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Truly that is the STUPIDEST thing in the world. 1st of its illegall its called statitory RAPE.. And 2nd of neither of you are old enough and apparently not mature enough to even THINK about taking care of a baby.A baby is hard work and being 14 and in labor is hard and makes it much more likely to KILL her. Im 14 my son is 1 so please listen to me. Im not saying give it up or abort it.DO NOT DO THAT. But im just warning you that this is gonna be hard. Take extreme precaution with her and be carefull of her mood swings that are sure to come around. Good Luck

well i think that she will be okay if she really wants the baby and as long as you stick by her with her baby cause she will need you

K guys... let this post go. It's been a year and a half.... She's had the baby already. This was probably a BS post anyway.

i know this is LONG done but i just have to comment on this...GROSS! this is the same situation that my sons dad was in, not with me with another girl, and lets just say that no one is happy in that situation. You should ahve wrapped the tool

I was reading the whole story. I think I do not sopport dating a 12 year girl and making a 14 years PG. But we can not change it anyway can we. So sending some one jail or telling bad words is not the answer.If the person wants to take responsibility let him take it. I saw laots of small gairls and older guys are having sex. It is bad to have sex that young but no one is shouting at that. I think some how it is the fault of the socity and parents too. We should not allow having sex that young. personal freedom is good but not till you become 18. so it is parents responsibility also to give the proper teaching to their daughter and son. The school is also responsible. I think we need a strong school system with school uniforms and no makeup please. the dicipline and very strict education will make people not able to spend times in some where else. I remenber when i was yeoung the home work and compititin was so tough that we heardly had any time for anything. never the less my parents were also very strict. anyway to the person who is shouting and telling bad word is also not a well educated and nice person. I think he is changing the name does not change the way of writing something. when somethig is already done it is stupidity not to solve that and create some more problem. anyway just to danny please take care of this girl but do every thing leagally from now on and teach your childer to do the same too.

It is defenitely the parent's responsability to take good care of their kids. If they had been doing their job then chances are the girl wouldn't be pregnant at 14. However we are dealing with a guy that is 19 (probably 20 by now) so basically an adult that should be responsable enough to NOT engage in sex with a minor, which in most places is a crime, I don't know perhaps in some place on this earth it is OK to have sex with children. If one commits a crime then justice should be applied, this guy basically abused a child.

ya i know it is not right. but what can you do once it already happened. I saw lots of girls and boys are really young and getting PG. I do not feel good. if the boy is 16 years also the problem is the same. I saw lots of 14 year girls are so mature and tring and fighting for 20 years boy even the boy is not ready and do not want any relationship. So basically you do not know unless you are there. I think 14 years of girls even 18 is not right to have sex with anyone. A 20 year boy can get arracted with a younger girl but if the restriction is very strong then there will be no problem. Anyone under 18 sould be ban for having sex and the punishment shoud be strong if cought or known. Boy and girl both. I think mental punishment is good like tell in the scool that she or he is bad and noone talkes with them kile that. So people will be concern and there will be no prooblem. Once you are 18 and standing on your own leg mens supporting yourself in different house than your parents you can have a choice of you own and you can do anything what you want. then it will be diiferent. I was reading that lots of guys do not even want to consider that their GF is PG. They just runaway. Go to the teenpg section you will see them. After reading those stuff I just freacked out. I always wanted a girl but now i want a boy, because the responsibility og the girl is lot more than a boy. If I have a girl she is going to a private girls school with high fence around it. and getting very small amount of pocket money to buy makeups and no outside without daddy or mommy till 18 and no dating till 18. I am going to be a very very strict and bad momey. Even if I got a boy the strictness will be same. "if you are eating my food you have to do waht I want.Period."

All women are "tight" down there before having children. It has absolutely no effect on her delivery. You sound very naive and frankly not ready to be getting yourself into this very life altering situation.

Danny...here's a thought...how about you make sure she finishes school...and you should go back to school because no offense but your spelling and grammer is horrible, what kind of role model are you going to be for your child? you wont be able to help him/her with home work. or learning to read or write when you barely know yourself...

i think she will be okay. im 19 and i have been doing good. havent had any complications at all. being young is kinda good. have less high blood pressure and stuff if she takes care of her self. congrats.

for all still posting and responding to this, IT IS A 1 1/2 YEAR OLD THREAD!!!!! Please read through before looking silly!!!!

exactly, lawlady!! and it's well past October... Has "danny" posted to let everyone know about their baby???

I believe the benefit of this thread goes beyond the original poster. If any other kid reads it and benefits from it then so much the better. What has been posted is in the most good advice and at least awarness of some problems that can be prevented.

I am 15 my bf is 16 he proposed to me about 5months ago. I dont think you should worry all that much but it is good to see a young dad that is standing by her side:P:P I also planned my pregnancy with my bf:P its good to know im not he only young one. Just try to be there for her as best you can. I think sh ewill be ok if you wanna talk more add me to yahoo perfect_innocent_angel69@yahoo.com

I htink everything will be ok for you guys and its good to see that you are supporting her

Hi Danny! I am a sixteen year old that is currently 29 weeks pregnant. I won't knock on you at all for the age difference, because my finace and I have a gap too. We also believe that age is just a number, I can't believe I found someone who loves me as much as I love him. I definitly give your girl props for decieding to have a child so early. Honestly I am freaking out lol. I think she will be ok. That was a big concern for my finace and I also, will I be ok you know. But like the others said many girls have done it at the age of fourteen. Just make sure she gets all the proper prenatal and perhaps beyond. I just hope you are as commited as you say you are, but it definitly sounds like you love this girl. I hope her parents don't decide to freak out on you all of a sudden. My dad doesn't know my fiance either. But is helping me through the adoption process anyways. I also realllllly hope you don't get in trouble. Age of consent in my state (Michigan,us) is 16 also. So good luck, and if she ever has any questions tell her to post on the teen pregnancy forum or hit me up on my piczo site. www.piczo.com/XluftblasenX.