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hey danny! well although at her age most girls are not ready to have a baby, most teenagers these days are confronted to make sexual decisions in 6th 7th and 8th grade! i know i did. For those of you who say that you would put the pervert away if he went out with your daughter. well many young girls that i see at the mall couldn't stop from flirting with older boys. it is so easy to spot the 14 year olds at the mall. you know the 3 friends holding eachother by their arms and wearing a lot of lip gloss. Most parents let their 14 year olds go to the mall by themselves, but most parents don't realize that the mall is the number one place to meet up your "boyfriend" a 14 year old boy or a high school student. most girls or like some people in here call them "child". they go there to flirt and get the phone numbers of "cute guys" i know that its different times and that girls now have the advantage of going to school and grow up and have fun, but think back in time two or three generations back girls at 14 were ready to get married and have children, most of the time with an older man! this couple shouldn't be judged for their age but rather the mans courage to stick with his woman. she will be a woman once she gives birth no matter how old she is.
To: Danny, tell your girlfreind that i wish her the best of luck and to try to get as much sleep as she can now. i have a 2month old and i wish i had listened to the sleeping thing. you are very brave for sticking around some 20 somethings don't even stick around(cowards) and for you try to be very understanding this last months it is getting very uncomfortable for her! get her as many pillows as possible, rub her tired feet and massage her back, it helps so much. have yuu thought of names for the twins? are they boy or girl? if you don't mind me asking! if you have any questions after you have your babies post up here and ill be glad to answer them.

Thank you for your post Brenda!
And we are having twin boys, we love the names Kyre and Leo, and always have done, so our babies will most likely be called those names.
Im doing everything I can to make my girl comfortable, wont let her do anything to strain her! Shes doing very well, shes very tired all of the time even if she has 12 hours sleep a night, but that was expected. Were both really happy though! She's not having a C-section by the way, she really wanted to, but the doctors have told us that unless theres a problem that she should have them vaginally. Shes quite worried about the pain at the moment, but shes been told to think that after all the pain she will be blessed with two beautiful boys in her arms! Thanks again for your post! Not long now! x

Congrats! I had my first baby at 16 and my second at 17 and I am married to their father. I also have 2 boys. I am still 17 and My husband is 22. About 3 months after I'm 18 he will be 23. We are very happy together and love our family. Don't let people tell you different about you can't be in love that young because you can. I have actually loved my husband since I was 12 and he was 17 and the best man and I was the maid of honor at my sisters wedding. We weren't together then of course but shortly after I turned 15 we started dating and Then I got pregnant (not planned but hey it happened and we wouldn't change it) then again just 2 months after our first we got pregnant again. We would never change it for anything but it is hard. We love each other though and our boys and the home we made together. If all you people think that we are bad for starting things early, guess what? My aunt got married to my uncle when she was 14 and he was 21. Today she is 48 I believe and they are still together and in love. Good luck to you and your family Danny.

Danny, I’ve been in your shoes buddy. Although that was quite a few years ago for me, I still remember it as if it were yesterday. When I was about to graduate high school at the ripe age of 17, I hooked up with a girl (just like you described about yours). She was HOT, well filled out, and her demeanor obviously displayed something way older than what she really was. She had previously dated a friend of mine. Later on, we started dating me. Well...a weeks after that, she was PREGNANT! Anyway, time went by, ultrasounds came and went, and they all said the same thing.....she was too far along for the baby to be mine. Being that I was young, I married her anyway. We went through the whole birthing process and she came out a winner just like any other woman would. The female body is an absolute wonder – it can do some amazing things. Don't worry about birth because I KNOW she’ll do just fine......trust me. Danny, I also know what it’s like to marry a girl that young as well and I know what you’re going through, so don't hesitate to post your question(s) here......nobody knows who you are. I’ll keep checking in often for your response.

One more thing and don't take this negatively please....I am older than you still, and what I know NOW has everything to do with it. This girl IS TOO YOUNG for you. You may feel as if she is the whole world to you. There is nothing wrong with love, but I know this Danny....she will break your heart. She looks mature on the outside, but I promise you she’s not on the inside. I’ll bet a million dollars other people have told you this already, but I’m speaking from real experience. She hasn’t had the privilege of experiencing and learning from love and heartbreaks like all the rest of the 30 year olds out there have been through. Remember when you were 14? Do you really think YOU knew what you know NOW? Don’t kid yourself man! Don't commit to this girl, BUT take responsibility for what you have helped create. That’s all I’m gonna say.

hmmm thats..... interesting. good luck to you both but wow. im 19 and cant even think of having a baby yet. when i was 14 i didnt even think of a baby let alone such a serious relationship like that. when your 14 your supposed to be thinking about homework and absences in school and shopping with your friends, not changing diapers and feeding your baby. well, good luck anyway.

Hi it's Jen Dannys girlfriend I thought I'd post a message on here regarding "concerned" msg. I'd just like to say that after you've obviously read some msgs on here if not all, that I thinks it's bad of you to have wrote to my finace "Don't commit to this girl". The bad bit being that your suggesting to my finace the man who loves me and cares for myself and my wellbeing that he shouldn't commit to me (even though we've both already commited to eachother, and everyone already knows that), were going to be having our twins together very shortly and your saying he shouldn't commit to me? Only a coward of a man would leave a girl who he got pregnant to raise her baby/babies by herself. I'm sorry but in my opinion I was disgraced by hearing that, especially by you already being aware of how much were in love with eachother! And I know the stories, everyone does, of couples who get together young and have babies and think they are so in-love and think they'll be together forever and then a few years down the line they break-up or get divorced, and their babies are left without a parent unit, well I can promise and tell everyone on this forum that this isn't going to happen to us and for anyone who is thinking in their minds that that will happen to us, well quite frankly either of us don't care, because at least in our minds we no the truth. When my boyfriend proposed to me by me saying yes I was agreeing on making a long life commitment to him, and thats something that I wouldn't even think of breaking. Now me and Danny have been through a lot together, good times and bad times, and we haven't gone through all of that to throw it all away now or ever. We've always supported, cared for and loved eachother and It's always going to be that way for us. Some couples won't be as lucky as myself and Danny to have such a strong and loving relationship, thats why I am so thankful that I have that with him! Also, people have posted msgs on here saying that Dannys stupid for being with me, because I'm young and he shouldn't of got me pregnant etc, etc... but just think of this, there are plenty of girls in here not knowing what to do, feeling depressed, upset and used, because their boyfriends have left them when finding out they were pregnant, but even though my man might be older than me, at least he has stayed by me from the moment we found out I was pregnant, some girls aren't so fortunate and I'd just appreciate people bearing that in mind. Sorry for being so harsh "concerned" but I just really don't agree with that one thing you said. Many thanks to everyone elses posts, I try to read them when I can (but mainly Danny does) because I'm resting all of the time now, because the babies are nearly due! Thanks again, take care everyone. XxX

Hi everyone again, would just like to say to "mommy" thank you for your post it was lovely hearing from you. It so nice to hear that after you and your husband had to baby boys together young that your still happy together and have a loving family, and that's exactly what we want! We really are in-love and nothing or know one will ever change that. thank you again "mommy". By the way everyone, were hoping to post pictures on a website of the labour and after pictures of the babies, so if anyone would like them just ask, and I'd be happy to forward the address to you, once we've go the photos! Well me and Jen are very excited now, the babies are nearly due! Her tummys so big! I love stroking it for her, as I know my babies are in their! The thought of it makes me so emotional! Anyway I'll keep everyone posted, thank you again from me and Jen for you replys. Bye for now,

so young and naive... forever is a long long time...

Danny never asked you idiots for input on his relatonship. What he asked was if his girlfriend whom he loves dearly will be ok. First of all you dont know danny or his girl and cant even presume to know what they are going or have been through. I hate people like you that ONLY LOOK AT THE SURFACE. Why dont you use your brains and then respond to this man who is trying to do the right thing instead of imagining your daughters and nieces in this situation and lashing out at danny. Danny you have to be careful what you tell us foolish Americans somtimes. We dont always think with our heart and often times imgine ourselves in situations and giving advise as opposed to hearing YOUR situation. When Danny writes the book on his life feel free to give criticism having known more of the situation untill then JUST ANSWER HIS QUESTION!!!!!!

shut the hell up! please!!

Are you another one of those fools waiting to attack danny? Then you shut the hell up!!!!

in response to you, voice of reason, i agree with you yes but sometimes you have to think with your brain instead of just your heart. raising a baby is a big deal especially when your 14 or 15. im not saying its wrong or whatever but instead of thinking only of "love" and what not why not think of the responsibility that this girl and her bf will have. at 14 how in the heck do you even know what you want with your life? its like college, peopel change their majors all the time bc they just dont know yet and thats when your 18 or 19 or sometimes even 20. when your 14 i think its a little hard to make a reasonable decision about "FOREVER". im not saying its impossible for you guys to be happy danny and the gf, but it wont be easy raising a baby. especially 2 babies.

So what would you have this man do?..........Why discourage a man before a big step in life instead of modivating him? Surely a pat on the back is better than a kick in the butt. This is not somthing hes deciding to do this is somthing that is done. So the time for criticism has passed and the time for modivation is at hand. I wish you the best of luck Danny, And any other man with a minor whose not pregnant reading this feel free to read these critical post.

well theres nothing you can do now, the babies are almost here. not much you can do and yeah i agree with you on saying that all these people shouldnt be criticizing him so harshly just because it already happened, but im just saying that i just cant comprehend how a 14 and a 19 yr old can honestly say its gonna be forever and then decide to get pregnant bc of "forever". when i was 14 i was writing all over paper me + matt= 4EVER. remember the days? it just seems to me this should have been thought through just a teensy bit more than just ok i love you lets have a couple kids.

Yes you are correct things should have been thought out better. I COMPLETELY AGREE and danny he should know better and picturing a 14 year old girl with a 19 year old isnt right and it will be hard I agree with all those points but its just to late its done we cant afford to tell this man to leave her.In a world where doing the right thing is a myth the truth is we need all the dannys we can get. And yeah we dont know what the future holds for young Danny but we also dont even know if we will be here tommorow. Lets slow down and take things day by day.

Side thought: When I said we could use all the Dannys we could get I didnt mean Men who go for younger girls and I want to clarify that because I can tell by the vibe in this room It will be used agaist me later.