex and make a baby. Thanks for you cooperation, carry on......


hannah - March 12th, 2006 11:23 AM

ye she will be ok but y get her up the duff at 14 u absolute tard have u never heard of protection? + ur like 19


jackie123 - March 13th, 2006 12:27 PM

all i have to say is she sounds like she will physically be fine but you need to make sure that you are committed to her and that baby for the long hall and trust me it will be hard its harder than anyone ever thinks it will be trust me i dont condone teen pregnancy but as long as her parents know and your there for her which it sound like you are than good luck and i wish you both the best


Nikki - March 13th, 2006 1:36 PM

Well you cant really say if some one will be ok or not but all you can do is hope.


jackie123 - March 13th, 2006 2:19 PM

and by the way danny i want you to know that nobody is abusing you in here some of us are just older and have experianced life a little more and we are just trying to tell you that this is going to be hard but its also a beautiful thing and i respect and commend you for taking care of your fiancee and her unborn baby good luck to you and your fiancee hun